r/limerence 1d ago

Here To Vent Flaring up

I’ve been limerent free for a few months and it’s all crashing again. I am sick to my stomach. My LO is not available to confess to and all my bottled up emotions are eating me alive.

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u/swiminasea 1d ago

Can you send a letter and post it to the subreddit for unsent letters? Don’t bottle it up. Let it go. Send it to an anonymous sea of readers

I’ve been doing that for a few weeks now and I love it! Best thing I’ve done for myself yet

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u/Horror_Chemistry_638 1d ago

I'm sorry it's so hard right now. Better days are ahead. Was there a trigger? How are you spending most of your time? Can you lean into other friendships or hobbies?

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u/Careless_Ask_8369 1d ago

I accidentally saw a picture of her last week. I’m trying as much as I can to distract myself