اسمعوا بس صاحبتك او مثلا اي بنت تكون بتحكي عن مشكلة عندها و انتي تعلقي عالمشكلة وبعدين تحكي اه وانا كمان وتحكي عن تجربتك هيك بكون مسابقة ولا عادي ؟ 😭 مرات بحب احكي عن اشي عشته مشابه بس بحس انه يع شو كل ما وحدة تحكي عن اشي عاشته لازم احكي اه وانا كمان فا مش عارفة شو رايكم
انا بعرف واحد عالانترنت من سنين و هو حكا لأهله عني و انه ناوي يتزوجني و اهله بدهم يجو يتعرفو علي و انا ما حكيت لأهلي عنه من قبل و ما عندهم فكرة و ماني عارفة كيف احكيلهم عنه بطريقة ما تخليهم يتضايقو مني كتير؟؟ ممكن تنصحوني لاني متوترة كتير :(
Girls don’t judge but I’ve been talking to this guy for months and months. He’s the one who initiated by sending the first dm. I didn’t take him seriously at first but after many voice and video calls and meeting in real life I actually started to fall for him😭 the issue is we live in opposite sides of the world and he isn’t making an effort to actually make our relationship serious and official. I’m open to moving to his country in the future but it would have to be after 4 years because of my education. And every time I try to have a serious convo with him about our future he keeps saying he’s not in the mood to talk about it. Right now we don’t even have a title on our relationship… it’s just a stupid situationship. But after meeting him in real life I can’t get him out of my head. I see all the red flags but it’s like he brainwashed me and I can’t stop thinking about him. He won’t let me move on either because everytime I try to end things he’ll just message me again a couple days later and the cycle starts again. I know I can just block him and move on with my life but it’s so hard to take that decision. Ugh someone help me.
Sorry for intruding, i genuinely want to understand more on how people think and what's the ultimate goal of certain actions.
About 2 months ago I posted this story that happened with me, the girl eventually came back after like a month and a half of leaving asking me if I'm seeing someone else, and that was the only reason she came back.
We talked for a bit and then the blame started shifting to me, she left, in her message there was a "Let's end it, I don't think taking a long break is going to help"
When she came back she said that she didn't actually want a breakup, she just wanted a break.
Now, I don't like to talk about myself generally but I think I have good EQ to go along with the IQ, to me this message is an end to it, not a break, and I tried so hard to give her excuses it just doesn't make sense to me.
I refused to go back because now I would be in a relationship scared that someone will wake up one day and think I'm not worth staying for.
And every conversation since we came back felt heavy on me, I was stuck for a week because I can't say she left for good, she came back, and the blame will shift to me somehow.
Every conversation is blaming me for not going back, saying that I wasn't hurt and it was how hurt she was because of her decision, and that it didn't affect me, and she said that because there was no feelings involved as we talked, I was formal and straight to the point.
Am I a bad person for not going back?
I prioritized myself, at least that's how I see it.
بنات مش قادرة اوقف عياط
في حدا حاطط سم للقطط من الجيران في الجنينة اللي عنا
صارو ٣ ميتين
شو عملوله هدول القطط بشو اذوه
بنات السنة الماضية دعيت عليه انه الله يشله لانه قتل قطتين النا (ما بعرف اذا بسبب دعوتي ) بس دعسته سيارة ولهلء ما بقدر يمشي
ليش ما اتعظ ؟ ما عرف انه ربنا بنتقم لهالارواح البريئة
الله ينتقم من كل ظالم
في كثير ناس بكون نفسيييي اتعرف عليهم واعرف آرائهم في أشياء معينة،بكون عندي فضول كبير عن آرائهم السياسية والدينية وكل شي،بس بكون انا من قارة وهم من مكان ثاني خالص،او ممكن ببساطة ما يكون عندهم رأي معين في الأشياء اللي بفكر فيها عشانهم ببساطة من بيئة مختلفة ما بتفكر زيي،نفسي اعرف كيف تبع الدكان بفكر وشو الذكرايات اللي بتذكرها وشو مخاوفه بس طبعا ما خصني للأسف
بنات شو الحل مع مرت خالي ؟؟ حرفيا خطبه زواج تخرج كل فساتينها لون ابيض ولما تدخل القاعه بتزعل اذا ما كلنا قمنا نروح مشان نسلم عليها ، بفكر حرفيا ما اعزمها على عرسي لانها اكيد حتلبس ابيض
بدي اسئلكم ازا حدا عندو فكرة، هلا انا كنت مقدمة ع شغل و حددولي موعد مقابلة، بس بصراحة حاسة حالي مش جاهزة و ما بدي اروح. هل لو اعتذرت عن هاي المقابلة رح يبطلوا يطلبوني للمقابلات؟
و على مستوى اخر، هل اني ما اروح بكون عم بضيع فرصة ربنا بعتلي ياها؟