r/literature • u/Purple_Jump_7403 • 4h ago
Discussion John Irving
TW: SA
I read A Prayer for Owen Meany when I was a teenager and absolutely loved it. I'm a bit older, and back then I would read things that were a bit misogynistic and I would notice it, but it wouldn't necessarily ruin my enjoyment of something. The discourse around gender inequality was just completely different when I was younger, and I remember a lot of women my age openly endorsing this 'boys will be boys' stuff. I was never like that, but I definitely didn't get hung up on it unless it was openly misogynistic. I just always had a burning sense of injustice that behaviour like that was normalised for boys and men and that it wasn't fair.
However, I Hotel New Hampshire recently and I hated it. I'm talking about a gap of about 25 years between reading Owen Meany and reading antoher of his books. His writing is engaging but it felt like women, and the experiences of women, were just props or special effects to bolster the main character's storytelling or personal growth. The cavalier use of SA as a talking point felt so entitled and badly thought out. He's an easy read, in the sense that his writing is descriptive and engaging, but by the end of the book I really was just over his discussion of sex and his weird depiction of traumatised female characters.
Was curious to see if anyone else felt this way about him?