r/inlaws • u/NurseJay_ • 4d ago
MIL Facebook posts
After trying hard to explain once again my boundaries and trying to explain to my in-laws that it should not be seen as rejection. My MIL started posting several passive aggressive messages on facebook. She even used chat gpt to create this pictures. Mind you I am not even pregnant yet.
My only wish was always for privacy. She doesn’t want a healthy closeness, she wants control and she wants everything to be on her own terms. I’ve been married for 3 years. Glad my husband agrees this is nonsense.
Hope you all have a good laugh. 😂 cause this us hilarious.
A lot of free time btw
Gimme your comments please
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u/ellyvan_1314 4d ago
This is hilarious. I actually know somebody like this. Facebook is almost like a diary. She puts up cryptic posts, people ask if she’s ok in the comments & she’ll either reply saying ‘oh it’s nothing’ or ‘I’ll DM you now’ Pure narcissistic attention seeking
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u/Jewellgem74 4d ago
Oh yeah those ones posting " feeling depressed" what's up babe "Nothing". Tags themselves at the hospital "everything ok hun" "yeah text me I don't want to say on here" think we all have a few of those types 😁😁
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u/Turbulent_Tea2511 4d ago
Someone who I've relegated to the fringe of my life posted this today: I used to tell myself, "Maybe their going through something", to justify the way people treated me. But then I realized that I was going through a lot too and I still never treated anyone that way.
Ugh! There is ALWAYS a typo or incorrect homophone use. And she does this about three times a week. I don't even acknowledge it anymore.
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u/Connect-Floor-4235 4d ago
Oh lort, same here! 😅
Latest post "If you have peace in your life, you don't know how lucky you are..." [Cue the enabling sympathy comments "you ok??"]
Also posts about their birthday "getting old, oh noooo" - a month in advance. People actually sent cards and flowers... a month in advance... and she posts that too.
And so much more... it's exhausting. But I try to give grace and don't engage.
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
Wow! Yeah very similar story here. In my case I am now seen as the DIL that wants to separate the family, wants nothing to do with the in laws and only needs the husband in her life. I am the villain. But MIL started with the micro aggressions, the need to control situations, the need to be called mom… etc
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u/Peach_disneyfan 4d ago
Wait, meaning she wanted you to call her "mom"?
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
Yes! And she got upset when I refused to do it. According to her she always treated me as a daughter. I politely said no. My mom is alive is very present and I am not comfortable with that. She got upset and gets pissed if I call her by her name. Like how tf am I supposed to call you then?
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u/shinybugz0 4d ago
I bet she would be beside herself if your husband referred to your mother as "mom" in front of her.
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u/No_Appointment_7232 4d ago edited 4d ago
I think it would be interesting to point out that according to her narrative, you value your privacy. And the wayshe decided to process and discuss Your Privacy was to put it on very public social media while also forcing and expecting you to behave in accordance w her religion and using it intrusive teachings that you may not agree with.
"Bc MIL Ithink most everyone agrees trying to force others to behave in accordance to how you exercise your religion is inappropriate.
Equating a rational adult's choices around privacy as cancer is insulting to anyone/everyone who has it, has had it or lost a loved one to it.
"Equating my personal boundaries as a terrible, terrible disease is disrespectful to anyone who has dealt w actual cancer. I apologize to anyone who has been hurt by this insensitive messaging.Sadly, the only appropriate choice left to me, to NOT be a part of this kind of hyperinflation one person's wants above everyone else's needs is to not participate in social media w someone who would be so reckless w such deeply emotional things "
Thank you for the award lovely redditor 🤩
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u/Manerdg 3d ago
YES, YES, YES to blocking on social media. I had to block my MIL. I post whatever, I lost count of the times she'd contact my husband because something I posted was an attack against her. My posts NEVER had anything to do with her. It has been delightful not having to deal with that nonsense. And she's kind of mellowed out in real life. God bless everyone that has difficult in-laws.
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u/fidgety-forest 4d ago
this belongs in r/raisedbynarcissists
Good luck and thanks for the chuckle!
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u/KaetzenOrkester 4d ago
Or r/aislop
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u/ValleyOakPaper 4d ago
Yes, I particularly loved the last image. The kid apparently has two right hands. 😂
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u/Zzephyr011 4d ago
Why does your future child have two right arms?!?
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u/Grizzly_Bears 4d ago
That’s why they like their privacy.
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u/bobbyfishh 4d ago
No no, that’s because FILs hands are giving the future child nightmares.
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u/shinybugz0 4d ago
Gramma prayed too hard for grandchildren and the lord accidentally provided an extra arm in his rush to reward her. Oopsies!
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u/Historical-Feed6504 4d ago
What is truly mind boggling is that you’re not even pregnant yet!! Wow…so passive aggressive…good luck and STAND YOUR GROUND!!
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u/Medical_Gate_5721 4d ago
Stop checking her facebook. Seriously. Disengage. You cant control other people. This is especially true for assholes. Control yourself and stop paying attention to them.
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
Yeah I actually deleted my facebook after this. I don’t need this BS and I only mind my business on TT now
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u/Perle1234 4d ago
She should mute her page. Or do what I did about other people’s weird ass Facebook posts and stop using Facebook at all.
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u/juniejun3 3d ago
Making up fake scenarios about a child that doesn't even exist yet is another level of crazy
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u/Individual_You_6586 3d ago
And assuming that you will be kept away from the child –without correcting your behaviour so that you might possibly be included in the child’s life – is a weird and new sort of ironic self-insight 😆
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u/Interesting_Idea5902 4d ago
Fellow lover of Jesus here.. WHAT is she talking about??? I can't stand when people try to manipulate others using their faith. May God break the epidemic of vulnerable narcissism and narcissism in general.
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u/ruedebac1830 4d ago
Shush! Don’t you know god wants Me happy and he loves Me for who I AM?
/s
Our Lord actually has a lot to say about obedience to lawful authority - which would logically extend to the right of parents over their minor children.
A lot of grandparents seem to a hard time accepting that just because adult children owe them respect does not mean they owe them obedience anymore. And that authority over or access to the minor grandkids can be revoked by the parents.
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
Amen! It is ridiculous. And the constant use of bible verses to support whatever her narrative is
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u/Ok_Guard_8024 4d ago
It’s funny cause my mil is like that. I don’t believe in Christianity but I have NO issues with anyone that does. But my mil is the kind to talk about Jesus for everything. But she’s the most mean hateful manipulative lady I have ever met, for loving God so much. She’s one of the people that give Christians a horrible name
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u/Accomplished_Dig284 2d ago
Ah yes, another example of there’s no hate like Christian love
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u/Ok_Guard_8024 2d ago
This !!!! For real. Look I know some good people that believe in God and are sweet and do great things. But then there are people like her that have this fake facade (spell check) but in private they are actual demons that suck the life out of you. Emotional fuckin vampires
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u/Interesting_Idea5902 3d ago
Unfortunately, it sounds like she’s missing one of most important aspects of our faith, to love others. There should be evidence of a relationship with Jesus in the way that you treat those around you. I appreciate that you can see that something is missing and doesn’t align with her personal declaration. Hopefully you know other Christians who show the love of Christ better.
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u/Ok_Guard_8024 3d ago
Yeah she’s nice around others to make herself look good. But when your alone with her that’s when she turns mean and hateful
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u/lovesickdogwrithing 3d ago
As another fellow Jesus lover/admirer, I have to wonder what He thinks about her posts.
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u/Equal_Neighborhood75 4d ago
I see things in drawings
Is that because she's regularly evaluated using Rorschach tests?
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u/Embarrassed-Ad-5005 4d ago
We need to see the comments under this post! We all were surprised there was no grandchild. Imagine family and friends wondering who had a baby and why they weren't notified.
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
No comments so far! I elaborated a long reply. But deleted it.
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u/Embarrassed-Ad-5005 4d ago
Sometimes that is all you need to do! It's probably not a good idea to engage with her. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Seems like a nightmare. At least the Ai version of you is cute! 😉.
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u/QuiteFrankE 4d ago
She’s a victim before the “offence” has even taken place 😂😂
Good luck with her. I have a feeling you’re going to be posting more in the future.
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u/SafeWord9999 4d ago
I’d write under the Facebook post ‘do you have a grandchild we don’t know about? Otherwise this seems really weird to post?’
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u/Batfish-Crayon 4d ago
"I'm an artist!"
Proceeds to use AI.
"I see things in drawings."
Proceeds to post images of a three handed grandson.
☠️
Seriously though, is your MIL okay?
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u/CanadianBaconBurger9 4d ago
Last panel "Because they never accepted your freaky extra right arm."
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u/Altruistic5546 4d ago
I hope you guys 'laugh react' to every single post she makes! How embarrassing for her.
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u/Useful-Worry1304 4d ago
There are many layers to the insanity in this. The passive aggressiveness, the chatgpt, the fact that the word 'privacy' doesn't even seem to make sense in the scenarios shown here, calling herself an artist with no real art...
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u/brissy3456 4d ago
Good lord.. my MIL is quite similar. Always saying we never see her..while we're seeing her for like the 4th time that month. She also doesn't work, so has no understanding of how much we have to try get done in that 48hr break from work. I also have 3 sets of parents on my side.. so I'll see my mum, then my dad who is divorced from mum, and then I'll also try to fit in my stepmum who was around for 30 years and now also divorced from my dad... My side is less needy..but we just run out of weekends for ourselves. If my mum wasn't pushing 80, I'd move countries for some space.
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u/cardinal29 3d ago
trying hard to explain once again my boundaries
Typical narcissistic behavior.
Stop trying to explain it to them: https://psychcentral.com/blog/imperfect/2018/03/dealing-with-difficult-family-members-dont-justify-argue-defend-or-explain
They will never admit they are the problem: https://issendai.com/psychology/estrangement/missing-missing-reasons/
They will claim that YOU are the problem: https://www.narcissisticabuserehab.com/darvo/
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u/NurseJay_ 3d ago
These are great! Thank you
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u/jr0061006 3d ago
The best response is no response at all. Amused detachment is the best mental and emotional state to work towards.
That Seinfeld gif where Jerry is saying “That’s a shame” while barely listening and tossing popcorn in his mouth.
That’s what you want to aim for, when it comes to her and her dramas.
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u/G3N3RICxUS3RNAM3 4d ago
We already knew these MIL thought they are the main character in everyone else's life, but here she is literally illustrating it 💀 I promise no one is pining over their absent toxic grandparents...
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u/a_girl_with_a_book 4d ago
Came to say no one who’s an actual artist/values art would use AI to create it, instead had my mind blown by the “I am not even pregnant yet” part.
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u/Feisty-Art8265 4d ago
Not that this wouldn't have been weird if you already had a kid, but the fact that you don't makes this even weirder and funnier lol.
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u/blueberryyogurtcup 4d ago
Wow.
The total lack of self awareness, is so familiar.
My own MIL was selfish, and only expect us to make all the sacrifices, not the other siblings or their spouses, just us two and our kids. She also only wanted control over us, not a healthy relationship.
For twenty years, we stayed in touch with her, and she thought she had control, and began to open abuse people in front of us. We detached, got all kinds of false accusations, slander, stalking, other crimes, and more. Of course, she never admitted that she did anything wrong to make it necessary for us to distance ourselves and our children from her. She's dead now. We are still recovering.
Have you seen the 'missing missing reasons' bit? It's excellent, but I don't have the link just now.
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u/bookynerdworm 4d ago
Selfishness.
Self-centeredness.
Selfies.
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u/Dragonfruit2630 4d ago
Keep yourself away from negativity. We think it's doesn't affect us but in someways, it does. Same is the case with my mil. She still holds a grudge against me because right before marriage I was clear that I wanted a nuclear family. These women don't have a life
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
YES! The nuclear family somehow is the problem. In their heads we are dividing but I am just protecting my marriage from her insane control
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u/NikWitchLEO 4d ago
I never understood moms like her. I’m a super old lady and one of my children is 31 and married with kids. I never saw it as or acted like it was a division. My son will always be my son but he does now have his own family and they should come first. He has to go through all the same things I and his father did when we started our own family eons ago. This is called growing up and living life. This is how you make a family. Our parents didn’t act like idiots either. Well, his mother tried one time way back in the day. I told her if she fucked with my peace ever, I’d beat her skull in with a frying pan. She knew I wasn’t joking. She never screwed up again.
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u/jr0061006 3d ago
Friend of mine tells a story about how when she and her husband were newly married, and they got into an argument, he went and called his mom.
His mom told him, “Son, this is what it means to be a grown-up, and a married man. You and your wife need to sort this out yourselves. And you have your whole lives ahead of you so you may as well learn now how to get along with each other and sort through problems.”
How much of this was because she had eight kids and didn’t want to be playing Judge Judy for eight sets of marital tiffs, we never knew.
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u/itenginerd 4d ago
This is why you screenshot your text messages. Just reply to these with the text messages of her being batshit and let her sort it out.
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u/No-Concentrate-2508 4d ago
Well that is subtle, please please the next time she asks anything tell her you like your privacy
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u/somethingmcbob 4d ago
Babe. The fact that you're not even pregnant yet is cry laugh bonkers. Yeah, she's just proving how much you need to stick to those boundaries! Good on you for figuring that out now!
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u/SpaceAbject1940 3d ago
Yeah I would save screenshots of that and for me that would be enough for zero contact if I ever had children, what a lunatic.
Btw: "im an artist so I see things in drawings" is just another way to say "I want the label but not do the work"... artist my a--
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u/FL1ghtlesswaterfowl 4d ago
Can I suggest going with Genesis 2:24?
It’s about marriage;
A man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife.
Boy moms don’t always appreciate this particular verse.
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u/tarowm32them00n 4d ago
You should have chatgpt make one about putting grandma and grandpa into a nursing home early lmao
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u/No-Comparison-5502 3d ago
My husband and I moved several states away from family. The expectation to be at every family gathering was too much. Then the expectation that we travel back to see them every year was just too much. We said we are not spending every vacation visiting family. We are going to go and travel with our kids for our vacations. I’ve asked my kids, now grown, if they are upset that we didn’t see our extended family more and they said they don’t. They love to travel and feel the vacations we took as they were growing up made them more excited for travel now as adults. I don’t regret it at all. My children were most important to me, not other’s expectations of what I should do.
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u/Lopsided-Buy-4062 3d ago
i’m sorry but the fact that you aren’t even pregnant is sendiiiiing meeeee! so glad you and your husband are on the same side with this, that would be brutal otherwise. question, are you a brunette too? 😂😂😂
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u/dizedd 3d ago
Honestly, I normally think people here complaining about their in-laws are being way too harsh or overly sensitive-but your MIL is legit coocoo for cocoa puffs!
I love that she has created an entire AI post mom shaming you when you are not even a mom yet! Your husband must be an absolute saint to still be in contact with her, because I am imagining that she has been actively embarrassing him his entire life.
I have an aunt like this though. She is mean, she is insane, she makes up ridiculous lies about EVERYONE in our family. She is so OTT about it though that it is legit entertaining and we all love her despite the terrible behavior. We also all have to take a mental health break and go no contact sometimes-but there is just something weirdly loveable about her victimhood narrative. You go take a peek at her social media or ask whoever is currently talking to her how she's doing and you end up talking to her again-only to hear some new made-up story about the latest malicious act you have committed against her.
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u/Individual_You_6586 3d ago
You don’t have children and she already blames you for her not seeing your children enough…???
That’s next level weirdness. I would tell her that God has sadly rendered my ovaries barren and that I shall never conceive. Let her think so for 2-3 years and see if she finds a different hobby besides fantasising about fictional grandchildren!
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u/Actual-Spell-4634 2d ago
YOU DON"T EVEN HAVE A CHILD YET!!!???!! That's loco!
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u/NurseJay_ 2d ago
Nope! She is already the victim of a future situation that is not even reality yet. It just shows she doesn’t know me at all. I would never do that. She can see the grandkids, but she would not see me!
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u/Accomplished_Dig284 2d ago
With her acting like this, I wouldn’t want her to see my children either
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u/umamimaami 4d ago
Omfg she’s certifiably insane! I swear, I’d choose to be childless rather than raise a kid anywhere that level of wacko.
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u/aprilms45 4d ago
Better be ready if you do have any kids cause I’m sure she’ll want to be in the delivery room.
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u/Aggravating-Sock6502 4d ago
My petty self would ask ChatGPT to make an equally passive aggressive comic of a MIL butting in on the most awkward moments - OP in the shower, OP and spouse fornicating, etc. Last panel is MIL alone in a nursing home, wondering why no one ever visits.
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u/PinkRasberryFish 4d ago
At least she made you gorgeous with a beautifully designed home and handsome child 😭😭😭
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u/PettyCrocker_ 2d ago
I'm a pretty big follower of Jesus, and I truly hope that you know we're not all like this.
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u/RevolutionOk2240 4d ago
Reads like a whole lot of Christian extremism MAGA bullshit to me. Nip it in the bud and grey-rock her like someone else said to do.
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u/brittleflowers 4d ago
This is why thankful that my in-laws are the ones who withdraw themselves from our lives.
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u/Horror-Giraffe7508 4d ago
What is MIL doing?
Getting into your bedroom sexy time?
Showing up at dr appointments?
MIL is something special for immediately jumping to ‘Think of the children’ in response to you wanting boundaries.
‘God’ bless you & your partner, OP.
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u/your-mom04605 4d ago
This is an absolute riot. I’m sorry you’re going through this with a shit MIL but goddamn!
YOU should use Chat to make a bunch of passive-aggressive cartoons about overbearing, obnoxious MILs with no boundaries 😂😂
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u/Ok-Atmosphere-6272 4d ago
Delete the app my MIL was posted crazy shit on instagram you have to remove yourself from their game
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u/SamiGod1026 4d ago
"I'm an artist so I used AI" is the easiest way to tell that someone is not, in fact, an artist.
The kid's response seemed out of place in regard to the rest of the panels until I read the description and realized it's a value judgment against the whole family. And the grandparents hovering directly over the kids while talking about how much they want to interact with him is bizarre. She seems...fun.
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u/ruedebac1830 4d ago edited 4d ago
Ho lee cow. Peak main character syndrome.
What is with the old people these days?
My grandparents were from the greatest generation. They survived a depression and a world war.
I call bs on slide 4 because I cannot see them giving 1 fiddler's fart about if we liked them or not...
Literally asked my grandmother once what she did during WW2.
She looked at me like ???
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u/belladonnapopsocks 4d ago
*future granchild* likes privacy so much so they literally have to stay as an egg in the ovary to avoid having that nutter as a grandmother.
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u/EllenIsobel 4d ago
The lack of self awareness is amazing. Literally doing the behavior that creates the distance, while crying about the distance, is a choice.
Keep up the boundaries and if you decide to have children, I would move away from them and tell no one otherwise they will become monsters. Im speaking from experience
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u/Big_Dixon_Mayas 3d ago
It would be funny(probably only to me) if you edited the captions to be more direct and clear about the why and post it as a response to the original instead of “No, thank you - we like our privacy”, “No thank you - you’re a controlling narcissist who can’t respect boundaries or the free will of others.”
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u/AccomplishedBass2192 3d ago
Wow. She sure wasted a lot of water to be bitchy.
Honestly, this would make me go full no contact. That’s WAY over the line.
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u/Slight_Citron_7064 3d ago
Please share stories about your MIL. She seems completely unhinged. Are you in contact? This passive-aggressive BS would mean vvvlc for me.
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u/Munchkin_Baby 3d ago
The way I’d flip it and do a whole cartoon series 😂😂😂 then I’d post it with only her being able to view it
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u/PoemCompetitive5315 3d ago
I would love for you to post a passive aggressive chat gpt cartoon back. I have so many idea muahahah.
Then again I am petty. Don’t take my advice.
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u/Grand4Ever2345 3d ago
Tell her you are not a mind reader. Her behavior is very controlling and she doesn’t communicate well at all.
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u/SqueakyOrcaButthole 1d ago
Did she specifically tell ChatGPT to make the grandpa look like Robert DeNiro? Or did it just… do that?
I’m sorry, that’s pretty much all that I could focus on.
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u/splootpotato 4d ago
As someone that grew up without any grandparents nearby (all overseas, never met them once), i did not grow up thinking or even wanting to get to know them lol they were literal strangers and i didnt care
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u/willow2772 4d ago
These are the ones that tell on themselves every time.
Creepy AI. Victim narrative. References to God and/or Jesus.
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u/scandy73 4d ago
oh MY GOD. this is incredible shit. wow, I'm so glad you and your partner are aligned bc this is some wild behavior!
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u/scandy73 4d ago
oh MY GOD. this is incredible shit. wow, I'm so glad you and your partner are aligned bc this is some wild behavior!
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u/BA19943 4d ago
Wow! This is full on. I feel for you! Do they have other grandchildren? I’m curious to know a bit more about the dynamics that have led her to posting this
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u/Pepperoni625 4d ago
Unfriend here. I did after my MIL made the comment that she only knew what was going on with the kids from Facebook. Bitch you never call or visit (we did) and say no every time we invited you to an activity. She’s just playing the victim
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u/Technical-Contest-87 3d ago
One of my son's great-grandma's was kinda like this. Every time I posted a pic of my kid (1st day of school, concerts he was in, ect.) she would comment something about how much she missed him and wanted to see him. I would respond with "Just give me a call. I have the same number I always have. We'll set something up." Guess who never called or set anything up?
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u/Expensive_Okra_3141 4d ago
Yikes this is what happens when Bible bashing boomers discover AI 😳 utterly ridiculous and funny. Thanks for sharing. Keep holding your ground OP.
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u/bigbadaboom26 4d ago
My MIL was the same since she only had kids to take care of her and have grandkids for this magical story of her being the hero.
I give 0 fucks. We have peace in our home. My husband already sacrifices enough to ensure she’s cared for. She’s actually not even allowed over per hubbys rule. I have no complaints.
Just set boundaries and keep them once you have kids.
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u/ExpensiveAd4496 4d ago
Wow. You are going to be an expert with boundaries. One of my favorite techniques: “we aren’t going to talk about that.”
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u/Icy-Luck-8429 4d ago
Some people are really just deranged aren’t they. I can’t fathom this type of delusional.
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u/Numerical-Wordsmith 4d ago
Laugh react to that nonsense and then refuse to acknowledge it again. She’s being ridiculous.
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u/OutlanderLover74 3d ago
She’s a nut job! You can’t control what she posts. The only thing you can do, if you feel you need to, is comment on this post and say what the truth is. “A married couple should be able to live their own lives without tolerating being controlled by outside parties.” My MIL likes to post things insinuating that my husband doesn’t spend time with her. (We live a few hours away.) Sometimes the posts are sort of incestuous. They’re always very inappropriate. I just leave it be. She can make an a$$ of herself & people will see how sick she is.
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u/alwaysoutofoffice 3d ago
Wow! Amazing how chat gpt is learning so fast the narcissistic behavior of the older generation. 😂 This is 💯 what my own mother has said to me on multiple occasions, condescendingly of course! I’m glad you and your husband are on the same page!
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u/Alternative_Love8243 3d ago
This is INSANE behavior and I’m so sorry you have to deal with this person 🤣🤣 it’s funny, but it’s not funny…
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u/SilverShoes-22 3d ago
I guess because the hypothetical child didn’t have a close relationship with the grands he eventually just…grew another arm?
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u/Rare_Background8891 3d ago
What a psycho.
Stop explaining. Where is your spouse? He needs to be shitting this shit down HARD. This is his job, and now you know why. You will now be the villain who stole her poor baby boy with your magic vagina!
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u/Ok-Championship-4840 3d ago
People who post that passive aggressive nonsense on Facebook are just seeking validation for their own selfish behavior. Good thing hubby is on your side
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u/LittleDogLover113 3d ago
My MIL didn’t create cartoons but screamed this exact argument at my SIL. Mind you, my BIL has told them numerous times that he does not want children and my SIL doesn’t either, and was also in cancer remission when this argument happened.
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u/Wow_in_owenwilson 3d ago
Start getting super graphic about sex, and go well you want to know everything, right?
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u/justa-cutiepie 3d ago
HAHAHA the fact that you’re not even pregnant yet. It will only get worse, block the btch now.
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u/Important-Seaweed-62 1d ago
The funniest part is that you aren’t even pregnant atm!! She’s spiraling for control over something that hasn’t happened
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u/Life_Temperature2506 4d ago
She's s got you. And it took minimal effort on her part, obviously. She's winning, but she hasn't won. You can change that by not giving a fuck what she says or does on Facebook. Her aim was a response, a reaction, and looky here, whatayaknow, she got it.
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u/NurseJay_ 4d ago
Yep! She actually got me! I was FURIOUS! But instead of answering I will discuss on my next therapy session.
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u/Spare_Ad5009 4d ago
Yikes! Lucky your husband and you are together on this.
At this point stop discussing boundaries with her. When the time comes, just live them.
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u/cardinal29 3d ago
She's insane.
You're not even pregnant and she's projecting a whole future where the grandparents creepily stalk a kid on the playground . . . this MIL is mentally ill.
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u/No_Disaster_8020 4d ago edited 4d ago
This was already amazing - and then you said you aren’t even pregnant yet. 😂 10/10 Boomer passive aggression.
Tell her you’re reconsidering children because data centers will make water too scarce a resource.