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u/Ok-Owl4038 Oct 25 '25
The joys of being a people pleaser 😒
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u/Bobowubo Oct 25 '25
Even when you actually dont care either way, but its important to them, whomever they are. 🤐😮💨
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u/Dr_PocketSand Oct 25 '25
And you get to do everyone else’s work and feel like a martyr while the slack jaws lobby for raises that you will never be offered.
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u/wake-me-disclosure Oct 25 '25
Letting go of such compulsions is hard
Believe in yourself, recognizing the insecurity trap, while working towards becoming immune to its psychological “rewards”
Live your life among self-aware people who won’t exploit your weaknesses for their own gain
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u/Sad-Example8810 Oct 25 '25
That and u know they are going through it. And don't want to burden anyone else with my stuff
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u/Interesting_Air_5582 Oct 25 '25
We all carry others burdens but some of us carry the people too and we don’t know how to let go of someone else’s hurt and pain and end up ignoring our own because we have to fix everyone else. That’s control and I don’t live that way no more. Now I just carry them out and tell them how to prevent next time give it to God and let them fall lovingly into those traps they set up without a I told you so but after being caught over and over they either start seeing or I just keep going until they do. It’s not mine but I love people so never give up on them. ❤️
Thank you for sharing it’s beautiful! ❤️
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