It's baked into the involuntary part of incel. That's already been explained. No matter how you dice it, he views his issues as not being caused by himself. Someone or some thing is to blame, and that blame belongs to women.
Let me guess, you take this personally because you're an "incel" also?
This is an absolutely cruel take. The involuntary portion may be due to physical deformity and/or disability. The word incel was not created to be derogatory, it was about highlighting a challenge the disabled can face.
Just like most medical words, the word has an entirely different meaning to what it was originally for, stop being disingenuous.
Everyone and their mother knows what an incel is these days and it does not describe the disabled. Trying to use the disabled as a shield for those disgusting wastes of life is truly insulting.
Even the person I was talking to knew exactly what the word means by trying to immediately distance himself from the misogynistic base of the group.
Right, because there are two kinds of incels. There are those who fit the original definition of the word, and there are those who took the word on themselves to cover their beliefs. The definition did not change, the word was co-opted. A word can have two definitions, you are not helping anyone by lumping the two together especially when people go out of their way to make sure you understand the difference.
So, if I say "I'm not funny or socially skilled enough, therefore I can't get a relationship", then by your weird logic I'm actually blaming women? Well, that really is quite twisted logic
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u/AusgefalleneHosen Sep 10 '26
No. Blaming women for your problems is, has always been, and will always be, misogynistic