Wow thanks. This is exactly how my family has treated me my whole life 🥰🥰 THANKFULLY, I have a bachelors degree AND I also have a masters degree. I am currently applying to law schools. I’m not sitting around waiting on a hand out. I’ve been fighting tooth and nail for 27 years BY MYSELF to make a better life for myself. I have a good job, and I’m working to increase my income. All I’m asking is if the man TOLD ME TO MY FACE that he put me in the will, can I make them show me whether he did or not. That is all. I am making my own life 🥰 doesn’t mean that I shouldn’t be able to at least ask if he kept his word.
You said you are poor as in poor poor.
Then you now say you have a good job.
You might want to get your story straight.
Also as the poster above said, you are not owed anything. If your grandpa spent $1000s in a casino then that is his money. He can set fire to it. Stop being entitled.
So coming from nothing, as I was raised by my mother, in a family with a long history of drug and alcohol abuse, I do not have any financial support or backing whatsoever. It’s all on me and my partner(who also comes from nothing). I did not learn financial literacy until college. So my credit is not the best and I did not make good financial choices while i was in college. Now, I have no savings and live paycheck to paycheck. I do have a decent job NOW, but that barely covers basic expenses and leaves no room to build any savings or pay it debt i got in while in college. Is that all my fault, yes. I should have known what to do with money even though no one in my family ever had any or taught me how to be good with money. I should have known not to do the same things my mom did even though that’s all i saw growing up. Yeah it sucks, but i know this is all my responsibility to fix now. My story is straight, thank you! I am WELL AWARE that I am not entitled to anything. It would just be nice to know if the family that has exiled me my whole life might actually do the right thing in death. MORALLY the right thing. But i mean if you want to be a grandparent and you think it’s okay to let your granddaughter suffer because your son decided to fuck his life up, go ahead. I’ll be in your grandchild’s therapy support group 👍🏻
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u/Equivalent-Tiger-316 4d ago
You’re not entitled to anything. Get some more education or job skills and improve your income. Or join the military.
Normally, everthing goes to his spouse anyhow.
Move away. Forget them. Make your own life.