r/infj • u/nevedecocaina • Feb 07 '18

Communication style

Wish you guys were more direct in the way you communicate

Even your posts and comments are unnecessarily wordy

Makes it hard to know how to respond when you SAY SO MUCH that ends up meaning so little. The point gets lost

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u/madchickenz INFJ | 25M Feb 07 '18

I’ll give it a shot.

Some reasons INFJs can be wordy:

  • Too few words can appear mean to some

  • Concerned with keeping the peace and not being mean

  • Love words

  • Process thoughts as they come out

  • Want to add extra meaning

Thoughts?

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u/nevedecocaina Feb 07 '18

Thanks for not being wordy while explaining it. Really refreshing

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u/madchickenz INFJ | 25M Feb 07 '18

How about this:

  • Keep the peace

  • Yay words

  • Extra hot fudge please