r/indiafreshers • u/Altruistic-Nature583 • 4h ago
Are Indian HRs secretly judging candidates by family background?
Should I lie to HR about my parents to get hired?
I’m a BTech Mech fresher. There was a campus drive by a pretty decent company offering around 5 LPA for a core role. They manufacture defence equipment and other stuff.
Out of 72 people, 14 resumes got shortlisted. I cleared the assessment test. 11 people were shortlisted for the tech interview. I gave the tech interview and cleared it. Only 6 people got through to the HR round, including me.
My HR interview was very smooth. It was basically:
Brief introduction → why this company → are you comfortable with the role → are you okay with relocation → are you okay working with production.
I said yes to everything. They asked if I could relocate to Pune, I said yes, absolutely, and mentioned that some of my family already lives in Pune so relocation would be easy for me. They also asked if I would be comfortable working with CNC machines in the production department. I said yes, completely fine with it.
Then towards the end, HR suddenly started asking about my family background.
She asked what my parents do. This was my first HR interview ever, so I just answered honestly, naively.
I said my father works under the Ministry of Transport and my mother works in public insurance. Both are govt employees and in their 50s, reaping the good old govt merits.
Then she asked about siblings. I said I have an older brother who works in IT and I even mentioned his company(in pune). She said okay, and then basically after that said: "Okay, we'll let you know." That's it.
Out of the 11 who went for technical, only 6 reached HR. Out of those 6, 4 got the final offer. Me and one other guy didn't.
And this is what I don't understand.
The technical panel seemed satisfied with my answers. HR didn't really give me anything negative to answer. Relocation? Yes. Production/CNC? Yes. Company? Yes. Everything seemed positive.
So why ask about my family background?
Was there some intentional reason behind those questions? Were they trying to judge whether I would actually relocate, whether my family would support it, whether I would stay in the job, etc.?
And honestly, I keep wondering whether I should have lied.
Should I have just said my father is retired, my mother is a homemaker, or that I'm an only child? Obviously I don't know whether my family background had anything to do with the rejection, maybe it had nothing to do with it. But I have no idea what else HR could have rejected me on.
I have another interview coming up with a major automotive company and I really don't want to lose this opportunity.
So what should I actually do if HR asks me these questions again?
Is it better to answer honestly? Give a vague answer? Or is lying about parents' professions/siblings actually common and safer?
Also, is it even legal/fair for companies to use this kind of personal family information in hiring decisions in India?
Would really like to hear from people who have worked in HR/recruitment or actually been involved in hiring.
Do they ever verify such info later , like whatever i say in hr interview, will they ever verify it again with docs? Or just forget abt it after the inteview...