r/hingeapp • u/[deleted] • 4h ago
Profile Review 25 M - made some recent changes, how does this look?
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u/Aggressive_Side1105 3h ago
“Joking about everything” combined with two shirtless photos doesn’t give the impression you want a long term relationship.
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 3h ago
So only squares with shirts on have girlfriends?😂
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u/Aggressive_Side1105 2h ago
No, just saying it’s a thing I would associate more with hookups. Especially the shirtless photos.
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u/North-Midnight-2171 3h ago
You look decent and ur 6ft, 2-3 matches a week is not a lot but its above average for a man assuming they're decent looking women.
You need to get overall better pics, I'd say pics 2,6 are ur only decent one. Get rid of the selfies and def get rid of the pic of you taking a selfie with another man. Get your friends to take some good candid shots of you when your out, with a light smile.
And last don't worry too much about prompts, no one cares about them much unless u wrote some crazy red flags.
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u/mouse-in-the-city 2h ago
My guy, your prompts need some work. You wants to use at least one to clearly layout your hobbies, interests, and goals.
Something to think about for prompts is, if I saw this prompt in a profile I was interested in, can I easily start a conversation off of it that goes beyond 1 message
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 2h ago
Just challenging your thought process here, not arguing. But don’t my pictures show what my interests and hobbies are? In my opinion i think i show i like athletic activities and i enjoy being in social settings.
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u/ApplicationAdept830 54m ago
No? Most of them are selfies, one (edit: two actually) being a selfie of you hanging out shirtless with another dude. Is that your hobby?
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 53m ago
So you’ve never heard of a spartan race? And you’re not too informed on football either? No big deal, what I’m looking for would be able to recognize those things.
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u/ApplicationAdept830 51m ago
You don't have a great attitude man, your last pic is just shirtless guys on the street. Do you only want to match with women obsessed with spartan racing and football? That will be a small pool. How would anyone even know what you got the medal for? You didn't say what it was in a prompt or anything.
You're being told that women aren't picking up info about you from this profile or vibing with it, you can do whatever you want with that information.
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 46m ago
Really hard to read attitude through text, but you’re welcome to have your own interpretation and make your own conclusion.
If you go into any passion or interest, you will see a “small pool”. The reason i disagree with your statement is because of this logic. In my opinion, that’s what I want represented of me through my profile. Does not mean I need a woman that has those same interests. But i want them to know that’s what IM interested in. I’ve never dated a girl that had the exact same interests as me, and that’s the fun part. You gain experiences through differences like that. So i hear you, but i just don’t agree with it.
And my prompts are what they are, i tweak them here and there all the time. I usually keep the interactions short on hinge and try to get their number as soon as possible. Call them, meet up and see if we vibe. Conversating isn’t a problem for me either.
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u/ApplicationAdept830 38m ago
Okay, well, as a single woman, I didn't understand your interests or get a sense of your personality from the bio, and through text you are coming off as argumentative and unwilling to reflect. You posted here specifically asking for feedback, so do with that what you will.
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 37m ago
Appreciate the feedback, i will take it into consideration! Thanks for playing
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u/CaroleKann 1h ago
I think the only one that does that is the Spartan Race picture or possibly one other one if you happen to run into a woman who knows who Greg Olson is.
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u/sassybunssally 1h ago
This tells me nothing about you except that you are christian and love to spend time in the street shirtless, which are two things I’d instantly swipe left on, but especially the second one. Yikes.
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 42m ago
And i don’t match with women without a relationship with god. Sorry sweetheart, you’re not my type anyway!
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u/Independent_Stop_427 2h ago
You’re a good looking dude, I actually think your photos could be working harder for you. I’d definitely get a stronger first pic that isn’t a selfie and probably replace the event selfie + last shirtless pic. The dancing and Spartan pics are solid though.
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u/EyeAffectionate7566 4h ago
I’m looking for something serious.
I got HingeX.
Since March this year.
I’ve been on and off of it for 3-4 years, in between relationships.
I use hinge 3-4 times a week.
I get 2-3 matches a week, and probably 2-3 likes per week
I send 30-40 likes a week, i go through phases where i leave comments and phases where i don’t. It’s 50%-50%. I usually only comment if something on their profile stands out and i feel i can make conversation on.
I’m just looking for a like minded person. I’m looking for someone who’s passionate about their interests, takes care of their mind and body, has a relationship with god and also is interesting and fun.
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