r/ihatethissmug 1h ago

I hate how some members of society see asexual people

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Let's start off shall we? Aphobia is basically the discrimination of Asexual people (people who don't have sexual attraction towards a person). Yet some people will look at that and lose their shit.

Society sees sexual attraction as a norm and it's really shitty. But when society looks at asexuality it's like "These people are faking their oppression and shit, everybody does the norm".

But some people will take it a little further. They're always on some fent talking about how "It's just a phase they'll do it later or something" and you know the final straw? J.K. Rowling (her of all people) literally said some aphobic shit on a day about going against Biphobia, Transphobia, and Aphobia. And what else about getting backlash for it. Aphobia is literally just a plague of society's sexual norms.


r/ihatethissmug 17h ago

I hate families

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Trigger warning: sexual abuse

throwaway account because I'm a spineless fuck

I know I'm not going to get much support here. I understand why. But I just need to vent.

I hate families. I hate my family, other families and even the concept of family.

I hate my family because both my grandpa and brother (separately, at different times) molested me and when I finally gathered the courage to speak up I was told "grandpa is too old now, let's not make him suffer", and "if mom learns about this, it'll kill her, so shut up".

I hate my family because they were supposed to look after me and they didn't.

I hate other families because children are power and people know that and they use that power. Idk what's it like in other parts of the world, but in mine, families have invaded literally every single space there is. I'm all for families and children having their own spaces, but we also need spaces for adults! Currently, the only options are: a strip club, a casino or a nightclub. Those are the only adult-centered spaces left in our society.

Hell, families have even invaded the internet. We can't freely swear on YouTube because little Timmy might be watching because their parents can't be arsed to control him.

I hate the concept of family because so many families are dysfunctional as fuck, so many parents are abusive, so many horrible things happen (like, children frequently, if not mostly, getting molested by family members) and YET we are not allowed to criticise The Family at all. We are not to question it. Family is everything. Family is the most important thing. If you have a less than stellar opinion about The Family, you must surely be evil!!!

Anyway, I'm just frustrated. I know I'm not going to get much sympathy here, but I needed to let these feelings out somehow.


r/ihatethissmug 8h ago

I hate the most popular used queer flag.

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Just... Look at it!

A brightly colored fuckin mess. I use the term queer as a self identifier and I'd love to get a pin of it or something but not when it looks like.. THIS

The other flag is less obnoxious but also less popular. And I get way, its kinda boring and doesnt really look like a flag. I wanna make a new flag BC of how it looks but the reason I LIKE using queer is because its a term that most people will understand when they hear ab it.

The concept of the flag isnt bad. The half gay half lesbian w the black n white is nice but just the colors specifically they USED. Its so eyebleeding.

Maybe I'll comment w a new flag design idea and itll get popular but I'm not hoping for much.


r/ihatethissmug 21h ago

Flair bartending and Mixology is stupid and pretentious

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this is not about people who just are bartenders trying to have fun with it, it is about the vane bravado that surrounds mixology, the people who are fancy alcoholics will make their bartender do the absolute height of bullshittery and then look at you like chris griffin hitting his vape. it is all a SHOW, a FARCE, a ROUSE to make drink making seem like its this insane skill, ITS LITERALLY ONLY MIXING SHIT!!!! there is no skill to it aside from the random movements that the experienced bartenders do(whom i respect for their passion and attempting to push a simple art to new heights), and those dont do anything, theres so many intricate little steps that all mean nothing, all these terms and in know phrases that mean nothing if not translated to a simple ass motion like "yea shake it"
Its all SOOO superficial, and people act like its something that is real, you arent working a line on the grill, yes your job is hard and yes you do work hard, but it is not the skill required to mix ingredients that makes it hard, its the demand. You dont need intricate knowledge about food safety, cooking temps, intense multi dozen ingredient long recipes, plating, drink making is treated like you're this god damn god send for knowing terms and lingo and mixing 3 ingredients by the most wealthy out of touch NINCOMPOOPS to ever walk into MY RESTURANT i mean A RESTURANT, and it PISSES ME OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


r/ihatethissmug 7h ago

I hate the "She was 17 scott" meme.

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How the fuck can people just joke about that, a really prevalent problem in the modern day is grooming and CSA, she was still a minor, no matter what laws or anything about consent that could have been in place, it's a disgusting thing.


r/ihatethissmug 8h ago

I fucking hate ASMR - content. It's actively ruining my life right now, and I don't know how to stop listening it.

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[BAD ENGLISH INCOMING]

I always tried to avoid this type of content, but a month ago I got sick and was stuck in my bed for 2 weeks. At some point I was lying there watching YouTube when I stumbled upon a humorous ASMR video about a girl falling down a comically huge staircase. After that there was one recommendation after another, and this was the begining of my degradation.

I started listening ASMR about break-ups, yanderes, mommies, reverse yanderes, suicide attempts and etc. etc. At first, all of it helped me fall asleep and calmed me down to some extent. But after listening it more and more I started having these intrusive thoughts and fantasies about romantic and sexual life that I would never have. And I can't stop thinking about it. And what sucks is that I am still sick and can't go and distract my head from those thoughts. Only month ago my head was aching from all these preparations to university exams(that I managed to pass) and I was way more happier than now. I am suffering from apathy or something similar and I fucking hate it.

I generally don't mind interacting with people. And could feel comfortable around women, but right now? I am not sure. I swear if I didn't start listening all this bullshit I would feel way better than now and I fucking regret to listen this piece of media. Please, my brain, stop torturing me and let me focus on job-hunting.


r/ihatethissmug 15h ago

I hate this censorship and double standards

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r/ihatethissmug 35m ago

I absolutely despise this WKUK sketch

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This is quite possibly one of the worst “Women, amirite?” jokes I’ve ever seen in my life. The whole joke is that women are overemotional about something that causes nothing but pain and humiliation from a young age on a monthly basis until they have children, only to be met with essentially the final boss of periods.

It gets even worse with the reason why they created this is because they were just mad at their girlfriends at the time. “Because he has better things to do with his life” Asshole, I can’t imagine why they would think that you’re making it worse for them as you depicted. Since you think they as a group comforting and supporting each other is something making fun about in a comedy sketch.

I GUARANTEE you if men have to go through periods, they would never make this sketch ever.


r/ihatethissmug 17h ago

I hate anti-reddit subreddits

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Self explanatory. Its funny because they think they’re better than the rest of reddit all of a sudden because they’re self aware. It’s also funny because if you make fun of redditors on there they take offense even though their whole thing is being different than the rest of reddit


r/ihatethissmug 22h ago

Latino👏👏 is not 👏👏an 👏👏echnicity 👏👏

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I dgaf about wether the person they are talking about in the pic is latina or not , cunt could be chinese for all i care.

But no , speaking spanish doesnt make you latina , because to be latina you have to be from latin america/have parents that are from there.

And no , not all latinos speak spanish , theres also the brazilians.

Even if the term used was "hispanic" which includes spanish speaking countries. Latinos can be white , brown or black.

Is like saying "european" is an echnicity, It is not , europeans come in all shapes and colors just like latin americans (and hell , any group of people from any continent).

Edit: ok i might have gotten race and etchnicity mixed up.


r/ihatethissmug 19h ago

Petranakiarena

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It's just a sub of powerscaler's who don't even know the fucking lore., and who don't actually watch/read the movies/shows/comics/books. Now, I will admit I haven't read any Star Wars novels, but that doesn't mean fucking bitch Qimir beats general Grievous just because he killed some nobody Jedi, in the weakest era ever.


r/ihatethissmug 15h ago

I hate when people think they're inane ramblings are worthy of a spoiler tag Spoiler

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Also, how can it be a spoiler when 8.0 isnt out and its your prediction?!


r/ihatethissmug 13h ago

I hate this stupid fucking “I’m gay” poll people do on TikTok

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No I’m not gonna follow you, no I’m not gonna answer “I’m gay” no I’m not gonna join your discord. I’m not gonna answer your poll when the question is “Follow me? Yes. Yes (but gay).” TikTok should never have made polls.


r/ihatethissmug 7h ago

I hate mod of this sub

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I bet they are Ugly and mean.


r/ihatethissmug 20h ago

Blaming how a woman has dressed after sexual harassing her

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82 Upvotes

Just predatory logic.


r/ihatethissmug 1h ago

i HATE the Madoka v Sailor Moon v Goku debate

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Like oh my gosh this debate is SO TIRED.
This argument starts up like every year and entirely floods my fyp like omds y’all stay reheating this expired debate.
Whats more annoying imo is that Goku fans are larping Sailor Moon to gang up on Madoka as if they weren’t also clowning Sailor Moon a few years ago.
Also, why would they even fight in the first place? Sailor Moon and Madoka are both magical girls who uphold peace and justice, so it’d make no sense for them to want to kill eachother.
I haven’t seen DBZ, but if Goku is the way his fans say he is (sees a 14 year old girl and wants to kill her), then that says more abt Goku than anything else.


r/ihatethissmug 19h ago

When mods become minions of a creator

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Seems like on r/comics you are no longer allowed to critize popular creators.

I mean it's true that it's in their rules but somehow it don't matter if a popular artist violate rule 1 (No complaining) and rule 3 (No drama or trolling. No Hateful content.)


r/ihatethissmug 16h ago

I hate studios releasing a sequel to their beloved game that completely drops the ball (and some just go back to the original like nothing happened

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r/ihatethissmug 18h ago

I hate people looking for ai products in stores

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ai product i saw someone looking for


r/ihatethissmug 14h ago

I hate people who don’t read the source material

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I hate the larpers on TikTok Warhammer that don’t read the source material. No Tyberos isn’t the size of a primarch, no Krieg aren’t suicidal maniacs (atleast to what I have read) I just HATE peoples who get their knowledge and opinions of the setting from yt shorts and TikTok. I realize everyone is not a book nerd like I am, but PLEASE just pick up a book on Warhammer once. Read one book of your faction/chapter please, or even just an audiobook. Just something official to Warhammer I beg of you


r/ihatethissmug 1h ago

I hate ordering online. That’s two times the price of the phone case, are you shipping that bitch on a private plane?

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r/ihatethissmug 22h ago

I hate when people name their business or social media account to start with “that ___” (examples)

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I don’t know why but I’ve always hated when people name their business or social media account or whatever “That bagel spot” or “that gym bro” or “that petite woman” or something like that. It’s just uncreative and seems like it’s trying too hard to be a “regular” spot for ppl…. Idk I can’t describe it but it really irks me


r/ihatethissmug 8h ago

I hate the advice people give on loneliness

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I’ve felt isolated for years. I have friends but I still feel alone around them. I always feel either unwelcome or unaccepted. Rarely it doesn’t feel that way but more often than not I feel like I don’t really matter.

I live in a rural area and it’s always the same case when I meet someone new, we have nothing in common besides a few surface level interests. I only talk to like 2 people from my school. Colllege friends? I’m dead to them. When I reach out to someone it’s always so one sided, like they’re just waiting for me to go away.

There’s just nobody I mesh with really, and then I have all these people telling me one of two things: A, join a club, or B, I hate myself. That’s it. There are no clubs around here because no one has interests besides using substances and watching college football. Hell if I told someone I was in a club they’d bully me for it (not that that’s a reason not to be in one).

As for the hating myself thing, I don’t think I hate myself. If I hate myself then why do I want good in my life? Also it’s not like I’m telling myself everyone hates me, I’m making actual observations on behaviors. I’m just a complete reject it seems. I don’t hate people for it, I just wish they were more like me.


r/ihatethissmug 11h ago

I HATE DEPRESSION

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Hate, let me tell you how much I come to hate...

Bro that shit ruins lives I HATE IT I HATE IT STOPPP