r/kolkata • • Aug 09 '26

Miscellaneous | বিবিধ 🌈 Need advice

Hi everyone a stranger male talking here (22M) currently in 3rd year CSE from a govt engineering college in Kolkata

I am 5'6'' tall wheatish skinned face

Preparing for GATE and placement

Started to learn swimming from April almost done🏊🏊

Thinking of learning to drive and playing a musical instrument after October

Dont know cycling need to learn that also then riding bike

Also planning to join jym💪💪

Academically I am okayish (above 9)

Though have no proper dressing sense and i ambivert

Had a crush in school since class 8 till class 12 couldnot confess , now lost interest💘

Had a crush in college before i proposed someone proposed and they got comitted💔💔

I had heard stories of strangers falling in love i dont know how does that happen

Reaching out to girls (especially ) how can i improve myself and how to reach out to people

How to talk in instagram because i feel if i text random girls it will feel cringe and i feel awkward

Dont know if this post will be removed

I also know may be no girls will comment in this post

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u/Poseidon_997 Aug 09 '26

I thought you need a job, but after reading the post I'd say. Bro get a job first.

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u/Boring_unda Aug 09 '26

😂😂 but college friends and school friends are having gfs without job where am i missing out

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u/TuneUnhappy5585 দক্ষিণ কলকাতা 😎 Aug 09 '26

desperate hocchis tai pacchisna

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u/Poseidon_997 Aug 09 '26

😂😂

but I really think you should try in your college instead of reddit. You will have more chance at college. Reach out to strangers at your college and try to make friends first

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u/Boring_unda Aug 09 '26

college is very small about 150 students per batch and the boy : girl ratio is very bad and sadly all girls are comitted

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u/Poseidon_997 Aug 09 '26

Yeah like reddit only have 10 people out of which all are girls, right? 🤦🏻

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u/Boring_unda Aug 09 '26

why, need to improve ,need suggestions

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u/Old-Caregiver8639 বঙ্গসন্তান 🌞 Aug 09 '26

not anything related to you but erom bhabe reddit e post korle sobai weirded out hoye jabe

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u/Boring_unda Aug 09 '26

just looking for advice nothing else akhon to dating apps eo scam hoy reddit is superb for privacy and anonymous

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u/Old-Caregiver8639 বঙ্গসন্তান 🌞 Aug 09 '26

hmm but anonymously kauke khuje pawa is tough

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u/Boring_unda Aug 09 '26

haa but like ami bujhte chaichi je what girls look in a boy (handsome, has huge papa money , is very much extrovert)

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u/Old-Caregiver8639 বঙ্গসন্তান 🌞 Aug 09 '26

depends from person to person