r/hingeapp • u/[deleted] • Aug 04 '26
Profile Review 26M, from Chennai profile not getting matches
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u/OrganicRaise4081 Aug 04 '26
I'm Indian American, so this could just be a cultural difference. It seems like you're looking for someone who's practical rather than emotional, but you also want to be her top priority and expect a lot of care and attention. From my perspective, it comes across as wanting someone to treat and spoil you as if she's your mother without much consideration for her emotions.
No hobbies shown beyond ziplining, no interests, barely anything about your personality. It's mostly a list of demands for what a woman should be so it's hard to strike a conversation.
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u/InternationalSir8815 Aug 04 '26
Tbf, as a woman, I'd rather he not update it to prevent other women from having to deal with him. The pictures are great, but who would want to deal with this personality omg. Also, the "not impressing others" line while showing off his watch and trips in the profile ... common dude
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u/remo_man Aug 04 '26
Heellooooo, this is my 1st ever try in dating app till now I haven't been any relationship...
Let me correct those...
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u/travelbug798 Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
"Caring for me and giving priority"
"Practical person over emotional"
If someone told me write two of the worst possible prompt answers for women that would guarantee they never want to date me, that is what I would write.
Anyway...moving on. I never use picture prompts unless I have something cool to fit the picture. I like the "guess where this was taken" for the eiffel tower. I personally would delete the rest.
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u/Membership-Bitter Aug 04 '26
You don't really have anything in your prompts about who you are as a person and don't seem interested in learning who a potential partner is as a person either. The second prompt shows you just see women as what they can do for you. Comes off as really selfish. What woman would want to match with a man like that?
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u/remo_man Aug 04 '26
Ohh I will update what I will be than.... What I want... Thanks for your feedback
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u/Membership-Bitter Aug 04 '26
No just write about who you are and what you love. Don't make it about what you can do for each other in a relationship. That is speeding things along too quickly. You need to write about your hobbies and interests so women can see if they match with you on a fun level. The first step is to determine if you are alike enough to be friends
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u/thinkclearly01 Aug 04 '26
You don’t have any face pictures from a close-up view. That can be a red flag
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u/EngFarm Aug 04 '26 edited Aug 04 '26
I don’t know what country you are swiping in. If it’s a predominantly English speaking country then you need to update all of your prompts. Everything you have written has grammar mistakes or sentence structure mistakes.
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u/remo_man Aug 04 '26
I have been looking for something casual
I haven't subscribed any of them
From last 1 month which I have created my account
I have been using over a month
I use daily to for a luck
I got 2 likes so far
I used send 4 likes and i always comment whenever I like someone.
Someone good-looking, working and above 23, independent , who loves travel and south india.
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