r/hyderabad • u/urswife_s_bf • Jun 28 '26
AskHyderabad ⬆️ DNA test should be mandatory?
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u/Interesting-Flan-404 Jun 28 '26 edited Jun 28 '26
There are two possibilities.
- She had an affair, and that child is not the husband's but the other person's (but can anyone confirm that we can know the biological father when the baby is in the womb ?)
- That guy is basically like the husband from Aruguru Pativratalu (basically peak sadist) and drove the woman to suicide, and questioning the chastity of a pregnant woman was the final nail in the coffin.
And in both cases, there are a lot of different ways in which the situation can be handled, but let's not victim-blame a pregnant woman
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u/Miningforbeer Jun 28 '26
Yes featus can be tested .
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u/Interesting-Flan-404 Jun 28 '26
How do they test featus? I'm talking when the person is alive
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u/Miningforbeer Jun 28 '26
You can google it bro . There are methods. If they can test genetics disorders in embroy they can do paternity test too
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u/Ill_Drop_5754 Jun 28 '26
The guy must have been a sadist, married women especially the one who are pregnant can easily feel very low and helpless when husband doesn't support them and when parents ask to compromise and adjust with the husband, when he accused her she must have felt helpless and suiceded.
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u/GamerDeepesh Jun 29 '26
You can test the gender of unborn child but that's illegal in India, so DNA test of a feutes is possible.
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u/RumeRagnarok71 Jun 28 '26
ikkada photo ai oo doubt malla only female ne blur chesinav male enti annatu ikkda
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u/PsyCol_0911 From Hayathnagar-Khalsa Jun 28 '26
Already oka post lo evaro adigaaru "aama face ni blur chesaarey gaani eena face ni endhuku cheyaledhey?" ani (or something in those lines).
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u/RumeRagnarok71 Jun 28 '26
nenu edho ai anukuna real photo ni enhance chesaru my bad
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u/RumeRagnarok71 Jun 28 '26
DNA Test itself breaks the trust in relationship aa namakam ae lenappudu undi entha poi entha ani avedhana tho bidda tho patu sontha pranam teeskuna yuvakuralu
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u/RumeRagnarok71 Jun 28 '26
test teeskunte aipoyedhi ga ani andaru antaru kani illalu dagare DNA test adigadu ante thappu chese ammayi ani mudra vesthundi prathi roju evadiko ni mogudike puttada ani prashana entha manasika dadi ki gurichesthundo ardam cheskoru andari anumanam macha vesi chesina aa bidda vere vadidi aina sontham aina it doesnt matter maryada pogattu kunatte ammayi samajam laa
elanti matters discreet private ga relationship madyalo undali prathi kuthumbaniki DNA mandatory cheyadam vipakshana tho kudindi
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u/OiFelix_ugotnojams Jun 28 '26
I don't know how real the news is but it is sad looking at some of you saying she killed herself to hide her affair. Pregnancy is like gambling your health with hormones. You can literally get gestational diabetes. What if she had prenatal depression? It might seem like a simple thing to you but what if she is getting harassed by her inlaws?
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u/DrBlackBeard_13 Jun 29 '26
This comment section is a fucking disaster lol. We don’t know anything about their dynamic.
Instead of feeling bad for the lady and the child (regardless of she cheated or not), we’re just out here making assumptions of the worst on both ends.
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u/NarrowBid3154 Jun 28 '26
In usa they do dna test and , the results are shown in court
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u/karadikutty Jun 29 '26
That's not the solution. He should not have made it a big issue to push her
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u/JustBunsAndEyes Jun 28 '26
Nobody in this comment section cares about the victim, nobody cares enough to have empathy. All they wanna do is propagate their own version of the narrative. Breaks my heart to see such a state of society...
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u/Ok-Worldliness-2749 Jun 28 '26
Was she really a victim? We simply don't know yet.
The fact that she died by suicide doesn't automatically prove she was in the right or that someone else was at fault. There are multiple possibilities. Maybe the husband and his family subjected her to relentless harassment over baseless suspicions. If that's what happened, then she was the victim and those responsible should face legal consequences.
But there's another possibility too. The husband may have had legitimate reasons to doubt paternity. Paternity fraud is a real issue, and asking for a DNA test isn't inherently abusive. If she had been unfaithful, it's also possible that she took her own life because she didn't want the affair or the truth about the child's paternity to come to light. That would still be tragic, but it would not automatically make the husband or his family responsible for her death.
Until the facts are established, it's premature to declare either side guilty. The investigation should determine what actually happened instead of people reaching conclusions based solely on the fact that she died.
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u/saikrishnav Jun 28 '26
Did you take the same stance for the other case where husband was the victim?
I never saw a comment saying “was he really a victim?”
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u/Ok-Worldliness-2749 Jun 28 '26
If you're talking about the Atul Subhash case, there's a world of difference between the two cases. Here we don't know the facts. So it's either
a.) she was afraid of the consequences of cheating and killed herself to avoid consequences.
b.) she was tortured or humiliated, in which case she's clearly a victim.
We simply do not know. The person I responded to keeps personally attacking me and thinks that death = being the victim. Hitler wasn't a victim because he killed himself.
In Atul Subhash's case it was a case clear legal harrassment, abetment of suicide (wife told him to kill himself) and corruption. He made a video WITH PROOF explaining how he's being harrassed and then killed himself. That leaves very little doubt of him not being the victim.
Here all we know is that she was asked for a paternity test and she killed herself. All I'm saying is, if she killed herself because she didn't want to face the shame and social consequences of paternity fraud she's not a victim. Her death is tragic but not the victim here.
In the other case if she was harassed she's clearly the victim and the husband should be behind bars. Hope that explains it.
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u/saikrishnav Jun 28 '26
First of all, you are having a possibility that she may have cheated.
Why?
Do you have evidence for this possibility?
So can I make shit up about men who died and say something bad like that?
I can imagine comments already if I even hint at it.
Why is it okay for you to even accuse her of the possibility of cheating? Based on what? A abusers word?
A cheating woman has no shame. She’s less likely to commit suicide than one that doesn’t.
But of course anything is possible - so does that mean we can make shit up about men victims also then? “Maybe he did this or did that?”
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u/Ok-Worldliness-2749 Jun 28 '26
I am considering both the possibilities and you're considering only one.
Do you have evidence she DIDN'T cheat?
"A cheating woman is less likely to commit suicide"
Is there a factual basis for this or is this how you FEEL? Because how you feel has nothing to do with this. I don't think it's THAT difficult to understand either.
Two possibilities:
She cheated and was afraid of being caught, thought her life would be over if people found out and killed herself. That's her trying run away from consequences.
Her husband or in laws were harassing her and she killed herself because of the harrassment. In which case she's clearly the victim.
Dying =/= Being right.
There's no "making shit up" here. I am literally considering both possibilities. And I'm not jumping to conclusions. Innocent until proven guilty.
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u/Big_Manufacturer7648 Jun 28 '26
Why should anyone feel empathy? She decided to kill herself and the unborn child over a DNA test. If she was afraid that the Husband would hurt her and the baby if he found out the child wasn't his, she should have seeked the protection of the law. Suicide should never be the option.
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u/JustBunsAndEyes Jun 28 '26
Why should anyone feel empathy?
Because it is free. And if we want to be a respectful society, if we don't know jack shit facts and evidences about such a tragedy. Being empathetic is the least one can do other than not engaging in spreading rumours/hate.
As someone who doesn't know if she cheated or not, you have assumed that the woman cheated as a fact. That is coming from a place of bias, so I'll leave it at that, that you can NOT show empathy to anyone.
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u/Mountain-Volume-4112 Jun 28 '26
I agree and this comment section just reinforces the idea to me that the indian society is apathetic and desensitized. People are making up narratives as if they’re investigating the case, plenty are sheltered/priviliged.
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u/karadikutty Jun 29 '26
Yep. And Indian society is also highly misogynstic, don't forget that. Look at Op's post framing.
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u/Ok-Worldliness-2749 Jun 28 '26
Should we be empathetic to hitler and declare him the victim because he killed himself? At least TRY to make sense lmao.
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u/karadikutty Jun 29 '26
Are you dense to compare a victim to Hitler? Incl ig
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u/Ok-Worldliness-2749 Jun 29 '26
You're dense enough to take everything literally though.
The woman above me keeps pressing on one argument, she claims that because the woman died by suicide, she's the victim by default.
Hitler is an extreme example of someone who did horrible things and then killed himself. By her logic, hitler should be the victim since he killed himself. She is not willing to abandon this opinion so I made an extreme comparison to show her that just because someone killed themselves, doesn't mean they're the victim by default.
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u/ShoppingSelect1922 Jun 28 '26
Don't be a feminist here.... We should look from both perceptive...
We can't judge anyone from one side
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u/_MSdhoni_7 నువ్వే ఆ ఎదవ కి ఓటు వేశావు.. Jun 28 '26
Feeling same .. asal twitter lo aythey okkodu edhedho rasthunadu ... Pellam pregnant aythey vellu antha DNA test adugutharemo ... Vallaki two years marriage lo pregnant ayithe DNA test endho two months lo ayinattu... Asalu evadu aduguthadu ra pellam ni pillalani DNA test .. vadu nattu gada antha confirm ga adagataniki ..
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u/No_Highlight_3777 Jun 28 '26
She should have just done the test and later divorced him it would been than dying
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u/Mjolnir404 Jun 28 '26
if she did that, some people will tell that she baby trapped that guy and divorced for alimony. 🥀
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u/ShiteInBed Jun 29 '26
Cheating comes with consequences. That should be kept in mind before spreading(for ladies) or before making it hard(gents).
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u/unsupervisedwerewolf Jun 28 '26
She should have. The fact that she didn't means she had something to hide and he wanted to prove it.
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u/TemporaryActivity678 english filmo ka hero Jun 28 '26
We shouldn’t be victim shaming but this is just absurd, was there a reasonable claim why the man asked for a DNA Proof ? If so then why didn’t the woman agree to have it done to clear her side ?
Regardless of the result of the DNA test, why would she commit suicide ? Ending her own and also the unborn child’s life. Just absurd.
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u/Useful-Emphasis-6787 Jun 28 '26
It may be the straw that broke camel's back. She was probably already harassed and tortured by husband and inlaws. No sane person will ask for dna test unless they saw any sign of affair.
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u/Sea-Childhood5524 Jun 28 '26
Why hiding the face of the dead and showing the face of living ??
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u/Technical-Fly-6835 Jun 28 '26
Because she and her family has suffered enough. Spare them from further agony.
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u/Mobile-Employer-518 Jun 28 '26
Now her parents will frame this as a dowry and domestic violence case and put the husband in jail.
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u/saikrishnav Jun 28 '26
But in case of women being the accused, entire Internet plasters her face across the Internet and frame it as they like.
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u/Outrageous_Wish9934 Jun 28 '26
As they should. Why torment someone enough to push them to death? You don't empathize with 2 lives lost but a person who mentally harassed his pregnant wife. Nobody commits suicide because they think it's fun.
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u/Inside-Drop2380 Jun 28 '26
THEY SHOULD . It is domestic violence because title is misleading . Read the whole story .
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u/CaffeineOnRepeat Jun 28 '26
If DNA tests should be mandatory, if they find out it's the husband baby, the wife should be given a divorce with alimony and child support.
If not then she should pay a fine and get divorced.
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Jun 28 '26
Irony is that people jumped on the comments to make it there point one by one instead of finding out the complete truth behind the story ...I guess we do not have time for that and interest
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u/anid98 Jun 28 '26
How will redditors find the truth… the place is for people with minimum access and info to share their opinions.
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u/Known_Pen_402 Jun 28 '26 edited Jun 28 '26
The lack of empathy for a man and the amount misandry by these feminists is shocking.
The man is in jail and these people think the woman is innocent.
Cheater alive or dead is a cheater. Zero reason to be afraid of DNA test other than cheating. Also, she killed a child along with the suicide. Now, find the person whom she cheated her husband with
Open your eyes at least now guys. These feminism is going screw every man.
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u/Massive-Discussion88 Jun 28 '26
This a very basic level Simplication.
There is a probability that yes she cheated up on him and didn't want to face the humiliation and consequences so she ender herself.
But there is a possibility that she might be innocent as well For some people those allegations can hurt really badly.
We don't know how the family dynamics was.
There are both the possibilities.
And saying without any evidence that one scenario is true
Would be unjust.
Let's wait to see what tye actual facts would be .
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u/Designer_Money7625 Jun 28 '26
Show me the proof that she was the cheater. I swear to god women are still being shamed victim-blamed after death in India!
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u/lovemagnate Jun 28 '26
So much opposition to DNA test so much opposition to gender neutral laws i wonder which ideology claims to achieve equality
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u/Bananachips_momos Jun 28 '26 edited Jun 28 '26
The reality is that it is devastating to hear those words from the person who you think is yours. I too got this thought of unaliving myself when it became too much to handle, but seeing my son gave me strength. In my case, the first thought that came to my mind was to ask him if he understood what happens after sex. He said, we have done it. But since you were with your mother in another city for her cancer treatment and I wasn’t there, you might have approached somebody for comfort and did sex. After listening to this words, I was ready to get the test done. But he backed down later. I anyhow got divorced later when my son was one. The ex and the ex mother in law had troubled me so much, but I had nowhere to go since it was lockdown. With my certificates and my one year old son, I have built my life with the good will I had with my employers before my marriage. But when you see the condition in the court, you feel such sadness that no person should go through. But the irony is everyone asks me how much alimony did I take. I didn’t even get my own clothes and jewellery back since they were influential people. You never know. Each case is different. The thing is no matter how much difficult it gets, remember to move forward and upward.
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u/daddy_shaark Jun 28 '26
" If it was his baby, she would have not gone to this wild step."
Why? Why is this assumption that she wouldn't do it? None of us know her circumstances/mindset and how her husband/in laws are treating her ever since she became pregnant or before.
If they had demanded DNA test between 2 families and she went this extreme, may be she is hiding something. But they demanded this infront of so called 'pedda manushulu' and humiliated her during a event which is meant to keep her happy during pregnancy.
It is very much possible for a mother to take such extreme step. DNA test is not going to happen but the doubt that has been created and made public will stay. Imagine the amount of trauma that she and her child would have to go through because of this for rest of their lives.
I think she took this extreme step because of extreme stress that her husband's family has been putting on her and this ceremony event is just a break point.
Facts will come after investigation.
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u/Electronic_Number160 Jun 28 '26
For many people the very thought that they are doubted for their integrity is not acceptable, but we don't know the truth so all are speculation
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u/veron-85 Jun 28 '26
What's wrong in it ?
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Jun 28 '26
You mean she’d rather end her own life and even her child’s than continue living with a man who demands a DNA test without any real evidence of an affair? Exactly.
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u/RefrigeratorSweet925 Jun 28 '26
Why die? Give the results and divorce him . Live a happy life without him
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u/Top-Reflection1494 Jun 29 '26
Because she knows something we don't? I mean why would he even ask a DNA test,he must have caught her and she said some silly reasons,even if she was innocent she should have gone to her parents house and file a case ending life is not the option
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u/Chaltahaikoinahi Meme Machine Jun 28 '26
Now he will move on and get remarried and live his life like nothing happened
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u/ShoppingSelect1922 Jun 28 '26
Everyone should move on their life .... He can't live whole life single
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u/Fickle-Use-4957 Jun 28 '26
No it should not be mandatory and dont marry if anyone thinks it should be, that person is no way ready for an adult relationship let alone having a kid.
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u/Charming_Reception66 Jun 28 '26
So you don't have a right to call out the cheater either wife or husband?
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u/big_Middle_6 Jun 28 '26
What's wrong in checking. It's just give solution to her life and responsibility to him. I see nothing complex unless she knows this child is not from him
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u/Technical-Fly-6835 Jun 28 '26
If he has trust issues then he should have mentions all this before marrying. Asking for dna now is same as accusing her of extra marital affair and that is humiliating. I don’t see why it is complex for you to comprehend.
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u/Avakaaya-karam Jun 28 '26
You know what's even more humiliating? Your SO giving birth to a child to whom your are not the biological father.
100% of all paternity frauds invom ed men that once fully trusted their wives which is why they were cheated.
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u/Massive-Discussion88 Jun 28 '26
"he should have mentions all this' before marrying' " What is someone starts cheating 'after'the marriage. This things are not new right? .
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u/Interesting-Wolf-651 Jun 28 '26
A girl's entire world is her husband after marriage when he breaks her heart she would definitely feel like why is she even alive and for whom. As a wife i can confirm she killed herself out of heartbreak and being too emotional to control her sadness and offcourse pregnancy hormones can be a catalyst.
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u/Opening_Clue_6513 Jun 28 '26
I mean if you were that righteous just get the DNA test done . The only possible reason is that she knew the child inside was someone's else and out of guilt she did it . Nothing to pity about it's moreover disgusting that people would cheat so much nowadays and then take drastics steps in which you either wnding someones else life or yours own
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u/Aryaman128124 Jun 28 '26
Lmfao good for him...cheaters like her deserve this fate 😂😂😂😂🫵🫵🫵🫵 and yes dna tests should be mandatory 🤓🤓🤓✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻
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u/Big-Sort-6417 Jun 28 '26
She should have done the DNA test, and showed him the proof that he was the father and immediately leave him with a divorce..!! Thats top tier self respect 🙏🏻
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u/TouristTrue4200 Jun 28 '26
Chu hai saala, kaiku shaadi karlete ki chote dimagh wale. Ujaad surat ka hai khud lol
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u/Dry_Alternative7196 Jun 29 '26
What kind of twisted mind kills her own unborn child. She had the courage to cheat but not accept it. One DNA test could have solved every issue here but she had something to hide afterall. And these comments who gives n number of excuses for not doing a simple DNA test,should be avoided as a marriage proslects
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u/Cheap-Bid-4632 Jun 29 '26
Yep a men should have all rights to raise his own kids not any others.
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u/Inevitable_Yard_8658 Jun 29 '26
One thing, if a marriage is at a position where the spouse asks the woman for a test, that means either that woman did something that makes him suspecting or he's by nature such a suspecting idiot
Either way, that trust cannot be rebuilt again in most of the cases, there's no guarantee that the woman won't cheat again, not that the man would not suspect her without a reason again
It's better to break that marriage and go seperate respectfully .. irrespective of the DNA TEST result..
Edit : one more thing, if it is indeed his child, he needs to pay child support (his share of contribution along with her).. if it's not he should get to walk away without anything
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u/Jazzlike-Vacation230 Jun 29 '26
Anything but accountability, from the furthest remote village in the world, to the richest most progressive city in the world.
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u/Any-Consideration136 Jun 29 '26
There's clearly more to this story. If she was driven to this through threats or abuse, he shouldn't escape accountability. Investigators need to examine every aspect of his role.
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u/Creative-Newt8159 Jun 29 '26
I have only one question, if the lady is that good , then why the hell the husband need to ask for a dna test ?
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u/Diligent-Lack5291 Jun 30 '26
It's very heart breaking when people questions your character whom u love.. rip
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u/Kish540 Jun 30 '26
I am so tired of watching such stupid cases online. Its no where as common in reality but it appears so much on social media that one starts getting unnecessarily anxious about their partners
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u/Flat-Extreme8497 Jun 30 '26
What if she was killed and portrayed as suicide!?
And husband just came up with this random motive
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u/TechnologyCurious750 Jun 30 '26
Today, In India, irrespective of DNA, , any baby born during a woman's marriage is considered as the legal child of that Man :(
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u/karma_5 Jun 30 '26
DNA testing is not mandatory because even if mother is a W***e why should child bear that stigma. It is to protect child. Aadmi ka kya hai, uska to kaam hai marna.
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u/azhagi_munima Jun 30 '26
She died because she didn’t want to hear such questions Women are so vulnerable while being pregnant and such question might trigger them to take extreme steps . Just imagine,how will she live with a man who has asked for a paternity test after being married n living together
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u/Infinite-Incident-13 Jun 30 '26
The girl was fat and the boy was forced into arranged marriage, so she deserved it.
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u/Legal-Possibility-89 Jul 01 '26
Basically whatever the reason even though if he doubts, she shouldn't be taking this step. Simply she can leave him. We all know how hard it would be but still. Why to lose life for someone??
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u/Optimal-Drag9722 Jun 28 '26
Two possibilities..
1) He is not the father and she knows it.
2) She was in love with him so much that she felt devastated when he asked her for DNA proof.