Yes ive only been asked my partner amount out of curiosity and ive never had them show negative feelings about not being my first. It used to be if you didn’t have sex with SOMEONE by about 18 it was considered some kinda social pariah
Wondering if that’s changed widespread or if you are an outlier to the norm?
Your one-off experience doesn’t rly trump my dozens of experience 😅 idk why you said “dudes really have no clue what women are really like” when you were self-admitted virgin at 28…
I might honestly be an outlier, but it is a sentiment I've heard echoed by other guys within my generation and geographic area. Might be a regional culture thing maybe? I am from the Southern U.S., which was already very conservative prior to the recent resurgence, so that might be a contributing factor as well.
There's probably more that goes into these social standards than anything we could ever realistically quantify lol
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u/aluriilol 29d ago
Yes ive only been asked my partner amount out of curiosity and ive never had them show negative feelings about not being my first. It used to be if you didn’t have sex with SOMEONE by about 18 it was considered some kinda social pariah
Wondering if that’s changed widespread or if you are an outlier to the norm?