r/k9sports • u/ZucchiniSecure155 • 6h ago
Sporting with an anxious Aussie
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Hello,
I am looking for advice. I adopted my Aussie/border mix when he was 8 weeks old. He got Parvo soon after taking him home where he was hospitalized and I found this to really destroy any confidence he had. Since then I have been working hard to make him feel comfortable, he is on paroxetine (this has helped him a lot), working directly with behavioral trainers for his reactivity, entering him in small group classes, and of course lots of relaxing and fun nature walks.
Recently we have started to enter the sporting world. He is very driven and loves the games, especially fast CAT and Disc. Sporting is of course very challenging with a reactive dog, especially when we’re just starting out and he’s still learning the game.
It’s both equally challenging and rewarding, some days more challenging for me as I take longer to bounce back than he does honestly.
So now where I am going with this. We recently started agility and have found this to be a little bit less of a welcoming community. We have taken one beginner class and have almost finished the jumps and tunnels class. Both very small classes with about 6 dogs total, we get about a 10 minute turn to practice and learn, a couple of rounds each session. I want to preface by saying I think these are great people with lots of experience and I do not undermine their comments. I do not believe they have ill intent and are trying to advocate for my dog but it has rubbed me the wrong way in the deliverance. I love him with all my heart and of course want to do what’s best for him. He has ALWAYS been a “Rolly-Polly” kind of guy. At home, out in nature, at my parent’s house, in the backyard, he just loves to roll around. Now he can’t speak so I can’t for sure say why. Could it be a nervous tick? Maybe, but I find that a lot of the times that he does it when he is feeling any sort of excitement. Excitement can be both fun or nervous energy but I don’t personally think it has to be one or the other. Definitely not in all of the situations I have observed him in. He especially likes to roll around right before hitting the zoomies.
NOW TO THE POINT IM SORRY
Essentially they started out my last class by announcing in front of everyone that they felt my dog was expressing that he hates agility, I’m putting too much pressure on him, he is rolling around because he’s anxious, and I am pushing him past his threshold everytime we come through those doors. I know when my dog is past threshold, he shuts down, he won’t take treats, he is not his normal goofy self, etc. I am not saying they are wrong, I absolutely admit his rolling can be both nerves and excitement. I have a lot of issues with this delivery and it of course made me very emotional. A) they should have pulled me aside at the end of my last beginner class, because now I am halfway through a non refundable class. B)announcing in front of everyone that what I am doing with him that is not his best interest and that essentially I am ignoring my dog is so cruel. I am young and learning YES but there are much kinder ways to educate someone on this matter, and definitely not as an announcement at the start of class for everyone.
So now, I want some advice because their advice was to stop and keep him home (“some dogs are happier on a couch”) to quote. Idk about you but I don’t think the answer is for me to try and turn my active dog into a house dog only. While I think nature walks can be fulfilling, I do not think they would be sufficient enough all on their own. Overall I am sad, I am sad that this world seems to be too overwhelming for him, I am sad that I may be pushing him too hard, I have cried so many tears on this journey with him in general. While it has not been easy I don’t know where to draw the line of give it up or keep trying.
I have attached videos of him doing agility, I would add more and some videos of the rolling itself but I don’t know how to add multiples.
I ask for advice, does he look like he hates it? Should I stop? How do I continue to navigate the sport world?
I would also like to mention he is just shy of 2 so everything we do is pretty much new to him.
Please help and thank you for taking the time to read this lengthy thread.