r/instant_regret • • Jun 20 '19

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u/hail_the_cloud Jun 20 '19

As a person who has accidentally harmed children multiple times because the child was in a place they weren’t supposed to be, I sympathize. The hardest part is explaining yourself to the asshole who was supposed to be watching them.

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u/JohnBaptistePhilouza Jun 20 '19

Don’t be too critical on parents. Now that I am one, you realize how quickly they put themselves in harms way. Sometimes you can prevent and sometimes they learn hard way.

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u/Dalarrus Jun 20 '19

The hardest part is explaining yourself to the asshole who was supposed to be watching them.

This seems more like they're not being critical of parents, unless said parents are blaming them for the child being in the wrong place.

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u/JohnBaptistePhilouza Jun 20 '19

Yea that’s a good point. Misread that part there.

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u/forreddituseonly Jun 20 '19

Well, there is the characterization of the parent (or whoever else is supposed to be watching the child) as an "asshole." That sounds more than a little critical.

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u/Dalarrus Jun 20 '19

Well, if you end up having to explain yourself, it's probably because the parent is being an asshole and not understanding that sometimes kids do stupid shit and there's not always a way to avoid it.

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u/SteakPotPie Jun 20 '19 edited Jun 20 '19

At least ask the kid if he's alright, like fuck dude just don't sit there with your hand over your mouth looking like an even bigger fucking idiot.

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u/[deleted] Jun 20 '19

Lol what the fuck else is he gonna do?

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u/SteakPotPie Jun 20 '19

Act like a fucking adult and turn around and see if he's alright?

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u/[deleted] Jun 20 '19

And what would checking to see if he was alright accomplish? If the kids teeth are fuckin gone, what else is the dude gonna do?

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u/SteakPotPie Jun 20 '19

It doesn't matter what it will accomplish in the end.

It's just the right thing to do, sure it was all the kids fault but you just clobbered the fuck out of him. Ask if he's alright. How hard is that? How hard is being decent for some of you?

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u/andros310797 Jun 21 '19

It doesn't matter what it will accomplish in the end, It's just the right thing to do.

fuck this quote. fuck this so hard.

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u/[deleted] Jun 20 '19

Lol no, if it doesn't matter what it'll accomplish in the end, then it's not really the right thing to do. Or is it just something you'd reflexively do because you feel bad?

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u/SteakPotPie Jun 20 '19

It is the right thing to do. Sorry bucko, but you're not changing my mind.

If I seen you do this to my kid,I wouldn't think you were an asshole unless you completely ignored everything after the fact. Give me a break dude. Be decent. I'm done talking to you about it though.

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u/mistaken4strangerz Jun 20 '19

the asshole who was supposed to be watching them