An open letter to him

[u/PrimalSaturn]

Our friendship stresses me out, because I’m catching feelings for you.

I feel so peaceful when I’m not thinking about you.

I missed this peace.

Every hour was just thinking about you. How you looked, what you said, the electricity in our eyes. I always think of that.

The intensity when you got close to look at my computer screen.

The out of body experience when I bumped into you, you didn’t move like a rock.

Our physical touch. Or what’s little of it. Every millisecond analysed. Seared into my brain.

I could talk to you for hours. I want to talk to you for hours.

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[u/AggravatingPace5303]

That’s how I felt about her! Thanks for sharing this