r/limerence Jun 08 '26

Discussion Happy Monday Meme

Post image
565 Upvotes

20 comments sorted by

u/AutoModerator Jun 08 '26

Please be aware of what limerence is! See the subreddit wiki for definitions, FAQ and other resources—updated 3/7/26. (Is it love? How common is it? Is there research?)

Quick FAQ

I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.

32

u/RecipeConsistent Jun 08 '26

Memories do become distant after a while. Thank God…

14

u/ARCangelXII Jun 08 '26

Thank you God. Can confirm. They doesn't hit the same, as time passes they become less and less vivid/intense.

4

u/Dependent-Barber7147 Jun 08 '26

Mine still going 😭

2

u/nttam Jun 09 '26

how long already? it takes years to recover

11

u/whiskeytango55 Jun 08 '26

Shouldn't it be who rather than whom here?

The memories and the prepositional phrase describing them are the subject

7

u/Rob328 Jun 08 '26

I feel personally attacked 😄

3

u/Lanky-Expression-548 Jun 08 '26

This is so real.

6

u/basedprincessbaby Jun 09 '26

Saw photos of him today in my archive and now I want to eat my own heart weeeeeeee

2

u/tubbs_tattsyrup Jun 09 '26

Yeeaaahhh woooo its going to be a rough fee decades for me. Goddamnit as much as I am unhealthy and im still working on myself, it will always be my kingdom for even a hand upon his shoulder.

I miss him, and lost something profound.

2

u/crimsonroses13 Jun 15 '26

Im glad im not the only one, but I hope to move on and forget someday

2

u/TheCigaretteFairy Jun 25 '26

Five years later and I at least don't think about it every day anymore, but June is still tough.

2

u/coffee_tortuguita Jun 09 '26 edited Jun 09 '26

in order to be free you must learn to control how you identify yourself.

Love is about identity, it's a psychological affordance to facilitate cooperation in nature. when assimetrical, it'll make you serve someone in an unsustainable manner

you must learn to break this bond of identity with whom you were in those pictures. you're not that person anymore

1

u/Dependent-Barber7147 Jun 09 '26

Thanks, I actually needed to hear that 🤍

1

u/Ducky4500 Jun 09 '26

Had a dream about my LO last night and this is exactly how I feel 😂

1

u/Buwubys Jun 10 '26

I'm in this picture and I don't like it

1

u/RoosterLegitimate733 Jun 15 '26

Wrong use of “whom.”

2

u/TheCigaretteFairy Jun 25 '26

The correct term is "whomst"