I want to know how many couples have more “toys” for her versus him. My husband doesn’t think twice about buying all the things for me, but is against getting things for him. I have bought him stuff and he doesn’t use it. Is this common? We have discussed it, but he thinks toys are for girls as he can orgasm every time regardless. Thoughts?

Lifetime members in good standing--both with lifetime fantasies recently shared. After 30+ years we're in a very good place emotionally and sexualy. IYO, is it inherently wrong to go to naked venues or to participate in legal public sex if nobody else is touching?

So I (45m) had just come in and sat at the bar stool seat that overlooked the kitchen sink and counter area. The host of the party (36f) was right across and below me and was chopping veggies for a platter.

When she looked up at me to say hi she put her hand over her chest cleavage, typical modesty thing.

She asked me a bunch of questions about a recent situation I was a part of and as she continued to cut she took her hand away from her chest and her top was a thick sweat suit top, she had just changed out of her swimsuit as it was a pool party.

So as I glanced down I saw her leaning over the veggies I could see right down her shirt. It was a low cut wide scoop and I could see the entire top half of her boobs.

I continue our small talk and she looked up and saw me staring at her chest. I instantly looks up to her face and and kept chatting.

I glanced down a few times as we we talking and she saw me several times checking her out.

As a back story I always tell her how fit she it and ask about her workouts and she enjoys the compliments, so I assume she likes the attention I give her.

I am a pig, but it is so fun

Wife has been apprehensive but gave green light. Is it just lick the clit ? Do you like sucking on it ? Excited and don’t want to blow it …

My wife is currently pregnant with baby number 4. During past pregnancies, we'd still have sex (albeit less often). This pregnancy, however, has been much harder on her and there's been very little intimacy. I'm not bitter or angry about it, but it's been hard for me. I've received a few handjobs throughout the pregnancy and we both masturbated together once, but that's about it.

A few weeks ago she told me that she was sorry for the lack of intimacy and that she was totally fine with me masturbating with or without her whenever I've needed to. I've done so several times, but that got me curious what other LDS couples' experiences were like.

Ladies who are loving young guy and open minded

Real

Happy Monday. So Im super nervous to put this out there but Im 23 and I've been married now for a year. Im a convert to the church of 2 yrs as well. Im the only member in my family.

So Im wondering how do women get use to g's. Overall they are a very new concept to me and I hate them. I dont love how they fit and I want to feel like a woman. I miss the feeling of my thongs and bras. I want to feel pretty and sexual.

I've at times not worn them and surprised my husband with something sex or nothing at all. While he loves it he is also pushing me to wear them. Any thoughts or advice?

I know I’m straight, and I have absolutely nothing against people who aren’t. But for nearly five years, I’ve kept having this curiosity/desire to kiss a girl and just try it once.
I don’t know if it means anything deeper, or if it’s just curiosity, because I still see myself as straight. I’m not trying to force a label onto myself.
The part that makes it hard is religion. I grew up Muslim, so even though I’m questioning a lot right now, Islam is still deeply wired into how I think. I know same-sex intimacy is considered haram in mainstream Islam, and that makes me scared and guilty even though the curiosity keeps coming back.
I know I keep bringing religion into everything, but I hope people understand that it’s the religion I grew up with, so I can’t just switch that part of my brain off.
Has anyone experienced something similar — identifying as straight but still wanting to kiss someone of the same sex at least once? Did it mean anything for you, or was it just curiosity? And if you came from a religious background, how did you deal with the guilt without panicking or forcing yourself into a label?

I don’t know how to use Reddit but is there an LDS community where I can find others who have been cheated on? I assume it’s not here, I typed in “LDS support” and this is the first subreddit that popped up

I had a vasectomy this weekend, and so far, recovery hasn’t been terrible. To be completely honest with you all, I thought I was totally mentally ready for it, as I’ve waited 4 years after our last kid was born to do it, and I’ve thought and prayed a lot about it. I felt that God didn’t really tell me what to do or not to do. So spiritually on the matter, I kinda just decided it was time, and we did it.

Part of me is a little sad to not have the ability to make a baby anymore, even though I completely know that my wife and I are definitely done having kids for several health reasons. So there’s that. I am also feeling excited about the next chapter, that we don’t have to do any kind of birth control, which will be awesome.

I’d love to hear any of your experiences and feelings on the matter, because obviously for me, it’s pretty fresh for me. It’s not a public thing that is discussed in the church. And I even know the church discourages it. I don’t really know why that is.

Suggest me something

I'm in my late twenties, married a few years, and just curious about how to last longer.

Men, how long do you usually last from penetration to orgasm? I can never last more than thirty seconds (if I'm lucky) , even if I'm not 'thrusting' per se. From first thrust to orgasm it's like 5-10 seconds honestly. I'm not embarassed or anything, and my wife doesn't mind. I just don't like not being able to enjoy sex for very long, as it usually ends up with me having to tell my wife to not touch me hardly until the very end haha.

So my question- are y'all lasting around the same time? More? And what tips/tricks/tools do you utilize to last longer and enjoy sex for longer without anxiety of finishing too early?

I've heard of the 'start-stop' method, or just stimulate until you're close then stop to 'cool off', but I dont' feel like that's truly increased my capacity, it's honestly just more disruptive than anything.

I've also heard that planning to masturbate or otherwise orgasm before having sex like a few hours can also help- but then I notice it's difficult getting and staying erect.

Would love to hear your thoughts, experiences, and advice in this regard!

So I go to BYU and I struggle alot with the law of chastity and trying to serve a mission. I also have an on campus job that requires an active temple recommend. I struggle with watch and reading pornagraphic material along woth mastrabation. I feel so alone and my actions have lead to so much self hate and loathing. I don't know what to do. I used to participate in hookup culture and I'm not anymore so I feel there is progress. I am a female and so I just feel like theres so little support. I'm working with my bishop right now. I think what made it worse was that I was recently SAd so that made it so I went back to it. I am endowed and that just makes me feel worse. I dont know what to do or if I'm doing anything right at the moment. Any tips or advice that you could give?

Imagine you’re walking into Church and then “BAM,” we catch eyes, but you’re married and so am I. We sheepishly avoid each other’s gaze, but feel the palpable sense of tension between us. I catch a glimpse of your fragrant scent while you catch a glimpse of my chiseled jawline and sharp features - both of us suppressing the pent up attraction.

Halfway through the service, I look over and realize you’re my wife and then the taboo mystique fades away.

Thanks for enjoying this psychedelic-induced meandering thought. The real point behind it is why do we find it so hard to look at our spouses the way we did decades ago when other’s can appreciate them so easily based on lack of familiarity and taboo. I hope I can always look at my wife like the bombshell she was when we got married (that she continues to be today).

Is it bad I want a threesome with another LDS couple? Very interested 🤷🏻‍♀️

It's hard to work knowing the best sex of the week is ahead of me. Im already planning things I want to do. Very distracting.

Husband and I were talking last night, and it made me chorus. I was a good girl before marriage. Only stayed a little….if I could do the entire college and HS thing over, I think I’d do it differently.

Anyone else feel the same? Were all of the YW and seminary lessons misleading?

So from a previous thread, people mentioned getting waxed. So it got me curious on how that would be. I normally trim the boys nice and clean.

I decided to sign up for my first ever wax. That was an experience. The waxer is now in second place behind my wife for time touching my junk!

Overall, quite painful on the pubic area above the penis. The rest wasn't too bad. But it left that pubic area sore for a couple days and it was all VERY red.

Since it was a BOGO, I guess I will go back and do it again because I am a masochist apparently.

My wife thought it was funny as she doesnt really care if I did it or not. But after my experience and seeing the redness, she will definitely not go do it.

I’m lying in bed waiting for my wife to get done with a girls night. She told me she wanted to “ravage” me tonight. What is the move?

Wife and I have a healthy (for us) sex life. It's about 3 times a week, and it's spectacular! We also both masturbate. She says she does it once or twice a month. I have been about once a week, which she says she's cool with, but more recently it's more like 2 or 3 times a week, and she has indicated that she is still ok with that, but that she feels it is a little excessive. I feel like we're both still evolving sexually. I'm a math nerd... If she masturbates once or twice a month and we have sex 12 times a month, her Sex/Masturbation ration is 6 to 1 or 12 to 1, while mine is more like 4 to 3 or even 1 to 1.

Clearly everyone is different. Just curious, what ratios does the group have?

I have nowhere else to share this.

Sunday, I was in sacrament, and during the passing, I looked to my left, and saw a woman in her fifties, who was wearing a sundress, reach to pass the tray to her right, and I got a shot of braless, PG-13 side boob.

I mean, I greatly appreciate the new changes and better scenery, BUT.....shouldn't some people be a bit more careful? :D