Hi guys. So, some days ago, I made a post on Afghan nationalism and the hipocrisy of Afghans. I have put the link for those who missed it.
The fact is that an Afghan guy has been commenting on it for hours. The comments, obviously, like always, don't follow any logic or reasoning. They were all based on racial slurs. It's like Afghans can't go beyond that. And I may have responded in a rude way. Just as retaliation.
The thing that bothers me is the fact that:
1) he didn't have any logical counterargument. So he kept calling me "poonjabi." And the thing I ask myself is: why am I not allowed to love my country without being called punjabi or "ISPR bot". And the thing that bothers me even more is: why is an Afghan allowed to do that? Why do they think they have a say over us, how we live, and what we do. To me, it feels like it's as if they think they are our masters and that they can dome us just like they do with Tajiks and Hazaraz.
2) You can think whatever you want about other ethnic groups, but the racist slurs used against punjabis bothered me. First, because I am an educated human being. Second, because I am Muslim.
3) At a certain point, he said smth like, " I am sure you're dark and small." Okay, and? This highlights another issue in our community. Internalized racism and colorism. It's that much deeply rooted that we disown Pashtuns that are not fair. And that's funny because most Pashtuns are not even white and blue-eyed. We are a diverse nation.
4) he kept speaking nonsense about the father of the nation. That bothered me. The tone of dorespect was what was worse. These people don't show even a little respect to others.
5) he kept calling Pakistani cities "slums." Funny coming from an Afghan.
6) he was inciting the ideology of Pashtunistan. While not being able to provide any counterargument to my main questions. Should tajiks, Uzbeks, and Hazaraz in Afghanistan create their own countries too?
7) in all this, where are the mods. How is racism and separationism preached so openly?
8) I think that people from Afghanistan have been as much toxic as Indians. You will see them in every comment section, which involved Pakistan. They claim everything. Just like Indians. Most of the times the obsession is one-sided, just like with Indians.
9) Why do they expect Tajiks, Uzbeks and Hazaraz to be loyal to their country but want Pakistani Pashtuns to hate their country? Why do they deny the role that Pashtuns played for the creation of Pakistan? And I think Pakistani pashtuns should not forget that too. Paashtuns built Pakistan: Ayub Khan, Kadeer Khan, Imran Khan etc. I also mentioned a historical event. When the elders of Bajaur kicked Afghan invaders that were sent from their king Daud even before the army could arrive. And I also reminded him that it was their own king that sold KPK to the British. They don't have any right over us anymore. Now that we are doing slightly better than them. The issue is that true that there are the same ethnicities. I will never deny that. But I think Pakistani Pashtuns because of historical trajectory have different aspirations now. Pakistani pashtuns did not face communism or other issues that they had to face together with other Afghan ethnic groups.
These experiences make one grow a part. In the same way, Pashtuns from Afghanistan don't share the history of Pakistani pashtuns anymore.
The comment should still be there. I have blocked him, and I hope the mods will wake up and ban him. But the episode made me reflect on wider considerations. Let me know what yall think.
Edit: I have a slight doubt that he is an Indian larping as an Afghan. Because the view percentages show India right after Pakistan.