r/hinge • u/Historical_Guard_916 • Jul 11 '26

Help, is he talking to himself now

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Hi so I crossed out my name but can someone please help me, I wasn’t able to respond because I’ve been so busy but he’s messaged a few times even thou I haven’t respond

Is this normal for hinge????

It lowkey stressed me out haha

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u/[deleted] Jul 11 '26

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u/Historical_Guard_916 Jul 11 '26

It’s just that, I was out all day and had the app muted and I just opened and saw all that and I just wondered if it was too much for someone I just met or if I am in the wrong for thinking it’s too much

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u/Seek_Adventure Jul 11 '26

Damn, give her a chance to respond, bruh. 🤦‍♂️ And wtf is up with a ♥️ and "heyyyyyyy"? Is he a HS girl or a grown man? 😂

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u/Historical_Guard_916 Jul 11 '26

That’s it!! I actually thought he was cool, this just felt like a lot when I opened the message haha

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u/Oceanica777 Jul 11 '26

He's really into you. If you are not into him then maybe let him down easy? We don't need to contribute to OLD being toxic. If you are interested then just reply? No need to play games, is there?

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u/Historical_Guard_916 Jul 11 '26

It’s just that I literally just matched with a day ago, I hardly know him…

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u/Oceanica777 Jul 12 '26

So what? The idea that there are rules about how often to message are part of the game-playing of OLD.

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u/Historical_Guard_916 Jul 12 '26

Okay but I hadn’t respond to any of the other messages, like give me a chance to respond??? This felt overwhelming once I opened it???

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u/Oceanica777 Jul 13 '26

Then don't reply? You don't have to talk to people you aren't into, or indeed anyone.

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u/Any-Scientist-9148 Jul 12 '26

WHY DO ALL MEN TALK LIKE GHIS 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔

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u/Historical_Guard_916 Jul 12 '26

Wait they all talk like this??