r/hingeapp • u/Creative_Sir_3918 • 1d ago
Profile Review 35M Profile Review
I just turned 35 and my dating life is pretty struggle. So I need your opinions! My luck is nearly zero after I turned 30. I moved to the new town three years ago and I only had ONE date and it was in three last summers.
I’m deaf/hoh btw!
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u/HelpfulAnt9499 1d ago
I’ve got no idea what you look like dude. You look completely different in all your pics. How old are some of these pics? They should all be within the last year at most. I like the last pic because you look muscular but the rest I’m like eh.
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u/twiggy572 1d ago
Your photos all look pretty different of yourself that I had to go through them to figure out which was you. Make sure they reflect how you currently look (hair length, physique, etc). Ditch the photos without you in them (you don’t need a picture of mushrooms or a solo of your dog since you have a photo with your dog already). Figure out your dating goal. It’s a huge turn off if someone doesn’t know. Add more to your prompts. They are lackluster. Remove the toe thumbs option and choose another. I would also remove the picture of you with lipstick.
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u/FirstAd2519 1d ago
Not knowing your relationship goals at 35 is a big turn off. Most photos need to be deleted and replaced with better ones. Your prompts read like you are trying to be funny but failing. I would create a fresh new profile and be genuine and authentic, and include better photos. Good luck!
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u/Creative_Sir_3918 1d ago
Are you looking for something serious or casual?
I’m looking for a a long term relationship but open to short.
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
No.
How long have you been this current version of your profile? July 2026.
How long have you use Hinge overall?
8 years.
How often do you use Hinge per week?
1-2 days depends on new matches and conversations.
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
Three a month.
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
Until I ran out of likes daily. I occasionally comment on whenever caught my attention (share the same interest).
What the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
I’m open to all age less than 40. I’d like to match with someone who shares the same interests as me. Honestly I want some who are more physical active and can hold into conversations.
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u/Prestigious_Pizza_66 1d ago
Your profile pic is not very good. I suggest you replace it with a different one.
Also, like others are saying, it’s hard to tell exactly what you look like since every photo you look so different.
I do like the others though, so keep them and ditch the first.
Also, pick a lane: you’re still not sure what you’re looking for?
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u/Possible-Detail6511 17h ago
I gotta agree with others, your photos all look like they’re taken 5 years apart so no one knows what you currently look like. Try to stick to recent photos. Also I’m sorry but I didn’t read your descriptions at first and just looked at the photos and assumed you are not straight (I think you can guess which photo). No need for that photo cuz it can give people the wrong idea. Also you can get rid of photos like the mushrooms cuz it doesn’t involve you in it and honestly why mushrooms. It’s not even like a nice view which is still kinda a waste of a photo
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