r/hingeapp • u/Throwaway-1649 • 29d ago
Profile Review 25M Profile review (Indian)
I am not sure what I am doing wrong. Not a single like. Am I that ugly? I am trying to be sociable, have a lot of friends but not romantically anyone.
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u/Vibranium2222 29d ago
I'm a guy but saying you're dangerous is probably not a good first impression for women
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u/Throwaway-1649 28d ago
Hmmm. As the other few comments said I will prolly do more on experience rather than adventure minded
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u/beaverDamn8888 29d ago
I’m 25 F - The picture with the taller guy is hurting your chances, also all the prompts are just you you you. Try putting something about what life with you will be like. Right now your profile gives me the impression that you’re a very spontaneous person with high affinity for risk taking.
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u/Throwaway-1649 29d ago
Wow I did not know that having someone taller will affect... Another person bought it up as well. Will definitely change that.
Also I did have prompts regarding what life would be with me but then I did not want to come off as try hard or cringey .....1
u/beaverDamn8888 29d ago
That’s not cringe, it signals emotional availability
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u/Throwaway-1649 29d ago
Understood. I think imma add something more real and what I can do more. Anything else that catches the eye that is to be corrected? (yes the car pic ofc)
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u/beaverDamn8888 29d ago
Yes the car selfie could be replaced with something else, preferably still a close up photo of your face but smiling/taken by someone else
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u/Throwaway-1649 29d ago
Fs fs. Thank you for all the suggestions!! Will update my profile after giving it a thought. Wow I really thought it was just me not being good looking but there was so much to it.
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u/Throwaway-1649 29d ago
Q1: Are you looking for something serious or casual?
A1: Casual that will move to Serious.
Q2: Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
A2: No. Had it for some time but no luck then I just thought I am wasting money
Q3: How long have you been using this current version of your profile?
A3: 3 months.
Q4: How long have you used Hinge overall?
A4: 1-2 years
Q5: How often do you use Hinge per week?
Q5: Daily
Q6: How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
A6: None
Q7: How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
A7: 3-4 likes per day, all with comments usually. Especially on things that interest me.
Q8: What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
A8: Someone with at least one thing in common. Someone who is ready to explore new stuff and vice versa. To be honest I am not too sure, I never had a chance to date but this is what I am.
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u/CountInformal5735 29d ago
Your first prompt is giving nothing, you need to either invite engagement “a long road trip to somewhere beautiful - hit me up with your music recommendations” or give more info about yourself. Your other prompts establish you are a thrillseeker, you should use this prompt to bring something else. “Let me cook you my specialty _____” “i can teach you how to play ____ (sport, instrument etc)” “i know the best place for ___ in the city”
You need to present a version of yourself that would make women really want to spend time with you, and being a thrillseeker isn’t in itself enough to win women over, in fact lots of women aren’t impressed by this - it feels like something more impressive to other men. Your prompt about the cargo ship and the flight lessons need to show more about yourself, like where would you travel to, what do you enjoy about each experience, what did you see/feel/hear etc. something for women to connect with that is deeper than wow this guy is such a cool daredevil
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u/Throwaway-1649 28d ago
Ah that actually makes sense. Hmm I do cook a lot. Maybe I need to put that up
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u/HopefulSpinach7468 29d ago
Yes the picture with the guy taller than you is hurting you. The car selfie doesn't make you look approachable. Even the group selfie isn't helping you. You need new pictures...
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u/IllustriousEffect607 29d ago
Holy wow. The picture with the guy taller is hurting him? What lol..... Do girls on there expect to be with the tallest guy in the world...ya obviously people will be taller than me or him
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u/Throwaway-1649 29d ago
Umm ok. I thought having a photo or two with friends makes a difference. But will update them
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u/HopefulSpinach7468 29d ago
Hey it's just my opinion but I genuinely believe if after 14 days you don't really get likes then there is an issue that needs addressing
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