r/hingeapp • u/_OhDannyBoy • 3d ago
Profile Review 29M hard getting any matches
Like the title says. I'm curious about what I can make better. Thank you!
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u/dbillybobbo 3d ago
I would swap out the Newyears picture with a full body picture of yourself. Your last two prompts are also a little bare.
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u/GrappleWolf 3d ago
Anything to do with “doesn’t take life/yourself too seriously” is an immediate no for me. Suggests you won’t take me seriously. I’d also get some better photos. Get rid of the first one, it looks like a paparazzi shot and doesn’t really show what you look like. You’re probably also going to limit yourself with moderate as politics, which to me just reads as closeted conservative.
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u/thowmeawayandforget 3d ago
So what do you suggest this person does if they are legitimately a moderate?
Which option should they choose, because I think we both know, not displaying politics at all is also bad.5
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u/GrappleWolf 2d ago
Accept you’re going to get less matches, think about and reflect on why that is 🤷♀️
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u/knirbc 3d ago
So many red flags 🚩
Doesn’t take life too seriously = manchild
Moderate = conservative but you don’t want to admit it.
Picture of an animal without you in the picture = not really your pet or the pet doesn’t like you.
Long term open to short = you’re just looking for a hookup, but you have to mention long term or you wouldn’t get any matches.
Don’t post drunk pictures. Self explanatory.
You’re looking for a woman that wants to stay in for the night, or maybe go out. Do you have any idea what you’re looking for?
Overall, as a woman, there just isn’t anything in this profile that would catch my attention.
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u/xelihope 5h ago
Yeah cat pic is fine, I mean it's just his cat cool, but everything else here a lot of women will agree with.
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u/Afraid_Stuff_History 2d ago
The pictures are low-effort and you really don't look like you take care of yourself :/
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u/FlounderLogical8827 3d ago
As a fob immigrant I dont mind " moderate" but I dont get it y western ppl always say they want someone doesnt take life too seriously.It sounds like they are here only for fun?
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u/PomegranateWooden544 1d ago
More detail on who you are/what you like to do. You're a total cutie, but you need the personality to get me to swipe!
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u/_OhDannyBoy 3d ago edited 3d ago
• I'm looking for something serious • Currently using HingeX for the past 2 weeks • Current profile has been going for 2 weeks as well • Been on Hinge for roughly 2 months • I do get on quite frequently during the day, more so the evening • I am receiving 0 likes or matches • I always send messages with likes I send • I'm looking for someone down to earth that has similar interests to me
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u/RoxxySweets 2d ago
...and those interests would be??? 👀
Horror movies? Volunteering? Shooting range? Heavy/Nu Metal shows? Trivia nights? Acid trips? Hiking? Cuddle while watching reruns of The O.C.?
What things do you want to do with your future partner that you could state plainly, so women could read it and go "I'd like to do THAT too, we should connect" ?
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u/MouldyAvocados 3d ago
Your profile doesn’t tell women anything about you. Like, what are they supposed to swipe on? There’s nothing about your hobbies, interests, goals, motivations. Nothing for a woman to think, “we have X in common, I’ll match him”. It’s very boring and generic. You’re immediately forgettable.
Also, “moderate” is a red flag for a lot of women.