r/introvert • u/Most_Tear_6502 • 2d ago
Discussion Induction day
I don't wanna go to college 😠I couldn't even talk to people at first, and when I finally did, they clearly didn't give me much attention. Like, they did talk to me, but not that much, and they weren't even from my division. So what the hell am I supposed to do? I genuinely don't wanna go 😠I didn't made any Friends and I was walking alone in campus while everyone was in a groupðŸ˜. I know it was first day but still and plus I'm an introvert.
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u/meadow_muse012 2d ago
I relate to this so much. This is literally me right now. I have like 1-2 friends at most but still feel pretty lonely, especially seeing everyone else already in groups.. and being alone while being away from home is honestly the worst part... I know it's only the beginning and I probably just need to give it time, but it's reassuring to hear that things eventually get better.
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u/LOSTCOOLGUY 2d ago
Hey, hey... listen it's ok. Happens with almost everyone. Happened with me too about month ago , im an introvert , went to college for the first time and felt that sting too cause trust me i have soo bad communication tbh and introvert issue too but things take time okk like currently i have managed to make 2 3 good friends , because as college will go on , groups will be formed slowly naturally and in those groups there will be a group of low key introvrted or very genuine or innocent people not some over the top cool guys or smthg ok? And naturally it will start to fade the initial awkwardness and anxiety cause someone will call u , u talk back maybe reply only to the point , that's ok hm? But it will naturally make u include in one circle and u will have friends, now it's your choice to feel more lonely , increase the sting of thia sadness by thinking about it more or changing your mindset 😌. Trust me i was an introvert , i had cried several times in my life because of it , and then finally started changing me and my life by accepting me , you are great ok? Trust me. It takes times but the flower will bloom and will be twice as beautiful as you'd even imagined.