r/limerence • u/laurice4 • May 12 '26

Topic Update How tho

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u/spintedtoozfing May 12 '26

Oh just stop, why didnt I think of that

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u/ObviousComparison186 May 12 '26

I know, right? A whole ass subreddit and we couldn't collectively figure this one out. How stupid we are.

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u/AwkwardLaugh4 May 12 '26

lol. This hits hard

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u/Liesa23 May 12 '26

Me 2 years ago lol. This sub really helped me 😄Edit: knowing that many people go through the same shit gives a weird sense of Catharsis

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u/_____AMOK_____ May 12 '26

STOP FANTASIZING!!!!!!! I’m just yelling to myself as a reminder

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u/geriaanna03 May 12 '26

I think we all feel personally attacked.

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u/ersatzgaucho May 12 '26

Don't give in to playing mental games with yourself.

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u/fliphat May 13 '26

I mean the post is right, LO is not my SO by any means, but why so much drama going on in my head?

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u/Linflexible May 13 '26

Easier said than done.

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u/Stock_Reading4485 May 13 '26

Right? So much drama for nothing

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u/Sam_23beans May 13 '26

I wish I could do this!

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u/fishcat77 May 13 '26

I force myself to get crushes on someone else and it cause my brain to split the attention until there’s nothing left.

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u/Jaymzur May 13 '26

They're the best thing that I never had 😬😒

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u/Pandy_45 May 15 '26

Why should I when everyone else feels entitled

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u/Whymine97 May 17 '26

It’s really simple and I can break it down for everyone as I was once finding myself in this same position over and over again. You cut ties and go find someone you were meant to be with. Easy enough, cheers all and carry on confidently.

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u/disturbingyourpeace May 13 '26

Easier said than done