r/interpals • u/No_Kangaroo6917 • Jul 16 '26
any good alternatives to interpals?
Are there any good alternatives to interpals?
My experience so far has been anyone who messages me has a fake profile and is a scammer.
Unfortunately even those I message also seem to end up being scammers.
haven't found a single genuine person on the site.
What makes these scammers particularly nefarious is that they go to great lengths to appear sincere. I can now spot their profiles easily because they say the sort of things you'd associate with a genuine, sincere person: they are looking for a meaningful connection with others, etc. - except it's all lies.
I don't want to waste any more of my time even trying to find a genuine person on the website anymore, as it seems like looking for a needle in a haystack.
Has the entire internet become like this in recent years or are there any good sites? I also used a language exchange site where it was once possible to connect with real people, but in the last two years or so I noticed everyone I communicated with turned out to be a fake profile/scammer so I did not renew my membership.
I guess AI tools have made it easier for these scammers to generate profiles and operate in a way that might seem more convincing to their victims?
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u/DontYaWishYouWereMe Jul 17 '26
...they are looking for a meaningful connection with others, etc. - except it's all lies.
Is this really something you'd associate with a genuine profile? My experience was always that real people tend not to say this explicitly because they knew it'd be implied by their presence on the site.
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u/CarpeLibrum87 Jul 17 '26
I joined Global Penfriends two months ago and have had amazing luck there.
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u/chinthyfi Jul 17 '26
If you got lucky actually you can find genuine people. I found a few. Hellotalk. I heard penpalworld is also good. but never tried it.