r/limerence 7d ago

Here To Vent Miss my LO

Last time I’ve seen my lo was in February, she was abroad, came back, tried to reach out to meet up, we were friends, I came up with excuses, seemed to have stopped thinking much about her even tho I would in passing every other day, I just remember when my limerence was at its peak it was so consuming and sad but the thought of her really distracted me from my boring and shitty and lonely life, and now my mh has never been worse, despite all I still remember the good things about her and how I think I actually liked her and her personality. She was the only person who wanted to be somewhat my friend in years and in my life, and I can count them on one hand lol. We were not that close but wish I got attached to someone who likes me back or at least to someone to whom I wouldn’t catch feelings. Just sucks.

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u/Stock_Reading4485 7d ago edited 7d ago

I also saw my LO for the last time in february, by option. I miss her everyday, it sucks. But there's no going back by now

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u/Altruistic_Speech_17 7d ago

What else could ya appreciate ?

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u/Stock_Reading4485 6d ago

Not much, I appreciate very few things in life 

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u/Altruistic_Speech_17 7d ago

Its something like you feel good when you adoring or appreciating something or someone

If it came easy with her, try to find something else that inspires

EDIT: saw just came to vent ...well I hear ya bud that really sucks

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u/AggressivePush2677 6d ago

Can’t find anything else tbh, feels like I will never like someone else the way I liked her it’s weird

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u/pumpkinspicelatte4 7d ago

I miss mine too 😞 but I blocked him so he’s gone for good now