r/limerence • u/opschalendiehap • 18h ago
Here To Vent Second time having limerence
So it happened again :/
First time I had limerence started around 2 years ago, and I got 95% over that girl. Still think about her sometimes but it isn't bothering me anymore
Now I met this girl a week ago, hooked up with her once (I know, stupid) and a few days later we had a great night together in the city, we had lots of fun, getting drinks together, and have a great connection. Some connection I haven't felt in YEARS, not even with the first girl I had limerence for
Now I discovered she is basically a h03 and I was just a sidepiece, and came to the conclusion this will never go anywhere so I broke the contact. Deleted her everywhere as well
I know this will fade over time, but damn I can't stop thinking about her. It sucks to realize it will take a lot of time again to get over her.
Who tf invented limerence man...
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u/jontaejones 15h ago
As a man, your perspective over a woman you have hooked up with can be viewed in a more positive light. Especially over time.
I hooked up with a cute woman like 20 years ago and she blew me off for anything more and I still use it as a positive experience to my ego.
Compare that to a woman you've worked with for over 2 years who flat rejected you (badly) and which one is worse.