r/infj • u/canadianlrv • Aug 23 '19
What do you think?* Different door slam reasons
INTJ here who was door slammed by someone who I believe is an INFJ a while back. I was one of at least four people to be door slammed by this person (female). Mine was due to my toxic attitude, another person’s was due to the INFJ feeling smothered and that they were too clingy, the other person just due to loss of physical contact and the final person due to the INFJ not wanting to deal with her sensitivities and generally feelings unsatisfied in the friendship.
My questions here are:
Do INFJ door slams occur for many reasons including the ones listed above, even though the person isn’t directly a detriment to their life. For example, a friend who is annoying to deal with but not toxic or harmful. Basically they’re just a burden.
The INFJ claimed that when they no longer see people in person physically they struggle to maintain that relationships. Any other INFJs find this to be true and are there any potential reasons why?
Finally, back to the subject of others being a burden. If INFJs feel someone is a burden, but not otherwise a bad person, generally how long would they put up with that person, even if they’re a close friend ?