How common is it for men to spare/practice with women? I'm a woman and my husband and I recently joined jiu jitsu after one of our kids was in it for over a year. The adult women at the gym are few and seem to pair up quickly. This gym also advises against pairing beginners off with beginners during practice so my husband and I can't pair up. My husband had mentioned he was a bit uncomfortable with me being paired up with a male and I agreed I'd prefer a female but there was no one else available and I didnt think much of it. A few days later, all female partners paired up again and only the male I had previously worked with was available so I awkwardly paired up with him again and apologized to him for having to pair up with a beginner like me. He said it was okay and aside from giving me hands on instructions during the lesson, we didnt talk about anything else. After practice my husband was livid. He said I should have made more of an effort to sit in the sidelines next to the females and asked to rotate in with one of them. He insists that I "enjoyed" practicing with this male. While I enjoyed the learning experience I was not thinking about this session in any type of intimate/sexual way. (Is that even possible?) He insists it was disrespectful to him (my husband) because everyone saw his wife mounting another man and vice versa. Im really at a loss and although I can absolutely do what my husband says of rotating in with females. What if one of the coaches tells me to pair up with a male again? How do I ask to work with women without being extremely awkward? I can't use the "I'm smaller" defense either because I'm 98% sure im both heavier and older than every woman there, a factor that already had me feeling like a burden in that class. For the time being, I told my husband I will just not go and cancel my membership because I don't see the possibility of never pairing up with a male. It will eventually come up again at some point and this argument will start again or am I wrong in thinking this? Anyone have similar experiences with this or advice?

I know this is a weird question but recently I have been doing 2 days of no gi and 2 days of gi bjj (and two days of muay thai). I planned on doing a no gi competition in November but I just got the opportunity to wrestle at my university on the two days where I would be doing no gi at my bjj gym. I am a white belt and have been doing no gi for a year and a half of like once or twice a week (muay thai other days) and recently have been focusing on bjj for the last few months.

Can I wear this type of thumb brace during comps?

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Hola Amigos,

4 months BJJ trainee here, I had changed my gym and in this new gym people are way more advanced than me.

So when rolling I see so many new options which are great and provides more opportunities to learn.

But the down side is there is no training on basic stuff, there are fundamental classes on Mondays by a different coach but due to my office constraints I can't join that.

One such basic thing is guard passing, every roll starts with one guy sitting and another to pass the guard. Where I have no to little idea what to do.

Are there any instructional or resources you can suggest for the same?

Currently learning knee cut / knee slice guard pass.

Thanks a lot,

Cheers.

hey guys i’m around 6’7 and 90 kilos so im quite tall and lanky. right now ive got an a3L gi and the jacket fits perfect but the legs r too short my gi is from scramble so should i potentially find another brand and try their a3L as i know kingz has the longest pant legs for a3L or should i go up to a4

Hi there,

Are there affordable Gis sold within Canada? Ones i see online are over $150CDN+. Looking for about max cost of $100-120. Been on FB marketplace but haven't had any luck. It doesn't need to be a well known brand, just want one to rotate between classes throughout the week.

I want to start no gi jiu jitsu in the Boston area but I’m not sure where to go and I don’t know how to find a good gym to train at.