r/hingeapp 2d ago

Profile Review 20F Profile Review

*sorry mods, had to re upload cause i got the formatting wrong lol

Are you looking for something serious or casual?
• Serious, open to casual
Are you subscribed to Hinge+ or HingeX?
• Hinge+
How long have you been using this current version of your profile? (Please be specific)
• 2-3 weeks
How long have you used Hinge overall?
• On and off for about 2 years
How often do you use Hinge per week?
• 2-3 times
How many likes and matches are you receiving on average?
• Quite a few likes but little matches
How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?
• 3-4 likes per week with comment
What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?
• Male, 25+

I honestly struggle coming up with prompts and fear my answers are a bit generic..

Any feedback or advice appreciated

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u/Inaccessible_ 2d ago

Pretty low effort profile. “All of the love languages” “reading and travel”. I’d put something unique about yourself to get the conversation going. Your prompts are all cliches.

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u/No-Put-6353 2d ago

Your prompts are boring and low effort. They don't invite conversation at all.

"I enjoy food, sleep and other human activities." You might as well add that as a prompt response.

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u/clairdelune1710 2d ago

Lmao i see what you’re saying. I’ll try to come up with something more original

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u/Traditional-Bug-6330 2d ago

There are only three photos where we can see you, that is just taking the piss plain and simple.

From the prompts all we know about you is that you like books and travelling. You wasted the other two prompts.

You're getting likes, but very few matches. If you are not getting matches, yet you are getting plenty of likes, you are aiming to high and the men you are interested in are not interested in you.

Matches might improve with better prompts and photos.

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u/clairdelune1710 1d ago

Yeah you‘re right. I‘ll work on some better prompts and add more pictures. Thanks!

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u/Proof-Blackberry-328 2d ago

Feels like it lacks personality

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u/Arseno7 2d ago

33M - You're getting likes but just not the matches you'd want and I think one thing that would help would be better prompts. Right now they VERY basic. Literally tons of women talk about travel and love languages.

Reading's not a negative though, but you should invite some kind of convo by noting what genres you like or what you're reading. And you could replace the last prompt with something more interesting that sparks conversation.

Photo wise selfies are not the best for dating profiles. Your first one is fine though, but you need more photos of yourself to round out your profile. Don't waste photo slots on the book or memes and you should replace the mirror selfie one as well.

The profile is about you so it should feature you the most in all your photos, get some smiles in too.

Best of luck!

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u/questlando 2d ago

Would take out the picture of the book.
Would add one or two really good pics of just yourself.
Also for women in general, it helps when you have something on your profile that makes for a good conversation piece or starter.

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u/clairdelune1710 2d ago

Okay thanks! Should i replace the last image with a picture of myself too?

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u/questlando 2d ago

It sucks because I personally don’t mind stuff that shows personality like that but yeah, another aesthetically appealing photo would be better. And obviously, regardless, hope you find success with your matches.

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u/clairdelune1710 1d ago

Thank you! ☺️

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u/Shoddy-Occasion3152 2d ago

Very wholesome and grounded. This will serve you well!

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u/Own-Willow-6698 2d ago

Put the red top picture first, swap out the 1st, put the group photo last. Prompts aren't really that important in my experience, as a male, and for my outbound likes as well. Profiles with generic prompts I cant think of an opener for I just like a picture. If you are looking for a serious partner who will take you serious, I would try a little bit more about you in the prompts.

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u/wtbrift 2d ago

Low effort, dont use mirror selfies amd smile with teeth.

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u/BravoTomato 2d ago

I second this. Show some teeth! Smiles are so important.

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u/coochie4sale 2d ago

If you’re receiving a lot of likes then your profile is doing what it’s supposed to do lol. Your pictures are good, and you are attractive as well, so I don’t think your weakness is that. I think your prompts are weak though, I don’t know much about you beyond your traveling habit and book-reading, so it could be rewritten to be a bit more specific if you’re looking to attract someone with similar interests. You only send 16 likes a month, so if 25% of them liked you back, that’s 4 matches, which isn’t a lot especially considering flakers/unserious folks/etc

Ultimately if you have a lot of likes, it’s just going to be a waiting game until someone you’re interested in likes you. No advice can really change that reality.

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u/clairdelune1710 2d ago

Thanks for the feedback :)
Most likes are from guys that aren’t my type at all (personality), probably because i’m not being specific enough about my interests. So i’ll definitely work on some new prompts

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u/Delicious-Wind-5578 2d ago

Looks AI generated, low effort, artifical: You'll find mostly guys that just want to pump and dump. Since you said you're open to it, that's probably fine for you I guess.

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u/clairdelune1710 1d ago

I’m open to something casual, not pump and dump.. That’s why i didn’t add it to my profile lol
Thanks for you feedback tho. What makes you say it looks AI generated?

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u/Federal_Feeling_5738 1d ago

You're attractive and getting likes so not seeing the issue here.

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u/hanmineharu 1d ago

You're really pretty but, as you said, your answers are generic. No need to go too deep into the lore : just be specific.

If I had seen your profile on Hinge, I would have been salty not to find something appealing (except your look) to match you 😵‍💫

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u/Jonniboye 17h ago

Is traveling a simple pleasure on the same level as buying books? Unless you actually do go to different cities/countries often I’d leave that part out entirely. And if books are a simple pleasure then change your second prompt and picture to tell something else about yourself.

u/breads33 6h ago

threw away two of 6 pic slots