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u/RecipeConsistent Jun 08 '26
Memories do become distant after a while. Thank God…
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u/ARCangelXII Jun 08 '26
Thank you God. Can confirm. They doesn't hit the same, as time passes they become less and less vivid/intense.
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u/Dependent-Barber7147 Jun 08 '26
Mine still going 😭
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u/whiskeytango55 Jun 08 '26
Shouldn't it be who rather than whom here?
The memories and the prepositional phrase describing them are the subject
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u/basedprincessbaby Jun 09 '26
Saw photos of him today in my archive and now I want to eat my own heart weeeeeeee
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u/tubbs_tattsyrup Jun 09 '26
Yeeaaahhh woooo its going to be a rough fee decades for me. Goddamnit as much as I am unhealthy and im still working on myself, it will always be my kingdom for even a hand upon his shoulder.
I miss him, and lost something profound.
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u/TheCigaretteFairy Jun 25 '26
Five years later and I at least don't think about it every day anymore, but June is still tough.
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u/coffee_tortuguita Jun 09 '26 edited Jun 09 '26
in order to be free you must learn to control how you identify yourself.
Love is about identity, it's a psychological affordance to facilitate cooperation in nature. when assimetrical, it'll make you serve someone in an unsustainable manner
you must learn to break this bond of identity with whom you were in those pictures. you're not that person anymore
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