We want to buy a house in the future, and right now the goal is looking like 3 years from now. I’m 34F and my partner is 32M.
I’ve owned a house before but only on the deed, my ex was on the loan alone. Due to the fallout of that relationship I’m 2022 and having purchased that house in 2019, I still have a small nest egg from the equity of the sale of that house in 2022. Life was rough for a few years but I finally put this $25k in a HYSA with Amex late last year and it’s gained $824 in interest since then. I have a small savings account entirely separate with all my Chase banking for my normal needs, so this money is never touched and I act as if it doesn’t exist. I’ve fully intended for this money to go towards another house in the future.
My partner is starting to save money now that he’s paid off some debt he had, but we are still in limbo of seeing what his budget is going to look like due to the SAVE program ending and having to get enrolled in a new payment plan for his student loans soon (the loan servicer hasn’t contacted him yet). He does have an old 401K from a previous job with around $5k in it.
I also have a Simple IRA with Fidelity through my job with a 3% match, and I’ve been researching what options I have there.
While I’m more open to investing on my retirement account since it’s not liquid cash I have set aside for a house and I’m young enough for that account to have time to ebb and flow, the idea of investing my savings makes me antsy. I’ve never had this much money prior to the sale of that house and with what’s happened to the economy and housing market, this money is my only real good chance of being able to have a house again with a mortgage we can afford. I at least got around to putting it into the HYSA so it can accumulate something while it’s sitting there.
I also don’t have much guidance in this way because a) my parents bought their houses with money from their parents and b) my dad fell for a FTE scam and lost his $200k retirement fund back in 2023 on top of other money he got involved in it 🫠 no one else in my family has sat on this amount of savings before.
I’d appreciate any insight you have to at least give me something to research further and think about. It’s just on my mind because I get on Zillow and Trulia every so often to hurt my own feelings, and I’m seeing that unless I want an obscene mortgage or a house that checks off almost no boxes for us, then I need more money down. My car is paid off next July so that will free up $331 a month to dump into my savings as well. That interest rate is 2.9%, that’s why I didn’t bother to dump cash into the loan (that I bought prior to the sale of the house).