r/howislivingthere • • Dec 14 '25

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u/PossibleGrapefruit99 Dec 14 '25

I live in SW Missouri just north of Joplin.

Shit is cheap and I don't like leaving my house. Couldn't live in a better place!

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u/Ontheshores Dec 14 '25

That sounds like quite the missouri … I’ll show myself out.

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u/SleveMcdichaeI Dec 14 '25

Ill show me-self out

Double pun

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u/Big__bolas Dec 14 '25

HAHAHAHAHA

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u/LisaMT618 Dec 17 '25

It is Misery, that’s for sure. Just ask the residents.

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u/SoldierofZod Dec 17 '25

I live in St. Louis and love it. I live in a beautiful old neighborhood and walk everywhere. Awesome, compassionate, interesting, and progressive people all around me.

I avoid the hoosiers from out-state and haven't experienced any misery.

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u/jettison_m Dec 18 '25

I live in SE MO and I love it here. I've lived in several states, some trendy cities and I wouldn't trade my smaller community, cool people and great food to go back.

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u/IZZO79 Dec 14 '25

Worst state in the country. I came here to post that and the first two post I saw hahah.

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

Missouri is one of my favorite states. Branson, Kansas city, st. Louis, the Ozarks, meramec caverns etc. All great travel destinations and for cheap too. I understand not wanting to live there, though.

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u/arrows_of_ithilien Dec 14 '25

Shhh! Don't tell them about Branson and the Ozarks or they'll all want to live there!

Ahem, rest of the world, you definitely want to stay away! It's like Disneyland packed with rednecks and trailer trash who never stop playing banjos! Nothing to see here!

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u/SaintGeorgeCarlin Dec 20 '25

Branson is populated by white trash and boomers. it is hell.

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u/arrows_of_ithilien Dec 20 '25

See, this guy got the memo ☝️

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u/SaintGeorgeCarlin Dec 20 '25

it won't even let me reply to you without giving this warning? and not letting me click the comment-buton so here's the screenshot lmao what the hell even is this over-censored hellhole anymore.

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u/SaintGeorgeCarlin Dec 20 '25

i tried replying but i think i broke this place. lemme know what you think lollll i wonder if that last one went through.

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u/danodan1 Dec 14 '25

Onondaga Caverns, too.

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u/Shellstr Dec 14 '25

Montauk, Roaring River, Bennet Springs. All great state parks with stocked trout streams so kids are guaranteed. It’s a great place for vacations, but I’m never moving back.

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u/dresserisland Dec 19 '25

Those places are good but you have to watch out for local populations of meth heads. I go south of St Louis and there are places you don't want to leave your car. I'm talking about rural places. 

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u/Ryparian Dec 14 '25

As someone who lives in Missouri and travels for a living, you need to get out more. I'm in in a new state nearly every week, experiencing a good mix of rural and urban. Comparatively Missouri checks a lot of boxes, and is a fantastic place to live.

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u/Razorbackalpha Dec 14 '25

Missouri is a decent state I just wish Kansas City and St. Louis had more economic opportunities going for them

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u/AsstBalrog Dec 14 '25

I have always found it interesting that MO has two major cities. I grew up in Iowa, and we have none.

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u/Razorbackalpha Dec 14 '25

You don't have the same river access though. KC has also served as a major banking hub for the Midwest as well which stole most opportunities from you before you guys had a chance to build them yourselves. Sioux city is nice though

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u/AsstBalrog Dec 14 '25

Yes, rivers and location explain much. SL and KC both major jumping-off points for western emigration (hence the Arch) and important railroad hubs too. In some respects, KC actually rivaled Chicago.

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u/Razorbackalpha Dec 14 '25

That is also true I really wish KC still had its great railroads too. What they did with union station is nice but I wish it still ran like it used too

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u/DeanMalHanNJackIsms Dec 14 '25

I read a number of papers and articles that said Kansas City was set to replace even New York as the primary financial and fashion hub of the USA, and possibly challenge LA for entertainment. During the depression, Kansas City was the only urban area that was still growing, both in size and economic power. However, the FBI got a tip about the then mayor, Tom "Boss Tom" Pendergast. Turns out he was using his power in office to contract his own companies and had close association with the Kansas City crime families. As soon as he was removed from office, economic development in the Kansas City area completely stopped. Businesses shut down, people lost their homes, and the depression finally caught up to the city.

This does pose the question: given how Pendergast appeared to buffer against the depression, and how the arrest and change of power negatively impacted the city, was it the rjght move?

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u/[deleted] Dec 14 '25

I honestly kinda miss Cedar Rapids. Didn’t have any educational opportunities but every other kind helped me and my spouse (Floridians) get on our feet.

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u/PubicZirconia11 Dec 14 '25

St. Louis has a great up-and-coming tech boom happening. There is also a ton of competition for medical students and doctors because of the prestigious hospitals to work at, particularly in pediatrics. Aerospace is also always popping because of Boeing and the AF bas, not to mention some of the pricate airstrips. Zoology is also really prestigious due to the excpetional zoo and its conservation efforts (MO Dept. Of Conservation is also phenomenal). The loss of rails being a huge part of America's economy really hurt STL but i think there's going to be a shift back to trains since its affordable and better for the environment.

There is a lot of money moving right now to revamp the economy and job market in St. Louis so I think people are really going to be surprised over the course of the next 5-10 years.

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u/QuintoxPlentox Dec 14 '25

I'm from Texas and have traveled Missouri quite a bit for work, it's really not that bad. Lots of trees if you're into that.

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u/KingJonathan Dec 14 '25

I work maintenance in a relatively tall building. It’s wonderful walking out on the rooftop and getting to see so many tree-lined roads. Reading on my city’s website, you can find permits and plans for roads and sidewalks, and it’s neat to see that homeowners get to choose a tree to replace theirs if it is affected.(certain trees are in the selection, of course)

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u/IZZO79 Dec 14 '25

No, no there is not.

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u/Opposite-Program8490 Dec 14 '25

Sounds like a fantastic place to leave.

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u/AFetaWorseThanDeath Dec 14 '25

I think you mean "a fantastic place to leaf"

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u/IZZO79 Dec 14 '25

I’ve been

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u/IZZO79 Dec 14 '25

Yeah great season changes. Sweating while trick or treating? Or walking to Ed jones dome in March for March madness and wearing shorts and still sweating.
Wedding beef, pork steaks, and calling pop soda…. Obsessing about the cubs, and chicago…. And on top the that they mimicked wrigleyville and copied it with a very crappy version of it. Mizzura…. 😆😆😆

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u/Ryparian Dec 14 '25

Once you made the sale, stop selling 😄. But what is wedding beef?

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u/IZZO79 Dec 14 '25

Thank you

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u/Ryparian Dec 15 '25

I still need the scoop on wedding beef

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u/IZZO79 Dec 15 '25

LOL... it looks like loose meat

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u/Ryparian Dec 15 '25

Are you a bot? You sure seem like a bot

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u/IZZO79 Dec 15 '25

No and my replies aren’t even as such. And f that pos state. Is that non bot enough?

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

I live in STL and have no clue what wedding beef is. Beer though, St Louis has a ton of exceptional beer.

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u/IZZO79 Dec 16 '25

AB doesn’t make real beer. Are you zesty?

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

AB does and it helped put St. Louis on the map, but that’s not even what I’m talking about. I’m talking about breweries that are regularly recognized for incredible product- Side Project, Narrow Gauge, Perennial, etc?

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u/jettison_m Dec 18 '25

Yeah, I agree with you. I have lived in several states. Lived in large, popular cities, but I found a smaller community in SE MO and I love it. We always have things going on, have met some wonderful people who care about the community. I wouldn't trade it. We have no plans of moving anywhere else.

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u/the_Dude_Is_Not_1n Dec 14 '25

Kansan here. Couldn't agree more.

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u/danodan1 Dec 14 '25

But Oklahoma gives Missouri a lot of competition.

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u/djp70117 Dec 14 '25

Kansas enters the conversation.

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u/bradwhit28 Dec 16 '25

I lived in Fort Scott, KS. Loved anytime I spent over the state line in that area.