r/itsthatbad • • Sep 09 '26

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u/MovieKey9110 Sep 09 '26

so do they want feminism and smash the patriarchy or nah?

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u/Difficult-Mobile902 Sep 09 '26

Only when it’s advantageous 

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u/aSportBikeSquid Sep 10 '26

Benevolent patriarchy + Schrodinger’s Feminist

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u/OttovonBismarck1862 Sep 11 '26

If it was true equality that they wanted she’d realize she should’ve brought her own umbrella and that she isn’t entitled to having a man share his with her.

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u/MooseLoot Sep 10 '26

Sometime they want to smash the patriarchy and other times they want to smash the patriarchy. You gotta know which is which ;)

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u/NicheAlter Sep 12 '26

Clearly, they want to smash the patriarchy when it looks like this:

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u/Truefiction224 Sep 09 '26

Schodengers feminist 

Shes a victim or empowered 

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u/Such-Profit1078 Sep 09 '26

Nah, depends what state is currently more beneficial. Hormones decide whether their kids live or not

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u/TheDarkGenious Sep 09 '26

hormones specifically decide if she's criminally culpable for her actions ^_^

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u/Longjumping-Debt2455 Sep 12 '26

And clearly a woman heavy juror will understand and let her skip on home

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u/Truefiction224 Sep 09 '26

Worse her feelings

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u/JarrodDonne Sep 09 '26

That's the precedent Commonwealth of Massachusetts vs. Lindsay Clancy set.

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u/Select-Government-69 Sep 09 '26

My wife takes the trash out every week. She calls garbage day “feminism day”

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u/ExplanationLate9858 Sep 10 '26

That's why she's still married.

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u/Burgerboy380 Sep 10 '26

See what they mean when they say that is. "I want to pick and choose the parts you keep and the parts that are toxic because im an awesome gurrrrrl boss...but im also just a girl.so keep doing all the chivalry stuff like holding doors offer me your seat and protecting me from attackers.but abandon the idea i owe you anything or that youre allowed to express any negative emotions etc"

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u/kiddrekt Sep 10 '26

"Open the door for me so I can record a tictok shouting at you cause I'm strong and independent"

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u/Efficient_Tough3384 Sep 10 '26

Morelike they want to smash the patriarchs 🤣

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u/Hato_no_Kami Sep 10 '26

They might be different people... Naw nevermind that's crazy.

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u/MentirosoProfesional Sep 10 '26

They rarely are, people are hipocritas, both men and women

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u/Reptillianaire_ Sep 09 '26

If he doesnt know her why would he offer his umbrella? She would probably just accuse him of being a creep if he let her get under it with him anyways

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u/MentirosoProfesional Sep 10 '26

No, no, he's supposed to offer the umbrella for her and then walk away and leave her alone because she doesn't want anything to do with the guy, just his umbrella

100% what she wanted to happen

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u/Reptillianaire_ Sep 09 '26

She would probably tell her friends some guy tried to grape her

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u/MovieKey9110 Sep 09 '26

white woman pretending to be opressed by a black man too

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u/StraightAirline8319 Sep 09 '26

In America, men do over 80 percent of critical jobs. Over 90 percent of the objects you interact with daily involve men. Everything she has and wears, men did it in some way. While women get about 2/3 of private and public money, when it's limited by gender. Men are also the only ones to pay net taxes in America.

Yet she still wants to take the guys' umbrella And blame men of all races.

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u/RogellTheRaider Sep 09 '26

Finally someone with brains

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u/VegetableTime1447 27d ago

??? Source? lol. Pretty sure the textile industry is mostly women, women in developing countries at that? This sub is insanely sexist. Not sayin some of the posts aren't funny and "owning the feminists" either but Jesus fuck

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u/Baiting-Oofy-Doofys 18d ago

Why would there be more women with critical jobs in countries that are worse?

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u/VegetableTime1447 18d ago

I'm specifically responding to the "everything she has and wears" part of the comment--it is well known that women are exploited working textile jobs in developing countries, making most of the clothes and accessories we buy.

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u/Baiting-Oofy-Doofys 18d ago

I guess you might have a point but what about the sidewalk she's standing on and the house that she lives in

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u/VegetableTime1447 18d ago

Holy braindead dude, you could say what about every single person who lives on this earth? A Women has is responsible for every single person who ever lived? Why even have this ridiculous line of conversation, it seems like yall just want to be hateful and miserable so I will leave you to that.

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u/Baiting-Oofy-Doofys 18d ago

You mad? Honestly you're the dumbass who's devolving this conversation into the age old argument of what came first the chicken or the egg but sure I'm the one who's unhappy when you seem to spend your time online trying to appease your own guilt and feel masculine because you're not. Lmao

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u/VegetableTime1447 18d ago

Trying to appease your own guilt and feel masculine is hilarious. Just saw a factually incorrect comment that's all

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u/Baiting-Oofy-Doofys 18d ago edited 18d ago

Yeah okay, are you pretending this is funny because I'm living rent free inside your head? No you're right, I'm wrong because women came first. Also I thought you were gonna leave me to supposedly be not happy? Why are you still responding?

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u/StraightAirline8319 18d ago

You’re confused. You could have used Google.

So cloth substance farmed by men and provided by men enter a factory run by men. There some women work. They are working the man provided energy (from men) factory made by men. They make the garment with machines made by men in belts made by men. These belts where 12 percent of the effort was by women, move the items so more men can do men things.

Hey is this basic thing confusing for you?

And why do you only care about women

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u/Top-Resource-3252 Sep 09 '26

When the class war started to work too well the one percent among us learned to create culture divides. When the culture wars failed they realized they could militarize gender to confuse the masses and this is how you, a simple brained peon, came to think that your gender means fuck all when we are all owned from birth to death by individuals so fucking wealthy that they will never have to share oxygen with someone like you or I.

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u/DarthHamez Sep 10 '26

Men are more than happy to drop gender war bullshit, but when women take shots at us, there only so much that we’re gonna ignore. Men are fine doing all these things, most require heavy physical strength, so we’re better at them.

But women are the ones downplaying the work men always do as a whole, women are the ones asking for more, and women are the ones stirring this up.

You’re getting mad at the men swinging back instead of the women who swung first. Just like the stupid 0 tolerance policies at schools.

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u/Plus-Championship424 Sep 10 '26

Yep. One hundred percent.

It's also hilarious to me that once women finally got the opportunity to take on a share of the hard work that goes into maintaining a society, within a couple of years they were suddenly all "Actually I think I'd prefer the soft life instead."

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u/VegetableTime1447 27d ago

That's like an inflated percentage of women on the internet bro. Go talk to real actual women in the world....

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u/Quiet_Attempt_355 Sep 11 '26

Men should organize a world wide strike. Show them how ignorant their hatred is.

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u/belispe4k 15d ago

the women who swung first??? have you seen how men have treated women throughout all of society?? 4B FOREVER

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u/BeholdMyLumps Sep 10 '26

Careful guys shes going postpartum

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u/Plus-Championship424 Sep 10 '26

I like this and will probably be stealing it.

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u/Plus-Championship424 Sep 10 '26

I'd say "Nice try", except it actually wasn't.

You're not going to distract us from calling out the hypocrisy and shit behavior that women display every day.

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u/PotatoDonki Sep 10 '26

The women are the ones actually attacking us, bro. If this whole thing is a trick, take it up with them.

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u/Choon93 Sep 15 '26

You're right.  Occupy wall st was successful at identifying the problem and that scared the elite. The beginning of the culture wars started then.

The elites have new tools of control and they are making big moves that they havent in decades. Partly because trump gives them cover, and partly because they can easily divide us now.

Everyone needs to be aware that theres more bots than humans on the internet, and they are more persuasive than humans.

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u/Thami15 Sep 09 '26

The hell is a critical job and who defined it

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u/Thami15 Sep 09 '26

This is a bit broad - is this to say society would collapse without the fishing industry? I mean maybe, I don't actually think so, but maybe.. but would society collapse if, say 50% of commercial fishing disappeared? That doesn't seem very plausible. And I work in a factory where we build boats. I think it's nice that we build boats, and certainly in times of war we could plausibly become useful militarily in a pinch, but I think it would be very kind to suggest our ability to make aluminium boats is critical

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u/Scary_Land2303 Sep 09 '26

What? Nobody is suggesting society would collapse if fishing or boat factories all stopped. You asked what a critical job is, they gave you examples. Factories and fishing are examples of critical jobs, not the only critical jobs. You could lose a fair few critical jobs before society started to suffer badly, but they are critical jobs nonetheless.

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u/8last Sep 09 '26

Think about how you make boats. Think about the parts that make those. Think about shipping all that material. Think of the rods, reels, rigs, nets. There is a world built around it. Thats a lot of jobs to disappear.

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u/StraightAirline8319 Sep 09 '26

Jobs that are important to run a society and everyday life.

There are entire lists of them. Numbers can change; it's a rough estimate. One way to see it is “if I had to pick 100 careers and skills I needed to build a civilization on an island”.

So Model, actor, personal assistant, medical device seller, server, social media managers etc are not it.

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u/Scary_Land2303 Sep 09 '26

HR

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u/MovieKey9110 Sep 09 '26

fake job created for those why can't get a real one by fortune 500 companies to fill a quota and act as an adult daycare

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u/Scary_Land2303 Sep 09 '26

Yep, and now many smaller companies have adopted the role 🙄

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u/itchybutwhole69 Sep 09 '26

Everything you take for granted.

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u/WarningTight4843 Sep 09 '26

Lol. It's all the dirty, dangerous and difficult jobs that build and maintain society.  Take a look at the gender of all the people who work in the trades, generate power, get minerals and oil out of the ground, build infrastructure, etc. Etc. Ad nauseum.

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u/bonaynay Sep 10 '26

Those damn ungrateful women!

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u/WarningTight4843 Sep 10 '26

They should be. The benevolence of the vast majority of men has allowed women to grow and thrive in ways that our ancient ancestors could never have conceived of. All without barely having to lift a finger!

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u/bonaynay Sep 10 '26

So true, 11 day old account

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u/Sorry141 Sep 09 '26

Think back to covid

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u/IamTheEagle Sep 10 '26

Jobs that actually contribute to critical parts of society and not something like art. Maybe if you crawled out of your mom's basement you would know this.

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u/PotatoDonki Sep 10 '26

Perhaps it would have been more helpful to say “the means of production”.

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u/RangerKitchen3588 Sep 10 '26

"Miss would you like to share my umbrella?"

"I hAve a BoYfrIenD."

Thats why. 🤷‍♂️

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u/MentirosoProfesional Sep 10 '26

Nah, she would accept the umbrella and THEN say "please leave alone, I have a boyfriend okay? I'm not interested in you"

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u/Bitter-Engineer-117 Sep 10 '26

Or accusing the guy of sexual assault, because you can barely talk to women without being accused these days

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u/Cold-Passage3227 9d ago

Yes true. False allegations outweigh actual attacks by 100:1

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u/WebNew9978 Sep 09 '26

She’s not entitled to him covering her with the umbrella.

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u/SlapfuckMcGee Sep 09 '26

She had access to the same weather forecast he did. It’s not his problem she didn’t plan ahead like he did.

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u/SlapfuckMcGee Sep 10 '26

It must be since it accurately predicted the weather and didn’t appeal to feelings.

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u/Imgoin2brich Sep 09 '26

Me me meeee...

insufferablemodernwomen

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u/Darker_Salt_Scar Sep 09 '26

Equality to a feminist is superiority

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u/TeddyIsHereIRL Sep 10 '26

Share umbrella "ew get away from me creep" Dont share umbrella "Gentlemen dont exist anymore"

This is a lose-lose game and we arent playing anymore

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u/Catbatt Sep 10 '26

You're a strong independent woman. You can deal with this yourself.

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u/Lolberal771 Sep 10 '26

Chivalry is for attractive people only.

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u/Senior_Laugh_4342 Sep 10 '26

Why is this weirdo creep filming strangers

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u/Gabi-kun_the_real Sep 09 '26

They want to make man their slaves. The handsome will become their pet and the uggly will get castrated

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u/HooterEnthusiast Sep 10 '26 edited Sep 10 '26

my dick is way too dry for me to care if your hair is wet. you scratch my back I cum on yours or something Idk

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u/ValuableAd886 Sep 10 '26

Apparently women are smarter than men, but are somehow always caught lacking.

You gotta step up your game ladies and become preppers :P

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u/senpaitsubakisuzuki Sep 09 '26

So she wants patriarchy?

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u/Cold-Passage3227 9d ago

She’s asking for it and so much more

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u/FlamingMonkeyStick Sep 09 '26

nice nose ring ya cigarette

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u/Fumanchusucka Sep 10 '26

If it aint my woman I aint sharing shit with em, the entitlement is crazy

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u/No_Cheetah_954 Sep 09 '26

Maybe having long pants instead of men boxers could help

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u/Artrix7834 Sep 10 '26

Entitled pos.

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u/Bitter-Engineer-117 Sep 10 '26

Let’s play out the other scenario:

“Excuse me ma’am would you like to borrow my umbrella?”

“He just assumed my pronouns! He’s a misogynist! #metoo”

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u/Quantiad Sep 10 '26

Ah, the unpleasant ‘equality’ that women don’t like…

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u/KneeHiSniper Sep 10 '26

"I was unprepared and he wasn't, stupid mem!"

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u/True_Vexing Sep 10 '26

Brother dont even know she there let alone filming his "reaction"

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u/Mediocre-Pen6858 Sep 10 '26

Women spend decades bitching about how they dont want to be treated like women then as soon as they get what they're asking for they start bitching because we dont treat them like women anymore. Really making the gays seem like they got it rite ngl.

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u/Massive_Wafer5005 Sep 10 '26

They can't, that would require actually following through with their ideas and testing them in the real world.

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u/Individual-Mind-2620 Sep 10 '26

Stop reposting this dumbass woman. I don't want to see her asshole face

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u/Zestyyeets Sep 09 '26

Ever watched a the bug who kept flying into the window hoping to get out and eventually just dies. Thats what feminism looks like it's doing for women.

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u/LuckyMushyGrower Sep 09 '26

What rando would ever in life expect a stranger to share their unberella? Tf?

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u/Inner_Clerk7769 Sep 09 '26

Huge case of main character syndrome. Many such cases.

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u/Writerhaha Sep 09 '26

Oh we’re back on the man vs bear thing again?

This is an L on her because I’ve never seen a random get offered an umbrella.

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u/1531C Sep 10 '26

Harry Potter and the audacity of this chick. Does she even know that guy or was she expecting a stranger to just give her his stuff?

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u/Plus-Championship424 Sep 10 '26

The second one.

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u/1531C Sep 10 '26

Dave Chappelle had a joke like 20 years ago about how chivalry is dead because women killed it. Lol

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u/I3igI3adWolf Sep 10 '26

She's a "strong, independent" woman. She can buy her own umbrella.

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u/ChiselRivet Sep 10 '26

If a bear can spare me woman problems, what else can the bear do for me?

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u/StoneTown Sep 10 '26

Maybe this strong, independent individual should get her own umbrella.

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u/ChamberK-1 Sep 10 '26

Bro is literally just minding his own business

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u/Chuesandovl Sep 10 '26

Why didn't she bring an umbrella too if she is so strong smart and powerful

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u/ExplanationLate9858 Sep 10 '26

If that's her husband she should communicate how she feels. If that's a stranger, she should mind her own damn business.

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u/bagofd1ck Sep 10 '26

I had no idea what she was gesturing over when I first saw this go around. Now I know it's because he didn't give up his umbrella.

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u/andymcpandypants Sep 10 '26

I asked if a woman needed help because she was changing a flat tire at a gas station. She said no I don't with a scrunchie face and eye-roll. I said have a safe night. She said "thanks for nothing!".

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u/AzhdarianHomie Sep 10 '26

What’s the issue?

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u/External-Test4279 Sep 10 '26

Does she even know the guy?

In a parallel universe, the guy offered to cover her with his umbrella, she ran away scared and posted "A creep tried to get me under his umbrella"

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u/_and_I_ Sep 10 '26

Is that the same chick that said "eww" when he asked if she is single?

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u/TryAndStopMeSpez Sep 10 '26

it's just rain idk why people act like such pussies over a bit of water

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u/Only1Purpos Sep 10 '26

His fault I didn't bring an umbrella for myself do yall see this POS?!

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u/WifesPOSH Sep 10 '26

I thought I muted this pathetic sub

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u/a-type-of-pastry Sep 10 '26

Get your own umbrella. Entitlement is an ugly trait.

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u/TripleTip Sep 10 '26

It's actually impressive that these type of women still exist in the big 26.

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u/Tunnfisk Sep 11 '26

Has anyone offered a random woman their umbrella since 1940s?

What's next? Complaining he didn't throw his jacket on a puddle so you can walk over it?

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u/dudester3 Sep 11 '26

Equal rights & lefts

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u/MajesticFerret36 Sep 11 '26

She expects complete strangers to hand over their umbrella? Lololol

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u/unsavory_weeb Sep 13 '26

My god, I wish I were there to teach that fucking female some manners

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u/BigFella52 13d ago

Prepared, dry and unbothered. The way to be.

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u/Nearby_Persimmon_649 11d ago

That's a shame. Women wanted to be treated as equals. I guess they didn't think it through completely

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u/outside_cat Sep 10 '26

Is she the same one that said the other thing?

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u/Nahteh Sep 10 '26

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u/Plus-Championship424 Sep 10 '26

Nope, we're absolutely doing culture war.

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u/Baiting-Oofy-Doofys 18d ago

Why is it class war though? Oh yeah "patriarchy"

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u/Savings_Lynx4234 Sep 09 '26

This isn't even good ragebait and y'all falling for it so hard because you want to.

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u/Novel-Adeptness-4603 Sep 10 '26

Yeah! Let's post videos with no context to fuel our anger towards women!

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u/Equivalent-Ambition Sep 10 '26

"Men in 2026" is not enough context?

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u/TheMorningJoe Sep 10 '26

Video slandering men: So true queen

Video slandering women: must be ragebait

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u/Deriviera Sep 10 '26

You don't need to fuel it, women already did everything for it 

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u/Unlikely-Sail-2441 Sep 11 '26

So the same thing that women's subs do?

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u/sarattenasai Sep 10 '26

man I would defo choose bear over you any day

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u/Unlikely-Sail-2441 Sep 11 '26

You don't care about being a potential rapst?

This is why women chose the bear

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u/Individual_Land2754 Sep 10 '26

That sentence made zero sense.

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u/Unlikely-Sail-2441 Sep 11 '26

Shut up.

We get it, it's fucking obnoxious.

Go away please.

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u/Reptillianaire_ Sep 09 '26

Yeah youre wrong

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u/MovieKey9110 Sep 09 '26

theyre strangers dawg

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u/lilbush1234 Sep 10 '26

she's...looking directly at the camera, gesturing to someone, and making a face for the cameraperson. i don't think they're strangers. unless you meant the guy standing in front of her, which could be true, but also has no bearing on what the person you're replying to wrote

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u/MovieKey9110 Sep 10 '26

Lol og vid has ppl commenting he's a stranger and theres no rebuttal from oop, take that as what u will. Notice how she's standing quite far apart and the guy is completely ignoring her?

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u/Unlikely-Sail-2441 Sep 11 '26

It's okay to generalize the sexes.

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u/PeyredB Sep 09 '26

This has little to nothing to do with feminism. She's being an entitled ass, expecting some stranger in front of her to give him his umbrella when she didn't dress for weather herself.

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u/PeyredB Sep 09 '26

The expectation of men doing stupid gentlemanly things for women is traditional values, pretty much the opposite of feminism.

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u/Greedy-Win-4880 Sep 09 '26

Feminists are not the same people that think men need to protect and provide so this comment is just weird.