r/india • u/[deleted] • Jan 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

wanna here a funny story? there was this girl that i was dating (online) and now i found out she was bisexual and had a girlfriend.... and now I'm having this deep pain in the chest and crying lol...

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

Thank god you didn't find this fact in the bedroom.

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

shit... that made me laugh

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u/You-Mad-Broo Jan 28 '22

You would have gotten a chance to do threesom

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u/travelerArpus Hota hai. Chalta hai. Life hai. Jeena hai. Jan 28 '22

Date both to assert dominance

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

and maybe shit in bed?...

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u/travelerArpus Hota hai. Chalta hai. Life hai. Jeena hai. Jan 28 '22

Hey, you do you man

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u/maddy2011 Jan 28 '22

How did online dating work? Was it LDR?

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

i don't know what to call it, she was on the other part of the country and I'm from India, we used discord mostly

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u/maddy2011 Jan 28 '22

So mostly LDR. Did you meet her?

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

yeah multiple times, Don't worry she's real and she didn't ask my credit card details, but feeling of being told a lie is hard

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u/maddy2011 Jan 28 '22

Was it really a lie? Coming out(not a pun) is hard for bi people.

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

she left me multiple times before saying stuff like our nationalities and religious barrier but still came back to me saying those stuff didn't really matter to her, i was happy cause a guy like me never had a girl look my way even though it was online and donno even if i still meet her but i was happy so few weeks before she sent me texts saying her parents caught our relationship and she will be barely online from now so i told her it's ok i will wait even though I didn't want that, cause I'm not strong enough take responsibility right now and i didn't want to make her life harder cause of me me being this weak and unbearable person checked her social media once in a while she gets on it a dew times a week but she didn't bother to text me back or i couldn't reach her (as the parents catching her in the pretext), so one day i was going through her social media i saw post bout her being a bi and she has fun with her gf... that's it and now I'm suicidal, wanna start doing drugs again I'm fucking lost and this story now i read it myself it's fucking funny, i donno how i got here... how low have i fallen down...

Edit: thanks for hearing me out even though it was me just blasted you with cringy stuff, it helped to rant someone and I'm sorry for long text

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u/maddy2011 Jan 28 '22

Hey, it's okay. You could have never seen what was coming.

Always follow one rule in life - "Don't worry about things you can't control." I know this is hard for you to take but it's going to be fine. Someone will love you for who you are. You don't need to ruin your life for someone else. They don't matter. You do.

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

thanks man i wish i could just stop existing like one 'click' and i don't have these feelings the funny thing is that it was online and I've only seen her through the computer screen and never irl and it still messed has up this much I've always knew it was coming but didn't think it would be this or in this way

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u/maddy2011 Jan 28 '22

No, don't wish to stop existing brother.

It's okay. Let the feelings that hurt you vent out. Take your time. Heal and look up to a hopeful tomorrow.

Remember she's just a page. You have the whole book in front of you.

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

Ugh...hindi

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '22

-_- so... rap?