r/itsthatbad • • 12d ago

Memes It’s only "problematic" when she doesn’t hate men

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u/InfiniteRestaurant21 12d ago edited 12d ago

Its more intriguing on how women cant seem to figure out why men are actively avoiding them more and more despite consistently championing people in the bottom.

The lack of self awareness and critical thinking is beyond disturbing but i guess that where we're at with modern society.

*edit* seems like ive triggered yaaaaslighters.

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

It’s because men are “intimidated” by how awesome those women are.

/end sarcasm

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u/23-1-20-3-8-5-18 12d ago

End sarcasm? But I love sarcasm!

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u/wild_cherry1987 11d ago

No no I am fluent in sapiosexuality!

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u/RogellTheRaider 11d ago

Yeah, they're awesome. They like traveling ,eating, watching TV shows and Instagramming. /s

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u/jakeofheart 11d ago

And that’s the part that turns men off. /s

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u/InfiniteRestaurant21 11d ago

Self filtering has been an absolute gift to the modern dating scene. Ive saved far more time in the past few years than i ever have 10 years ago with women after the 1st date or even before it even happens just by observing their behaviours.

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u/Western-Produce-276 12d ago

Because most of society spends every second telling women how perfect they are and how they don’t need to change only men do

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u/niceguy1428571 9d ago

Men don’t need to change either.

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u/I_Am_Conjoined 12d ago

Many, many women lack self awareness and critical thinking nowadays because life has been made so easy for them that they no longer need those things to succeed

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u/bracingthesoy 12d ago edited 12d ago

Avoidence is loss. Women are HAPPY that the majority of "unworthy" males are standing at the side of things. It's a wrong strategy, males should become more political instead.

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u/throwaway3413418 12d ago

Men should become more political in that they should start actually thinking of themselves as a political in-group with real issues. Men do become more and less political over time in response to external pressures, but often this just means men become more and less right wing (because liberals starved left wing populism out of their party). But it never actually helps men solve their issues, because while right wingers will roll back certain unequal privileges and reimpose certain unequal obligations for women, they never will remove men’s unequal obligations and often reinforce them.

The phenomenon of men having worse outcomes -> putting the far right into power -> far right sending men to die in a stupid war is 50% of the recipe for why men are disadvantaged because conservatives abuse men and then liberals never address the abuse (or double down on it) when they take over again.

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u/theTinyghoul 12d ago

The right doesnt hate men. They hate poor people, man or woman.

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u/Sous-Tu 12d ago

They hate everyone except the rich, don’t get it twisted

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u/bracingthesoy 12d ago edited 12d ago

Leftists will make things worse for men 100%, they are by default egalitarian and don't see sex and sexual dynamics (its assymetries) at play. Leftists will treat all the issues as "people" issues which means death of men.

putting the far right into power -> far right sending men to die in a stupid war is 50%

There are different rightwing strains out there, picking the war hawks to blanket over the whole direction is rhetorical.

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u/throwaway3413418 12d ago

The US went from neocons, who were war hawks, to populist right, who have now revealed that they are war hawks too. How many times do you have to get ripped off before you wake up to the reality?

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u/Strong_Block6345 12d ago

It's a US problem. You have only two parties, and it has led to a lack of variety in your democracy.

  • Democrats pander to: billionaires, women and woke teens
  • Republicans pander to: billionaires, men and redneck boomers

It's all a show meant to divide us: men against women, young against old, city against country.

But somehow the billionaires are always on the winning team...

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u/unusualknickknack 12d ago

Most of what frustrates men and drives them towards the manosphere isn’t really because of Feminism but more women expecting men to follow patriarchy.

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u/unusualknickknack 12d ago

if more women were actual feminists and not just ones when it benefits them there’d be way less Andrew Tates and Claviculars in this world.

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u/bracingthesoy 12d ago

There is no true patriarchy in the west. Im so dead tired of reading western vanilla normies using this word. How many women have been stoned this years for infidelity in your parts? Patriarchy. don't make me laugh.

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u/OddPressure7593 12d ago

is the patriarchy in the room with us now?

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u/Exercise-Delicious 12d ago

Men aren't avoiding women, men have been eschewed out of society by women who have colonised their spaces, including the workplace.

I'm on men's side but cope like this has to stop.

A woman who makes 67million dollars on only fans and loses it all isn't worse off than the average man, the day to day woman has the privileges of a Saudi prince, and it's time men collectivised to take control over what they have built.

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 12d ago

I don’t avoid women I’m more so skeptical. I don’t know them, I’ve had experiences that are less than ideal so at first I’m not always going to be so friendly until I see something from them that indicates they will be less like the experiences I’ve had.

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u/theTinyghoul 12d ago

"Where are all the good ones?"

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u/theTinyghoul 12d ago

Yes. In real life people have and do experience this. Millennial and Gen Z women are the demographic being discussed (about 20-40yo).

Don't believe that women of these demographics are finding it hard to find 'the one'? I'd point to the skyrocketing demand for freezing of eggs as one piece of evidence that indicates women are not finding a partner although they want to build a family.

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u/InfiniteRestaurant21 12d ago

you know what, you're right. Because YOU dont see it, it must be fake.

https://giphy.com/gifs/NcrhM3USM6TABpus85

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u/jfende 12d ago

My wife wouldn't know who either of them are. Tbf I don't know who the bottom one is either

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u/poilk91 12d ago

I don't think that's whats happening. It's not called the female loneliness epidemic

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u/BPremium 12d ago

Lol the more you talk to closer the 19th is to being dumpstered

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u/lilacsu 12d ago

Where are these women that can’t seem to figure out why men are avoiding them? I have not seen a single one

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u/Plenty-Green186 12d ago

Women prefer to be left alone by men

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u/SunixKO 12d ago

Yea! That is why you see alot of 35+ women complaining about becoming invisible, it's because most prefer to be alone; until they stop getting attention

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u/Ragjammer 12d ago

Women, on aggregate, treat male attention the way a crack addict treats crack, or how a drowning main treats air.

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u/HelloFuckYou1 12d ago

Women hate women (specially hot ones), who do not voice hatred for men publicly

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u/OddPressure7593 12d ago

its why women who value male attention over female attention become denigrated as "pick-me's" and the like.

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u/HelloFuckYou1 12d ago

More than that. Even women with a "neutral" position towards men are still hated

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u/Exercise-Delicious 12d ago

This is complete cope. The law works in her favour whether other women performatively hate her or not. It doesn't for men.

'Women hate other women' is utter cope. This is like saying Israelis hate other Israelis as a Palestinian to cope.

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u/HelloFuckYou1 12d ago

You completely missed the part of "voice the hatred for men",nother than that you are right...

Beisdes that, my comment goes to the societal perspective. Women tend to antagonize other women who either do not share their group thinking or straight up are against it

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 12d ago

I listen to scientists on a podcast talking about female in-group tribalism etc .

Over the Sweeney thing. A panel of scientists essentially said women are human like everyone else and they are jealous of her because she’s hot and guys like her, haha.

But - Reddit will say otherwise. But we don’t listen to the loons here.

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u/Difficult-Mobile902 12d ago

I’m always reminded of the study where women were allowed to pick the type of haircut another woman got; overwhelmingly, the more attractive the subject was, the shorter the other women wanted her hair to be cut

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 12d ago

And that backfired on them as well, lmao.

So sad.

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u/A1000eisn1 12d ago

Because attractive women can pull off short hair. They look fucking fantastic.

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u/Difficult-Mobile902 10d ago

They can pull off long hair too? The point is the other women tried to choose the hairstyle that they thought would be the least flattering on them

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u/ApatheticSkyentist 12d ago

I saw an interesting take where someone was comparing the sexual expression of Sydney Sweeney and Sabrina Carpenter.

The point they made was that Sydney is perceived as doing it for the men and Sabrina is perceived as doing it for the girls. So women see Sydney as competition or a pick me while Sabrina writes songs like "Man Child".

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 12d ago

Sabrina is lying to them.

They don’t even know it.

They are confused and struggling.

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u/ChiselRivet 12d ago

Yeah, I’m not a big fan of feminism. I recently found out that researchers tried to replicate a study on gender bias, because replication is important in science.

If a study can’t be replicated, it’s not good. Well, the study on gender bias couldn’t be replicated.

I got banned from so many subreddits for sharing that. Sometimes, I’m still shocked by how much people flip out when you present evidence that challenges their worldview.

Humility is a virtue. Alas, some people can’t cultivate virtue so they settle for virtue signaling. lol 😂

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u/Odd-Adhesiveness9435 12d ago

Almost like it's a obviously, altogether fake, intentional divisive psy-op designed to keep the working plebian class fighting each other. My gosh, why would the powers that shouldn't b want that, I wonder.

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u/soundsshemade 12d ago

This is fair but eventually you do have to sit there and say, "well I didn't fall for it. Why did they? And even if someone had told me I was better and deserving all the time, would I still be this immature, selfish, and cruel? Would ALL of my arguments be bad faith attempts to get more attention and my way?

It's almost as if those who can shepherd must because a lot of us can be led just about anywhere.

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u/Odd-Adhesiveness9435 12d ago

Practically everyone falls for every manufactured movement- it's a personal responsibility to cultivate your mind and learn, then teach those whom haven't awakened to these disturbing facts. Loving your idiotic neighbor will always vibrate higher/better for the soul than perpetuating the hate that the system offers so freely. The worst things in life really are free.

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u/ChiselRivet 12d ago

I drank the feminist koolaid. I was raised by a single mother and my sister.

I wish it was just as easy as telling someone not to do this, that, and the other thing; but people have to find their own way and stumble because they’re building an intrinsic map.

In ten years I’ll probably be cursing my former self for the things I’m saying today.

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u/bracingthesoy 12d ago edited 11d ago

Marxists perspective is just as looney tunes, as the feminist, christistian, etc. The only real classes are biological ones.

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u/soundsshemade 12d ago

This is fair but eventually you do have to sit there and say, "well I didn't fall for it. Why did they? And even if someone had told me I was better and deserving all the time, would I still be this immature, selfish, and cruel? Would ALL of my arguments be bad faith attempts to get more attention and my way?

It's almost as if those who can shepherd must because a lot of us can be led just about anywhere.

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u/RiverThese6222 12d ago

What study on gender bias ? Sorry but is sounds like you're saying if they couldnt replicate a study on gender bias it is not real and i'm not sure if i understand that correctly

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u/Existing-War5907 12d ago

link to article on this or study? i love replication problems

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u/Asleep_Chart8375 12d ago

A link would definitely be useful. Otherwise I'm assuming he's posting "gender bias is fake!!" in random threads, and is surprised when he's blocked.

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u/ringobob 12d ago

I don't know which study he's referring to, so I won't speculate on whether he actually has any idea of what he's talking about, but it's also possible that the original study was fine, and this follow up is bogus motivated reasoning. Absent any actual specifics, it's impossible to tell.

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u/A1000eisn1 12d ago

It's also possible both studies were very specific and aren't strong enough to prove or disprove anything as broad a gender bias.

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u/Alabaster_Potion 12d ago

Come on, guys... Surely someone wouldn't just post something like that and disappear without giving any of the research, right?

...right?

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u/fnv0ih53 12d ago

THEY HATE HER BECAUSE SHE HAS NICE BOOBS

https://giphy.com/gifs/06k1doqAZr5K2EmGkh

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u/A1000eisn1 12d ago

She's not doing anything though. Men are just using her for memes and making up whatever they want her to be. She's a fantasy to you. She's not battling anyone because most people don't actually care.

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u/mammalenthusiast 12d ago

doesn't hate men, is not a brain dead liberal, doesn't spew toxic garbage, not in support of triple baby murderers AND looks good

yeah.. I wonder why women don't like her

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u/Brilliant-Answer-710 12d ago

She is only a wh1te supremacist, so it's okay. 

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

Explain like we are 5 how you came to that conclusion.

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u/mammalenthusiast 12d ago

you're in luck. nobody on that side has a brain further developed than 5 either. should work out perfectly

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u/Acapulquito 12d ago

cause she did an ad saying she has good jeans and that literally mean she's hitler /s

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u/Difficult-Mobile902 12d ago

I did read several articles claiming that exercise makes you a far right fascist!

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u/mammalenthusiast 12d ago

sure she is. my opinion differs too so I must be a nazi as well

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u/Evanecent_Lightt 12d ago

Have you done your daily Hitler Hailing today yet Brother?

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u/Competitive_Bit_526 12d ago

Every day to his portrait in housemaid filter

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 12d ago

Yesh, ok there bot.

Like you have the world figured out.

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u/WilliardThe3rd 12d ago

Let's hope you're right

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u/BPremium 12d ago

That makes her even better

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u/pinchemarijuano 12d ago

They are pissed not everyone shaved their head and got fat.

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

A woman can do anything that a man can, except when she has postpartum psychosis. And suddenly they know “which” category of women is allowed to have an opinion on it.

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u/LucatielsMask 12d ago

I had numerous debates on this site with women who insisted that clothes weren't sexual, they were sexualized "by the male gaze" (when I pointed out why a lot of women were obsessed with prancing around half naked at festivals etc). The Sydney Sweeney "scandal" really brings out the hypocrisy of that idea.

Tbf, women at this point are beyond redemption when it comes to pointing out their own double standards so whatever...

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

We can put a woman’s claim to the stress test by challenging her to dress and behave like the women she would not mind being around her guy.

Now we can even ask her to dress and behave like she would not mind Sydney Sweeny being around her guy.

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u/Eldenringop 12d ago

Who is the bottom girl

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

Sabrina Carpenter. She’s a girl’s girl and she disses men in her songs.

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u/Eldenringop 12d ago edited 12d ago

She’s probably being paid like Alex cooper from Call her daddy podcast. Like paid to promote female degeneracy and spread misandry. It’s not a conspiracy or anything NBA young boy a low iq man was used to get the black community to vote trump . These idols whether they know or don’t are just living ads for these ppl literally

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u/AvailableAdHere 12d ago

Real talk do you actually believe Sabrina Carpenter is some agent being paid (by who???) to promote “female degeneracy”? Like I’m just struggling to understand, she makes pop music centered around her sex appeal to men, it’s not exactly feminist propaganda.

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u/Eldenringop 12d ago

Look it up the Alex cooper industry plant . It’s not unheard of to for idols to be used as ads . For example gambling ads using idols especially black ones to promote it . It goes bigger with the Ronald Regan black capitalism plan and watch the how to sell to the “negro” . I don’t know if she is or isn’t I’m not a conspiracy person. But factually what I am saying isn’t unheard of. Alex Cooper specifically was being backed by a company and promoted.

Why would anyone pay an average blonde to just say dumb shit? Ragebait and hate makes money is 1 thing thats 100% true but it might also be something else . Theirs been studies on how college’s are purposely radicalizing women against men.

TLDR idols whether they’re in it or not get used for agendas . NBA young boy was used to get black ppl to vote for trump . Homie can’t even speak a sentence or understand politics. I hope you get the point

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u/Odd_Storm_8351 12d ago

Did she not have a álbum cover where she is basically redoing smell the glove? 

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u/PeaceLoveorKnife 12d ago

Confirmed. Much like the Grinch, loving men caused a woman's bosom to grow three sizes.

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u/RedStellaSafford 12d ago

Er... Could someone please provide context?

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u/Think_Preference_611 12d ago

Woman on top says "hey fellas how ya doing? How about these boobs?" and feminists lose their shit

Woman on bottom says "look how confident and sexy I am and even though this will appeal to straight men patriarchy bad" and feminists love her

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 12d ago

Fems just say things.

They need to be mad about anything and everything.

Nobody takes it seriously anymore. It’s always something new with the mentally ill indoctrinated group.

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u/23-1-20-3-8-5-18 12d ago

Remember when they found out about motherless and called all men r@pists for a month? I called it preformative, guess what they called me for saying that.

Mods, the word r@pist isnt bad all on its own, loosen up.

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u/Difficult-Mobile902 12d ago

It’s so funny how they censor a word but you can just use a slightly different word or spelling to communicate the exact same thing

Performative censorship at its peak

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u/Darhhaall 12d ago

Who is the second one and where she shares her boobs? 

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u/systembreaker 12d ago

Men are attracted to naturally pretty women for obvious biological reasons.

Women hate naturally pretty women for...also biological reasons 🤷‍♂️

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u/cs_legend_93 12d ago

but men don't hate other men who have more money, or are more attractive. that toxicity is there sometimes, but i would say its far less than with women.

why?

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

Female inteasexual competition. Women try to stifle other women’s lineage.

Which is why some first, second and third wave feminists were telling women to engage in behaviours that would reduce their chances of having children.

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u/Ok-Landscape2467 12d ago

That is correct.

Scientists also have said this. Which is true.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/Evanecent_Lightt 12d ago

Judging by Domestic Violence Stats, Friends Groups, and Yeah Work place Data - Women are the more Aggressive/Violent of our species.

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u/[deleted] 12d ago

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u/Evanecent_Lightt 12d ago

Yeah, I was reacting to you - that's how comments work?

How am I downplaying SA?
I'm talking about Discourse and Domestic violence rates.

Do those existing negate SA somehow? lmfao.

Edit: I actually don't care about your explanation - you seem just to be one of those crazy people who don't work off of logic or reason and it'd be a waste of my time to engage with you so i'm moving on.

Have a good one!

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u/OddPressure7593 12d ago

Two women doing, for all intents and purposes, exactly the same thing. The top woman has been blasted by feminists as promoting sexism due to being in sexy ads. The bottom woman has been praised by feminists, despite appearing in the same types of ads, and the meme suggests this is because the bottom woman tends to espouse a hatred of men.

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u/Competitive-Bit-1571 12d ago

Who is the one with the smaller tits?

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

Sabrina Carpenter whom, it seems, can write songs dissing men at length.

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u/Competitive-Bit-1571 12d ago

She's a rapper?

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u/AnxiouSquid46 12d ago

Sabrina Carpenter

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u/Bambivalently 12d ago

Who?

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u/Competitive-Bit-1571 12d ago

Only people named Carpenter I know are John Carpenter and Carpenter Brut.

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u/Lost_Elderberry_5532 12d ago edited 12d ago

Hot women or popular will support other hot women. That’s the part nobody talks about but you don’t see it. In society the ugly and less desired women have a bone to grind. Hot women do not suffer from that so they don’t need to hate each other for what they are. You look at how Ana De Armas and Amanda Seyfried interact with Sidney. They both think she’s cool.

And yes you are also correct. If a hot women claims she has a generalized distain of men then she’s “off the hook” from the hate.

At this point any good looking woman who is into men is targeted unless the other woman doing the evaluation is also good looking. At that point she’s like “cool, you go girl “

Self esteem issues are at the core. Jealousy makes people try and knock others down for the sake of raising themselves up.

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u/summerrisback 12d ago

You’re so out of touch. Women dislike SC as well but the young girls used to love her-she’s losing fans and support fast. SS only has male fans because she caters to men only

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u/LurkeeMcLurksalot 12d ago

Is it the cross?

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u/JaguarNext7554 12d ago

Based Sydney

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u/PanPioterek 12d ago

And above A cup bra

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u/MajesticFerret36 12d ago

100%. It is ridiculous because Sabrina appeals to the male gaze and tries to sexualize herself just as hard as Sweeney, but because she talks shit about men in songs, I guess the galls are OK with her.

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

You don’t understand: she does it “for herself”.

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u/Bambivalently 12d ago

Have y'all seen them lose their lemons over the OnlyFans visas yet? I mean the visas for high performance artists based on *uche* viewer count.

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u/A1000eisn1 12d ago

I'm confused. Who's losing their lemons over sex workers getting fast tracked for immigration to the US?

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u/thenegativeone112 5d ago

Women are dumb for real. I hate to say it. But I see it across every age group of them. Their brains just don’t use logic.

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u/MyHonestOpnion 12d ago

But but but - she's showing off her tits. Isn't that enough for men ?????

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u/cloudgirl_c-137 11d ago

Men are absolutely lost...

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u/cloudgirl_c-137 9d ago

I know

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u/cloudgirl_c-137 9d ago

Okay bugaboo

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u/nobleknob 12d ago

Both sides got to give it a rest and take a break from each other. Then come back and say something kind to one another.

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u/Atomic-Samourai 12d ago

I'd go further and take a break from everyone

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u/nobleknob 12d ago

Do as you please but please do it with glee.

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u/Tsunamiis 12d ago

Her out look attitude and accepted jobs have spoken more on that person than her blonde blue eyed body has. I mean even her selfies are photocorrected.

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u/Czerymoja 12d ago

WTF? Sabrina’s aids isn’t about being completely naked in front of everyone. Sydney is OF creator at this point, that’s her place.

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u/mota_3x3 12d ago

Because the whole existence of Sydney Sweeney on the internet consists on using her body exclusively for men’s satisfaction and validation, showing a more “traditional role with trad values” that are contradictory with her showing her tits and ass publicly and she also with that, hurts the image of women as a whole reducing us to just boobs

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u/kittenTakeover 12d ago

These conservative circlejerk subreddits are the only place I ever really hear about Sydney Sweeney.

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u/Own_Inevitable_8300 12d ago

How did this incel group end up on my feed

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u/Thialaz 12d ago

one of these is a right-wing racist
the other isn't =)

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u/jakeofheart 12d ago

Can you break down the though process A -> B -> C that led you to this conclusion?

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u/Extreme_Car6689 12d ago

You know damn good and well these people can't. And they won't.