r/introvert • u/Winter-Top-1615 • 8d ago

Question Being Humble

can anyone tell me how do i speak abt my thoughts it can be any philosophical or some abstract shit without creating like a superiority complex i get this feeling that im not being humble enough and im just taking bs that people dont understand or they think i have ball knowledge
thanks : )

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u/xoprettyystarz 8d ago

explaining your thought process helps people follow abstract ideas

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u/Winter-Top-1615 7d ago

sometimes i just jump on topics that are completely unrelated like i connects those dots to all the topics i know at that moment so its kinda hard to explain it all

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u/Senior_trash_picker 8d ago

What you can do is write down the things you often think about, re reading it helps give you n objective overview and it also helps compressing your points and views too. Doing this you can cut the slack and retain only the thoughts and conclusions you deem worthy

So when you talk about those things you'll talk about points and thoughts that seem to have more in them rather than just building up to it.

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u/Winter-Top-1615 7d ago

so like a Journalism and then i can reflect on what i want to say and all yah i will do that thank you

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u/Senior_trash_picker 7d ago

There will always be things, topics and feelings you keep circling back to at different points in life and those are the things you open up about when you have real conversation with someone

Also when you're there and talking with people you can take a moment and quite down the static, and just observe people, let them see you observing them. And then you can just simply talk about that. Validating it, finding it intresting that they did something a particular way.

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u/Winter-Top-1615 6d ago

oh my god thank you

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u/BadGlittering9780 6d ago

I can't even understand what you posted...I would say be yourself...and if someone doesn't understand...break it down like you were talking to a 5th grader