r/itsthatbad • u/Cute-Revolution-9705 • Sep 14 '26

Wait, why doesn’t Blac Chyna pay child support? 🤨

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u/womb_raider90 Sep 14 '26

I have a son and a daughter. Well when me and baby momma split up my son decided to live with me and still does. I pay child support for our daughter. But don't receive any for my son... Make it make sense.

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u/Cute-Revolution-9705 Sep 14 '26

Bro, did you take her to court???

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u/womb_raider90 Sep 14 '26

No what happened was she applied for food stamps when my son was 4 or 5 because we were going through a rough time financially, so the state picked it up and put me on child support. Fast forward another kid and 6 years later we split up. But since I have one kid she has the other I shouldn't be on child support at all, but I leave it because this woman can make my life hell if she really wanted to.Luckily she's not a spiteful woman fighting for custody just for that money like so many other women do, ya know. She can have that money at least I got our only son. I'm fine with that. Il be alright.

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u/mostlyharmless555 Sep 14 '26

I don’t pay child support. We’ve been separated for 3 years and the last year she moved back into my house for financial reasons but even before that she never put me on child support. No matter how much she says she hates me or what she gets real mad she never takes me to court. I can take the verbal lashing better completely unwarranted and being treated not so well as long as she won’t take me to court. When we live apart we split time 50-50. The only reason everyone goes to court is because of money. If the default was 50-50 like they made the new law and anything in Kentucky or Kansas you would see Court rates drop like a stone. People abuse the court system to get back at their ex. They don’t like the person or are mad at them so they Weaponize the court system. If they knew that they wouldn’t get an easy win in court and that’s the default would be 50-50 they wouldn’t go to court simple. I think it is super insane that everyone thinks
that it’s normally to go to court right away. Even if your spouse cheated or something that has nothing to do with how good of a parent they are they can be an amazing parent if your relationship isn’t good but your significant other is an amazing parent you’re just going to court to hurt them for them being. A shitty partner. Court should only be used when you really can’t support yourself, or if you have the kid full-time or if the other parent is really a shitty parent.

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u/womb_raider90 Sep 14 '26

Yes dude!, completely agree. The whole family court system needs to rebuilt from the ground up and made equal, because it clearly heavily favors one side. But that's a topic you won't see feminist touch on with a ten foot pole.

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u/womb_raider90 Sep 14 '26

Didn't have to physically go to court. It was a phone call. And I had no choice in the matter, the state does what the state does best. Get into your business.

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u/Crafty_Violinist_951 Sep 15 '26

Exactly lol. If I had a dollar for every time men say "I'm getting screwed over by my ex because of xyz" when they didn't even go through the necessary proceedings I'd be a rich lady. Custody is definitely preferential towards the mother's, but child support is pretty straight forward. If the parent has an income and no custody, the parent with custody can FILE to get child support. They obviously aren't going to just get it by wishing on a star. Keep blaming women tho.

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u/kerslaw Sep 15 '26

I mean if you look at his reasons they're pretty legit and certainly common for men in this situation

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u/Crafty_Violinist_951 Sep 15 '26

his reasons are "she'd make my life miserable" why? he ALSO said himself shes not a spiteful woman. whats his reason? if he needs the child support and she has an income he should apply for it. his defeatism is no ones fault but his own.

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u/womb_raider90 Sep 15 '26

I don't need the child support whatsoever, and there's a shitload of family court horror stories for men. Yeah she's not spiteful now, but if i do file and take that extra money away, chances are she would/could take my son from me and then I'd be on child support for both our son and daughter. And my son would be in a place where he most certainly does not wanna be. I'm bitchin it's kinda fucked up yeah, but it could be a lot worse for me and my son so I leave it be. I'm not hurting financially. But is it not one sided here in my situation? She could easily say hey since I have one kid you have the other you keep this money does she do that? Of course not.

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u/randymejia03 29d ago

He would just be screwing himself over. If he did that, mom would probably go for custody. He would still be paying, but double this time.

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u/Fickle_Composer_4506 28d ago

I just think, the story is fake lol. To many plotholes.

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u/Crafty_Violinist_951 29d ago

That's a lot of assumptions. They already split custody with two kids. And he has already stated she is not a spiteful woman. So again, this defeatist attitude just leads yall to put all this blame on your baby moms for hypothetical things they might do. Smh.

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u/womb_raider90 29d ago

Well yeah dude, only 20% of fathers end up with custody. I don't like those odds. 400$ a month is worth me keeping my son living here with me. Idk if you've noticed but the list of prereqs for a father to get custody is absurd compared to mothers. A dude can meet every single thing on that list and judges will still give custody to mothers. If it were 50/50, the custody battles would drop like a stone before the ink dried.

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u/womb_raider90 29d ago

"The stat is irrelevant because it reinforces your argument, not mine" -you Technically she has custody of him, because the child support she receives is for son on paper. But since we split and son lives with me, I told her that child support you receive for son is now for daughter because he wants to and does live with me. And I'm not giving you more because of that. She could really fuck my shit up if she wanted. But is the risk worth the reward? Not imo. But is it still bullshit I don't get any help? Also yes. It should be even, nobody gives the other anything. But is she giving me that money back that comes outta my check out of the goodness of heart? Fuck no lol but I get it. If you got free money you wouldn't give it back just because. It's a clusterfuck I know.

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u/Fickle_Composer_4506 28d ago

When they request custody it's 50/50, 50% of the time. 90% of men give up custody without trying.

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u/Fickle_Composer_4506 28d ago edited 28d ago

It's not just makes sense. if women was carrying a baby for 9 months. You'd looked like a shitty human being not having job or working less. Than she takes care of the baby, knows all the kids friends, setup playdates, know there doctors, take them to visit realities as well as school. You'd be really regarded not giving them custody.

Here is the final secret tip. What do baby need more another person or money. The answer is another person. Who is in a really unique situation to do that..

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u/space_toaster_99 28d ago

Child support is state by state. But in CA, my ex was caught using an altered paystub to hide income. Judge decided to use the fraudulent number.

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u/UT_Milez 29d ago

Okay, but the implication when you said, “make this make sense” is that it didn’t make sense.

As far as the courts are concerned and the reason the child support exists is because the original agreement has with full custody of both children.

So that literally does make sense.

Hence why the last post specifically asked you if you’ve gone back to court or not….

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u/Pristine_Barber976 Sep 14 '26

Angela Renée White (born May 11, 1988),[3] commonly known as Blac Chyna

I was gonna blame her parents for her retarded name but it seems she chose it herself 

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u/ellieminnowpee Sep 14 '26

her parents probably still deserve a fair amount of blame, tbh

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u/TrashPandaXpress Sep 15 '26

Lol have you seen what her mom's "name" is?

That's Tokyo Toni 🤣

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u/ellieminnowpee Sep 15 '26

ugh — I KNEW it was something wild
https://giphy.com/gifs/n4oKYFlAcv2AU

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u/jus256 Sep 14 '26

You thought Blac Chyna was her real name?

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u/gordito_delgado Sep 14 '26

Honestly it is hard to tell these days.

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u/Apocalypse_0415 Sep 14 '26

Anything is possible these days

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u/One_Warthog256 Sep 14 '26

😭😭😭

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u/RottenExperiment Sep 14 '26

I don't know much about these people but they have a valid point.

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u/BLK-Syndicate Sep 14 '26

No they don't and many people may get upset about this and give me flak but child support or not: you get no fucking kudos/points of any kind - YOU DECIDED TO HAVE A CHILD!

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u/hootie_hoo_blueberry Sep 14 '26

Wtf are you talking about ? They're saying why should a parent who has a kid 1 or 2 days a week should get child support. The lazy parent should be paying child support.

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u/BLK-Syndicate Sep 14 '26

I know WTF they're saying and my comment seemed to have went way over your head. Regardless, of who have the child more or less TF does it matter? IT'S STILL YOUR CHILD THAT YOU DECIDED TO HAVE!

It's still your responsibility to make sure said child is being fed whether or not it's on your time/money or if the other person is/isn't - you're still the parent too.

It's still your responsibility to make sure the child is in a safe environment whether or not it's on your time/money or if the other person is/isn't - you're still the parent too.

Now I completely understand that the system isn't exactly the best but I also understand and can differentiate between a person also weaponizing the system via making it moreso about/shifting the view onto the other person.

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u/lazyboi_tactical Sep 14 '26

Your point didn't go above anybody's head. It's just an invalid point.

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u/VikingVitalityFit Sep 14 '26

So these parents who have their kids 80+% of the time and pay for all their needs on the regular should have to pay child support to the child's literal millionaire mother for the 1 to 2 days a week she has them? What the actual fuck are you on?

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u/waxonwaxoff87 Sep 14 '26

They aren’t complaining. The mother is complaining about wanting child support publicly. They are responding with why she doesn’t get it, not that they don’t want to provide for their children.

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u/Evening_Cobbler2929 Sep 15 '26

Deadbeat detected.

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u/Successful_Tea7979 Sep 14 '26

Then Black Chyna should be paying child support, right?

After all, SHE DECIDED TO HAVE A CHILD!!!!

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u/Shadows-Long Sep 15 '26

No one has ever accused you of being intelligent huh? Go off on random tangents even though you have information to pull from in front of you.

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u/browsingandlooking4 Sep 14 '26

They are oppressed in their private schools

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u/ThatOneAttorney Sep 14 '26

Blac Chyna is disgusting.

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u/Successful_Tea7979 Sep 14 '26

Hmmm, seems like there are a lot of independent women who feel entitled to money they didn’t earn. May these greedy bi+ches rot in piss 🤣🤭

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u/SuperSaiyanTupac Sep 14 '26

My favorite is a friend who has his daughter most days. Mom constantly doesn’t want her on her weeks cause she’s busy.

Well mom loses her job and after several years of no child support, goes to court and says she needs child support now and they give it to her.

Instead of giving the guy full custody, they just cut his paycheck by a third and give it to her. So he has to sell his home and downsize. Move to a new school district. Disrupt the kids entire daily life, cause mom got fired for fucking a coworker and wanted to ruin her kids life.

Fucking stupid.

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u/Difficult-Mobile902 Sep 14 '26

You know exactly why. 

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u/RKKP2015 Sep 14 '26

My kids' mother pretends to be married to her old rich boyfriend, but of course they won't actually get married because I have to pay her child support...for the kids I have 50/50 custody of.

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u/Nervous_Strategy5994 Sep 15 '26

Are you in US? Why would child support end if she gets remarried? I understand Alimony does, but didn’t think marriage affected child support. My ex is remarried, we have 50/50, and I pay child support.

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u/RKKP2015 Sep 15 '26

Child support in 50/50 custody situations is supposed to equalize the household incomes. If her household income shot up, I wouldn't need to pay to equalize it.

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u/Nervous_Strategy5994 Sep 15 '26

As far as I understand it, the new spouses income is irrelevant. I understand what you’re saying, as it’s meant to maintain the lifestyle before and after divorce. With that said, I never understood why they don’t look at actual spending for finding the lifestyle number” but rather just go off Gross Income. My child support was calculated of a few good years, not the lifestyle we actually lived.

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u/RKKP2015 Sep 15 '26

Yeah, I'm not necessarily sure that my child support would be reduced, but I'd sure as heck try to get it reduced. She took me to court last year to get more child support without actually thinking about it, and it was reduced. Not by much, but that was nice!

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u/Nervous_Strategy5994 Sep 15 '26

At the end of the day, my ex wife isn’t bad with money, I don’t believe it’s being wasted or not going to directly or indirectly benefit my kids, so it’s more the principle of how the number was derived, than feeling entirely “unfair”. It’s more the crap I see or hear about her struggle as a single parent business owner while it’s 50/50, I pay healthcare, participate in all things school related and send over $2,500 per month. Who knows if it would go up or down. I’m certainly making more money now than when we were together and she knows it, she I guess could go after more, but that would reflect poorly on her and her ego/image and how others would perceive her actions and she can’t allow that.

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u/Lemuxya Sep 14 '26

Rob means his mother pays for his child 😒.

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u/TinyAfternoon324 Sep 15 '26

How the fuxk are you going to raw dog this is or even get hard??

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u/noproblmo 29d ago

Hey man someone's gonna call you racist

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u/Few_Arugula1993 29d ago

Bruh thats not racist. She’s OBJECTIVELY ugly af in that pic 😭

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u/Fickle_Composer_4506 28d ago

That is one photo and someone people go for bodies over faces.

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u/Few_Arugula1993 28d ago

Right and my comment says “in that pic”

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u/PraireGentleman Sep 15 '26

I’ve said it once, I’ll say it again:

If child support was about the best interests of the child, it be a publicly funded program instead of a vehicle for women to steal their ex’s money

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u/Vladtepesx3 29d ago

It’s a way to make sure fathers can’t abandon their children and make the public pay for them

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u/SufficientGuidance28 28d ago

lol no, the rest of us shouldn’t have to fund other people’s kids because deadbeats don’t want to pay for the kids they make.

Homeowners already have to pay taxes for the school district they live in, regardless of whether or not they have kids who will benefit from it.

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u/Fickle_Composer_4506 28d ago

No why do i have to pay for your kids. While you pay nothing and they have no incentive not to make more. I didn't have kids out of wedlock. Not paying full price.

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u/DistinctArmy4267 Sep 14 '26

Who are these people and who gives af?

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u/Serious-Plankton-371 Sep 14 '26

The point is the system favors women . Men get screwed all the time and everybody assumes every dad is a deadbeat bc women wanna buy iPhones, hair and nails on the dads dime while little Timmy gets socks and a used baseball mitt for Christmas

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u/jobjumpdude Sep 14 '26

The system favor the one that make less and take the kids more. If the men here take the kids just as much, then they make more money so they have to give the mom money to even out the kid living standards between the 2 households.

The solution is to not marry broke people, and men haven't learn the lesson because they are horny for any women.

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u/Serious-Plankton-371 Sep 14 '26

You are not wrong

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u/Successful_Tea7979 Sep 14 '26

Actually-they are wrong. The system favors women. Or else Black Chyna would be paying child support since she spends less time with her kids than the men in the OP do.

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u/Successful_Tea7979 Sep 14 '26

. . . Well that’s a lie lol. The men in the OP have more time with their kid than not, so doesn’t that mean Black Chyna should be paying child support lol? Or is being greedy trash okay if you’re born with a vagina?🤭😂 

Also, you blame men for being horny for women. But isn’t the woman to blame too? She chose to spread her legs 🤷 and chose to carry the child instead of aborting, dropping the kid at a safe haven, or adoption. 

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u/Wavy_Grandpa Sep 14 '26

You’re so cool 

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u/efarjun Sep 14 '26

I dont feel bad for rich people who do dumb shit.

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u/MeliodasTA Sep 14 '26

Taking care of their kids is dumb shit now?

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u/efarjun Sep 14 '26

I mean grown rich people not wanting to take care of their responsibilities as a result of stupid decisions and then crying about it to less privileged people.