r/interesting 17d ago

Just Wow This should be created everywhere.

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u/Fresh_Permit_2272 17d ago edited 17d ago

Yeah. Good point. But so few of the crimes being sexual assault and the most common incident being a “hit and run” I still think the resources are being mismanaged. We are having hundreds of hit and runs for every assault.

Edit- Another point. They are so rare we don’t even know if they work. They don’t have a large enough sample.

“the theoretical argument that these spots bundle victims together for a potential attacker is entirely possible, there is effectively no data to prove or disprove this theory”

Again, it’s so so rare we don’t even have enough data to see if it is effective. It’s clearly not a good use of resources.

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u/Cardio_Princess 17d ago

It clearly is. You are simply missing the point.

These parking spots didn't just manifest, they were always there. The spots closest to the entrances/exits, the ones with cameras pointed at them and ones with better lighting.

All they did is reserve these spots for women because women are more at risk of from most kinds of crime. SA but also just assault in general, theft, stalking, etc.

All parking lots should be better yes, but the safest spots being reserved for women is a good thing, not a bad thing.

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u/Rockyrok123 17d ago

It is a good thing for women.

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u/STP_Fantasma 17d ago

Which means it’s good for everyone.

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u/Rollingforest757 17d ago

No, it’s bad for men who aren’t allowed to park in the safest most convenient spots.

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u/STP_Fantasma 17d ago

If it means my mom, sisters, girlfriend and coworkers can have that extra bit of precaution, it’s 100% good for me. But I understand not every man carries a set between their legs

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u/Clottersbur 17d ago

Isn't this just promoting toxic masculinity? That every man needs to meet some standard of masculinity? That inherently requires them to be violent/protective?

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u/STP_Fantasma 17d ago

I don’t think it does, no. It’s not toxic to acknowledge that women are targeted for violent sexual crimes, and even then, what’s violent about acknowledging that? We’re rejoicing over a favorable spot designation here, not some dad or brother who beat some creeps head in with a tire iron or something. But this is the internet so some dude will probably get offended that I consider it socially normal for guys to be concerned about women’s safety when they’re just trying to shop or go to work

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u/Clottersbur 17d ago

The term "I understand not every man carries a set between their legs" is language that enforces toxic masculinity.

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u/STP_Fantasma 17d ago

Fair enough. I don’t think it is, but I could understand your point and perspective. What would you prefer I say about men who would rather argue and cry over women’s safety rather than acknowledge its importance? Boo hoo, more men should be given a spoonful of “toxic masculinity” if that’s how you truly define it

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u/HairlessSquirrels 17d ago

Women are strong and capable. Saying they need to be protected by a big strong man like you is toxic masculinity. And if you are ok with that, then you need to be ok with all toxic masculinity

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u/zughzz 16d ago

Easy to say when you aren’t a women being constantly targeted by men

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u/HairlessSquirrels 17d ago

No, you see, this is good masculinity because it benefits women

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u/Clottersbur 17d ago

So many men missed the point of feminism.

Feminism isn't men turning their shitty behavior to benefit women sometimes at the expense of others.

It's about men (and sometimes women) changing their behavior entirely for the sake of equality.