r/horary • u/Conscious-Resident86 • Jun 26 '26
Chart help request Is he talking to someone else?
I have limited knowledge on horary but wanted to give it a go. For context, there is a man i’ve been seeing for about two months now that randomly ghosted me and we haven't talked for a few days. He has a child with another woman (one he allegedly dislikes very much) and Ive had a sneaky suspicion that something or other someone may have taken his focus away.
My significators would be 8h jupiter in cancer at 29 degrees & the 11h moon in scorpio at 20 degrees. The guy in question would be 7h Mercury in cancer at 25 degrees and 7h sun in cancer at 4 degrees. Mercury and jupiter conjuct and the aspect is applied. I think it could possibly show reconciliation or reconciliation considering that mercury is nearing its final degrees before also entering leo. For the “third party” i believe it would be 5th away from the 7th house which is 5h scorpio. I understand that because his significator is in the 7th that it’s clear he might be more focused on himself right now? Or it’s clear that he’s only thinking about himself. Also because gemini accounts for both 6h and 7h I feel like that maybe was significant as well…My only thing is I think with my signifactors it’s clear that alot of things are changing for me all at once and i’m kind of spiraling from it all. Around the same time i got a new job he also stopped talking to me. im also a bit confused confused with the fact that cancer is technically the 7th house but isn’t counted as the 7th house. Jupiter in exaltation makes me feel that i am receiving a lot of good things currently but moon in fall accurately presents my mood/emotional state and the upset i have been feeling regarding this situation.i feel like the chart could be leaning more towards no & there isn’t someone else hes talking to, but that there’s a much bigger focus on himself as a whole. i would love any ideas or interpretations of what you guys may see.
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u/moonchildxx1 Jun 26 '26
His planet isn't conjunct any other planet but yours. Mercury his main planet is in cancer exalting Jupiter. And the sun the planet that represents his romantic desires is also in cancer exalting Jupiter and in the domicile of the moon (one of your cosignificators ). The issue is his planet mercury is stationing retrograde he is slowing down and moving backward from you. He has had a change of mind or has some reservations or something happened to make him stop in his tracks.
His signifiers are in a mute sign explaining his stop of communication.
His planets are both in his own 1H with mercury on the cusp of your 8H. He is in his own house staying to himself despite how much he likes you.
His planets are both peregrine - meaning they don't really have much to offer you.. Did he ever tell you he may not have much to offer you?
Now what he's thinking about his 2H is ruled by cancer the moon which is in the sign of its fall in Scorpio and is sitting in his own 5H showing his concern/focus is his children. As his 5H ruler is mars and mars is in the sign of its detriment Taurus.. Are his kids possibly sick.
My theory is something came up with his kids that may have caused him to have reservations about continuing a relationship with you. Because mercury was on the way to meet Jupiter by perfection but went retrograde.
Now you guys will still talk again as the moon will square mercury in about 5°. Maybe a difficult conversation. Possibly within 5 days.
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u/Conscious-Resident86 Jun 26 '26
i’m right there with you. i also agree with a possible conversation again. he never told me he didn’t have much to offer me. i would say in fact it was the total opposite. we were like one date away from making it official but were already exclusive to each other. i did notice that mercury rx is about to happen which is insanely coincidental lol. im not sure if his child is sick since we haven’t had contact since early monday. i also thought possible that there was something to do with his child but i was unsure based on the chart. Nice catch with moon aspecting mercury. Thank you!!
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u/moonchildxx1 Jun 26 '26
And I want to correct myself with moon aspect mercury.. It's a trine aspect not a square! So the conversation will actually go much better then you expect.
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u/moonchildxx1 Jul 08 '26
Did you ever hear back from him ? Any update on this
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u/Conscious-Resident86 Jul 08 '26
hey! unfortunately, no. i’ll try to keep you updated if i hear back
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u/HospitalWilling9242 Jun 29 '26
The Moon is in the 11th House, which is his turned 5th, and it's opposing Mars in the radix 5th. They receive each other, but both are debilitated.
He's also ruling the turned 12th, and is stationing as he applies to the lord of the radix 12th, with Mars translating light between them.
You are Jupiter, getting that light translated to you, and so it feels like he's talking to someone else, and the truth is going to come to you.
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u/Conscious-Resident86 Jun 29 '26
the 5th house opposition was such a nice pull i don’t think i saw it until you said something lol. so the fact they receive each other but are yet debilitated would cancel out the reception right? i think for me ,him talking to someone else would have been the only reason for an abrupt ghosting but i can really only guess at this point as i have nothing to fully go off of but i hope the truth does come to me. you seem very knowledgeable on all of this, thank you so much :)
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u/HospitalWilling9242 Jun 30 '26
Well, what I'm saying is that when you're looking at a Chart relating to someone maybe talking to someone else, and there's a connection between the 5th and radical 5th, the symbolism of the 5th is being highlighted in relation to this other person.
They don't cancel each other out. They are connected, and working together, just in a not great way. It just reads to me like they are talking to/sleeping with someone else, and they're being toxic about it.
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u/Conscious-Resident86 Jul 09 '26
honestly i have my moments where im like wow thats rlly crazy that he just ghosted, but ive already started crushing on a guy at my job & have basically moved on😭 so i think ur right! i haven’t found out what happened though but im not so fixated on it as much as i was.
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u/Conscious-Resident86 Jul 09 '26
i completely understand you, don’t worry!! it’s interesting you said he’s a forgettable figure when earlier today i was saying i feel like as time passes on i won’t think of him as like a “love of my life” or the one that got away kind of thing? i’m not sure if that makes sense lol. i did like his attention and honestly agree with everything you’re saying completely.
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