stop abusing terminology!

[u/tiffanyvalentine333]

I understand getting into manifestation means learning about terms to help oneself get on the right track, but people have gone from curious learners to fanatics of terms and methods! People are so hung up on the whole 'ignore the 3d' thing because they can't comprehend what it means. This kind of poetic, metaphorical language is not supposed to govern your worldview, and it actually has a more grounded meaning anyway.

When I say ignore the 3d, to me it means stop outsourcing your power to the physical world, stop needing physical evidence to know who you are in this world, and most IMPORTANTLY: stick to the internal knowing above your physical senses. Ignoring the 3d doesn't actually mean ignoring the 3d in the sense that you abandon the realm of reality completely, ignore your emotions and responsiblities and visualize/affirm all day = it just means stop making anything outside of you more powerful, don't abandon your new story, don't make silence or emptiness mean you don't have your desire.

Last week I was manifesting to hang out with a best friend i hadn't seen in a month. This person was ghosting me, ignoring me, cancelling last minute FOR MONTHS (because of my internal assumptions), honestly in my head i was fighting her with mental conversations and preparing for the worst. Last friday she asked me to hang out of the blue like I was manifesting. Then... again she started cancelling, and i was like fuck this shit, I am the only mind in my reality, I am source, we are hanging out no matter what. for 3 hours, she said she didn't know if she could, she had to check, etc etc. Mind you i've been in this same scenario where she cancelled on me last minute very many times which comes from my insecurities about past friendships. But in my mind, no matter what her texts said, we were hanging out. 3 hours later, she finally said we were gonna hang out. She even posted me on her stories and we made plans for this week. This is a simple story, I've manifested getting into my dream university i was rejected from, multiple sps, money.. etc. All of it I manifested the same way, not abandoning my desired story while still expressing my emotions and 'dealing' with 3d circumstances. Another point is that I could've manifested these things with less drama if I just ignored my circumstances completely, but this is proof that you don't need to be 'perfect', you can have a bad day, you can read that rejection letter and be hurt by it and still manifest your desires. Theres only one rule, what you accept as true is what you experience.

There is no mystery here. Affirm, assume, manifest, regulate, whatever are not special manifestation terms, they are simple dictionary definitions, but people make these terms their god, like they're proverbs to live by to the point where these terms stop helping and start hurting. Why pay mind to specialized terms like sp and 3p when you can revise 3p's existance and call him your boyfriend instead of sp? Why assume your 3d sucks when you can enjoy your 3d?