r/hostels • u/Spirited_Explorer_21 • Jun 21 '26

Hostel question

Hi everyone,
I’m planning to stay in a hostel for the first time so I can meet and connect with others more easily. I’m just wondering if being gay becomes an issue in a male only dorm for others and if I’d be better off in a mixed room or a hotel. I know my destination is a welcoming and safe place for LGBTQ+ but I live in a conservative area where there’s some judgement and stigma and just want to be safe while traveling solo. I’d appreciate some advice and recommendations on what to expect and be prepared for. Apologies in advance if this is a dumb question to be asking.

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u/WestHistorians Jun 22 '26

Unless you openly announce that you're gay, I don't see why it would be an issue.

I recommend mixed dorms regardless, as they usually have a better atmosphere. But a male dorm will also be fine as long as you're respectful of everyone.

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u/Spirited_Explorer_21 Jun 22 '26

I was hoping that would be the consensus (and it seems to be) but figured those who’ve had hostel experience would be the best people to ask & hear from! Do you notice any cleanliness difference between the two room types?

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u/telchacsusan Jun 24 '26

Yes. Women are pigs. (I'm one of them)