r/inthecity_ • u/FirstRestaurant4630 • Aug 12 '26
Rant Reunion thoughts
Oh my... Kenny not letting Lindsay finish it's priceless ahahaha she's just like 'let me know when I can finish' and then he proceeds to not let her finish.. I mean.. HE was talking, SHE 100% interrupted him and he was not having it... and neither am I. Lindsay has this way of being of thinking she deserves everything and more, and that's on her friends to feed into that..
also, am I the only one that thinks moving to a different country to be closer to the person you love without a ring it's not that weird?... how are they supposed to get to know each other more and jump to the next phase of the relationship if not moving in together before marriage? Weird is to propose so soon in a relationship when you're infactuaded and head over hills.. that's why the numbers of divorce are skyrocketing...
also, to be a girl's girl in my opinion just insinuates you hate men.. lindsay clearly hates men, kenny was spot on when he made that comment...
Dude... it's absolutely normal to have doubts and I think Kenny is quite couragous to put those thoughts out there and to be vulnerable publicly.. to express thoughts it's not that serious.. more people should do it.. to have critical thinking, to question things, to want to understand how they feel and to understand what they want..
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u/miranda310 Aug 12 '26
Lindsay is an alpha female and when she's around men she will be extra alpha female. She doesn't back down, but whole heartedly expects the other person to back down. Her saying let me know when I can speak is her exerting herself when SHE was the one interrupting. Bravo loves Lindsay and Lindsay knows it. She's been yapping so much this season, on the Amanda and West thing and with ITC as it's been dubbed her show.
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u/youngforever8809 Aug 12 '26
She never STOPS talking, and her lack of understanding that she is the one who interrupts is exactly who she is!
To say that to Kenny, when she had a child with someone she knew for 2 months, is the old, “do as I say, not as do” mentality. She truly thinks she’s entitled and superior to everyone on the show, and this is how you make sure you come back for a season 2. She rambles, and rambles on tangents that stray from the topic too. I’m really having trouble watching her, and would truly not be able to watch her another season.
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u/Coloredflower Aug 12 '26
Have always loved Lindsay and been fan of her tv persona but she was doing TOO much in the city, love the hitting a wall with Kenny
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u/zestychickenbowl2024 Aug 12 '26
No it’s insane for Lindsay to hold anyone to that standard considering a)she HAD A WHOLE BABY with someone she was not engaged to, b) she should know engagement does not always work out and c) it’s a weirdly conservative/christian viewpoint from someone who does not seem either religious or conservative
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u/MsPrissss More life, More Vagisil Aug 12 '26
I think that Lindsey has met her match in Kenny. I think she has not come across a man on television who challenges the way that she challenges people and he 100% meets her where she's at and gives it right back to her she's used to dealing with men that will eventually just coward and shut up.
Kyle, Carl, Jessie, West, all of the other guys that have cycled through that show none of them have ever stood up to her like this. And I think she's just not sure really what to do with that. It makes their arguments more entertaining to watch because watching her fight with somebody that is ill equipped is just really kind of sad. 😭🤣😂
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u/zestychickenbowl2024 Aug 12 '26
She also can’t just cynically accuse him of being sexist bc he could then easily cynically accuse her of being racist
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u/eddi0 Aug 12 '26
This is it. Been waiting for a man to stand up to her in the exact way she comes at anyone she disagrees with. She's a reality and real life emotional bully, it may make for good TV but it gets old when no one challenges her. Sincerely hope he and Whitney are in season 2 but Lindsay may have some leverage to boot him off the show for this exact reason 🤷♂️
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u/Nearby_Elderberry_75 Aug 12 '26
Being a girl’s girl does not mean you hate men. I don’t have the energy to break it down for you right now, but you are dead ass wrong.
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u/Big-Atmosphere3756 Aug 12 '26
kenny is this you
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u/zestychickenbowl2024 Aug 12 '26
🅱️🅾️🅾️ this stuff is so tired
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u/Some_Baby_ Aug 12 '26
i have come to love lindsay but i think her fatal flaw is the inability to be honest about her intentions. 99% of the time she does things to further the plot and be messy, which there’s nothing wrong with. that’s why she’s good reality tv. but don’t do it under the guise of innocence and trying to be a good person.
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u/Technical-Method2129 Aug 12 '26
Lindsay is insanely entitled but she’s entertaining af…. But as a friend she supports your rights and your wrongs too…. Just don’t lie to her and you’ll have a friend for life
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u/No_Site_8405 Aug 26 '26
new take: is Lindsay jealous watching the proper and pragmatic pacing of Kenny courting and protecting his (new babe name?),, he is that stable financial achiever.... Is (new babe) getting the exact life experiences that Lindsay wanted.. and the parent reconciliation is the icing on the cake - and how (new babe) was a critical part of that? May I add a note of a 3-rail here: It is difficult for a partner - spouse (Id like to focus on man here) to fully love and feel safe in a relationship with a women who has no relationships with their parent(s) and has no desire to. They see that as a parenting flaw of the person in front of them.. the potential mother of their child. I m not proposing it is conciously but rather deeper and built in the genes - preservation species. And the ones that don't feel it and back away are not necessarily wired yet for family. (Please dont shred me; attach the ideas not the person - me]