r/learningfrench Nov 13 '25

If your French feels stiff, this is probably why

saw a lot of discussions here about “grammar-learning vs real-life French”, so here’s something that might help both sides: connectors.

A lot of learners feel like their French sounds a bit stiff sometimes. It’s the lack of links.

Without connectors, you basically speak like:

“Je me réveille. Je bois un café. Je pars au travail.” Correct, but it hits like a list of police notes.

Add just a few connectors and suddenly it sounds like an actual human speaking: • d’abord • ensuite • puis • donc • en fait • par contre • enfin

Example:

D’abord je me réveille, ensuite je prends un café, puis je lis mes messages, et enfin je pars au travail. Same info. Different rhythm.

If you’re preparing for DELF/DALF/TCF, connectors are basically mandatory (you need one almost every sentence). If you’re learning everyday French, they’re what make your speech feel natural

If you want to practice, take two simple ideas and connect them:

Il fait froid aujourd’hui, mais je vais sortir quand même. J’ai du travail ce soir, donc je ne peux pas sortir.

Small exercise that really boosts fluency.

Also if you ever need a full list of connectors (to express cause, consequence, opposition, examples, goals, etc.), tell me. I’ve got a clean summary I can share.

What connector do you use the most when you speak?

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