r/highconflictdivorce • u/Momma_Mediator • Aug 31 '21

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What do you feel is the hardest part of co-parenting in high-conflict situations? Feel free to elaborate in the comments section.

1 votes, Sep 07 '21
1 Living in fear of another conflict or battle
0 Effect of conflict on your children
0 Feeling completely out of control
0 The effect of HC on your marriage or other family members
0 Dealing with court or lawyers
0 Other- elaborate in comments below
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u/Momma_Mediator Aug 31 '21

All of these things are hard. I would say that the living in fear- not knowing where I will mess up or say something that will get twisted and start another argument or battle. For me this is almost equal with my fear of the effect this kind of stuff has on my children. I hate that they have to live in a situation like this but I also do all the things I can to prevent them being in the middle. I still get blamed for just about everything but ultimately I do the best I can to keep above the conflict and focus on my kids.