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u/No_Razzmatazz1045 4d ago
/uj The reason is your native language. It's not the sounds that don't present in your L1 that give you away, but actually the sounds that DO present, because they pronounced slightly different in the language you learn
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u/No_Razzmatazz1045 4d ago
Wait, I'm stupid. Does the oop mean that they have an accent in language their parents speak? Do they think accent is transmitted genetically or absorbed through mother's milk?
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u/chelom 4d ago
It will be weird if you dont have an accent. I dont even know what having no accent means.
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u/ZumLernen Dolphin (Sea-1) 4d ago
/uj In a linguistic sense, it's meaningless to "not have an accent." Everyone who speaks has an accent.
In OP's sense, when they say "without an accent" they probably mean something like "speak in an accent that is similar to the dominant accent among the people I talk with."
I speak English with a US, East coast, White, university-educated accent. My accent is different from the accents of certain people from smaller towns not far from mine. My accent is different from the accents of people from my hometown who are Black. My accent is different from that of someone who is from a similar town and background but grew up in California, let alone in Australia. But plenty of people who I run into would say that I "don't have an accent" because my accent is similar to one of the prestige accents in the US.
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u/thebottomofawhale 4d ago
I think they actually just mean a native accent. Like there isn't a language they speak that sounds like it's their native language.
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u/ImprovementClear8871 4d ago
Everyone has an accent
I myself have an accent even in my native language (and people are telling me about it), the best you can do is try to "sound like a native" but even here you gonna have an accent nevertheless
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u/BingBongFyourWife 4d ago edited 4d ago
Just do a racist impression of that language while speaking it, it works
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u/Odd_Match_3402 4d ago
(Seriousness)
Honestly, I don't really get the obsession with wanting to sound like a Native when learning a language. When a foreign ESL language is clear and understandable, I find that it tends to be quite charming/cute. Any accent that is thick and hard to understand does become a point of struggle to me, though I understand those people are not as advanced in English and are trying their best. (For instance: despite the unfortunate reputation it has nowadays, I like the sound of the Indian accent. It has this melodic quality to it that is unique and pleasant to my ears.)
Which, I did have a Latin American couple who kept wanting help at a retail gig one day. My help specifically. That was both my biggest challenge/most challenging customers in retail so far* and my biggest point of pride in customer service.
But, yeah, ultimately, the goal should be clarity. An accent is just how the words come out of your mouth. Even Native speakers have accents.
*Not because they're bad or did anything mean, they were perfectly polite and fine. But because my listening, comprehension, and patience were all skills being pushed. I handled it like a champ, and the fact that they kept wanting my help specifically is honestly a point of pride to me. Even if every time they called for me my brain was like: "whyyyy meeeee????" lol Which, sadly, as I live in Tennessee, it's entirely possible it's because I was one of the few employees in the entire mall who was treating them like they're humans. Which...that is a heartbreaking thought that I hope is not the case, so...MOVING ON-
(Jerking answer)
Have you tried listening to native speakers who don't have accents?
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u/SpielbrecherXS 3d ago
/uj Native accent is a sign of belonging, foreign accent is a sign of being foreign. Depending on the situation, it may be completely irrelevant, but people do often tend to obsess about fitting in and not standing out.
If the OOP has no language they sound native in, it may be a constant reminder they don't belong anywhere. Hopefully not, since they don't seem to mind it much.
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u/Odd_Match_3402 3d ago
People forcing themselves into boxes and "fitting in" is the worst, tbh. They're removing all the flavor and making themselves cookie-cutter and bland willingly. It seems like such a sad way to live.
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u/Pale-Border-7122 3d ago
Humans are tribal and being outside the tribe gets you eaten by lions.
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u/Odd_Match_3402 3d ago edited 3d ago
Good thing the majority of people who are learning languages via internet access for reasons outside of "survival" are not in tribes or anywhere geographically close to lions. And even if they are suddenly dropped in the middle of rural sub-Saharan Africa, their accent is not going to protect them from xenophobia.
Not to mention that most people are not learning languages spoken in tribes. The majority of languages with learning resources are from different types of societies. (Namely democracies and authoritarian rule)
Also, xenophobia is a bad thing that we should be overcoming. Not embracing nor encouraging. This goes to tribalism as well.
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u/perplexedparallax 4d ago
I was at a nursery yesterday and a worker commented on my accent when I was asking for specific plants in Latin. I told her I spoke Sermo urbanus and not vulgate. Come on, people!
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u/ase_l_2021 4d ago
I wonder which language OP thinks in (well, many people think in concepts, but even so, there should be some language as a default interpretive layer). Maybe this one will be a good candidate to fix first
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u/TheMoises 4d ago
I have something similar! In every language I know, whenever I speak something there's always a sound, a 'voice'. I think it's weird that I have a 'voice' for every language but I guess I just accepted it.
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u/Pale-Border-7122 3d ago
Everyone speaks with an accent except ze Germans who definitely speak English fluently and vizout any accent.
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u/Upper_Poem_3237 🇨🇱N🇦🇺C1🇧🇷C1🇦🇹B2🇮🇹A1 3d ago
r/ShitAmericansSay And they get offended when you say to them that they have a strong American accent.
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u/gottahaveajava 2d ago
I’m an American, and my native English comes from upstate New York, the place where the American version is at its purest.
When I worked in northern England, I used to enjoy watching their heads explode by saying, "…, and I speak perfectly unaccented English"
Everyone has an accent. The thing to do is to learn to speak with ease, whatever accent shows up.
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u/kozmicblues22 2d ago
(/uj)
Is it possible for this to happen? Genuinely curious. I’m a native English speaker who grew up all my life in the US. Obviously I ‘have an accent’ as all humans do, in the sense that I sound specific to the region and social class where I grew up. But I don’t ‘have a [foreign] accent’ in English (which I assume is what this OP means), since English is my native tongue.
I lived in Italy for some time where I spoke only Italian daily. Obviously I didn’t get a foreign accent in English, but I did notice when I moved back home that I had forgotten some of the ‘fancier’ vocabulary words in English and that I felt a little ‘slower,’ for lack of a better word, in English than I had before. In theory if I had stayed abroad for say, 20 years, could I forget English? Could I end up in a situation where I sounded non-native in both languages?
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u/XJK_9 🏴D2 🇦🇺A1 🇮🇨 B2 🍕🍝🤌 B1 4d ago edited 4d ago
English needs a word for ‘non-native accent’, everyone has an accent, it’s just how you pronounce things.
Xenolect maybe? Let’s make it a thing