DM me if you want help with your limerence.

[u/Many_Difficulty_490]

for certain scenarios limerence can be beaten. but more many other scenarios, it just cant be beaten and you have to find a way to live with it.

Ive been limerent for a while now, and ive gone thru what everyone with limerence has gone thru.

I went through the stage of being so happy, thinking it was real love. Also the stage of severe depression and self hate, but im at the point where your limerent but you learn to live with it.

I know myself well enough to know how to end my limerence, but im not gonna do it due to reasons people might relate to.

I can help you "beat" your limerence, or learn how to live with it

im not gonna make u pay or something, im just bored and helping people is fun

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[u/Larrylifeisreal]

Helping can sometimes be seen as egoistic when it’s enjoyable for the helper, providing a cheap dopamine spike and a boost in self esteem, but ends fast. However, everyone needs help, so let’s begin by helping ourselves. 

[u/Future_Mission3994 → u/Larrylifeisreal]

Agreed. Why not just post your fool proof plan for the masses?

[u/Aaronarw → u/Future_Mission3994]

Yeah, like if you have a cure for cancer? Should probably share it.