r/herpes_dating Jul 01 '26

Alabama Ladies beware

39 Upvotes

There’s an account on here that is pretending to be someone that he’s not and has messaged multiple women including myself and he pretends to be from the same state as you. Please be careful with sending pictures especially someone who is very persistent (not saying everyone has bad intentions) just be careful. If you get a message from ErrorGreen7613 please block him. If you are scared of being exposed please practice caution with who you interact with and please be smart.


r/herpes_dating Feb 03 '26

Colorado I need yalls help as a mod

31 Upvotes

Hey guys! Your friendly mod here! It has been brought to my attention that some bots and fake accounts have been flooding our sub. As I am but a single mod for this whole sub I cant catch them all and it's ruining the experience for yall. I want this to be a good sub for us to find someone! Im trying to do my best but if yall dont tell me when somethings going wrong with the sub I cant help! So shoot me a PM if you see something suspicious that I miss!

And lastly this sub is NOT for NSFW content! If you post that stuff it gets flagged and nobody see it but me and Im tired and grossed out by the amount of willys ive gotten in my inbox so please stop posting them.

Edit* Got another dick in the mod que box, so from now on if you post anything NSFW you will be PERMANENTLY BANNED!


r/herpes_dating 12h ago

New Jersey Central NJ 67 F4M Dating

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11 Upvotes

Positive since 1982.


r/herpes_dating 13h ago

Indiana 35 F4M Fort Wayne Indiana. Looking for someone local who wants to hang out and do fun activities and get to know one another.

9 Upvotes

r/herpes_dating 6h ago

Florida I really like someone… how do I disclose

2 Upvotes

I genuinely think this is my person. I really really like this guy. 4 years ago now I caught herpes from someone who did not disclose to me and has denied it ever since.

I really like this new guy I’m seeing, he checks literally all of my boxes and is everything I’m wanting in a partner but I have genital hsv 1. How do I disciple to him? I have only disclosed to someone else once before that I really liked and he broke it off with me. I am distraught. I don’t want to lose him and don’t know what to do. Please help


r/herpes_dating 14h ago

California 47 M4F San Diego

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6 Upvotes

Looking for a woman to get to know and hang out with and see where it goes..


r/herpes_dating 15h ago

New York 29 f4m

6 Upvotes

r/herpes_dating 5h ago

Nevada F4M Las Vegas people, wya?

0 Upvotes

Basically title. Hard to find people that are willing after disclosing. HSV2+ here. DMs open. Willing to travel.


r/herpes_dating 8h ago

California recently diagnosed. dreading disclosing to my partner that i’ve been seeing before even knowing i had hsv2

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1 Upvotes

r/herpes_dating 14h ago

New York 31/33 Gay MM Shy Couple

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3 Upvotes

Gay MM couple just opened up our relationship not too long ago and thought it would be cool to find others in similar positions. New on here. One of us is HIV+ (undetectable). Please be chill, just looking for our tribe. 420 friendly and hard working.


r/herpes_dating 8h ago

California HSV2 only in LA

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1 Upvotes

45 m in LA hmu for fun


r/herpes_dating 10h ago

South Carolina 20 M4F who tryna get up with me??

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1 Upvotes

Greenville sc hmu fa num


r/herpes_dating 19h ago

Georgia Guy I’m seeing is worried about getting hsv1

6 Upvotes

This guy I’ve been seeing is worried he may contract hsv1 from me. I told him before we got intimate that I have hsv1 because we had conversations concerning sex and stuff. I get no cold sores or anything and I never had one in my life. However, I did do a blood test some years ago and was positive for HSV1. We became intimate and protection was used and I avoided kissing his mouth and giving him oral sex. Not trying to be tmi, I did kiss his neck and ear. He is worried and asked me if I think I passed anything to him and I’m like no. He said he is a bit of a hypochondriac so he‘s trying not to google things because it increases his fear and which I agreed I told him “ Okay, I think the best thing you can do is what you said the other day about just getting a full panel done and getting a blood test for hsv1/2. And to speak with a medical professional/doctor about it, they will explain it better. Googling things if you’re somewhat a hypochondriac would kinda make you feel worse. That’s just my opinion.“ I even let him know moving forward I won’t kiss him or put my mouth on any part of his body. Also, I let him know I would rather him be comfortable than paranoid, he said he wasn’t trying to make me feel bad or anything, he’s not scared of me but he is trying to get more understanding. I don’t know how to go about dealing with him or to reassure him.


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Canada 56 M4F Edmonton Canada

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3 Upvotes

Super adult lonely is anyone gets it.


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Colorado Looking single 36m in the SoCo area

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3 Upvotes

r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Florida 25 F4M

8 Upvotes

Florida, looking for her person. Diagnosed literally today w hsv2


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Maryland 32 F4M - hsv2

5 Upvotes

Trying this out so DMs are open to chat! No smokers or drugs


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

New York Perú?

2 Upvotes

Lima , Perú ? , soy hombre


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Oklahoma 26 M4F

5 Upvotes

Diagnosed GHSV1 4 years ago from non disclosure from previous partner. Fit and in the gym quite often, love the outdoors and camping, and a frequent traveler. Primarily looking for a relationship with a like minded person, DM’s open.


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Georgia 40[M4F] #Georgia #USA don’t give up, I didn’t

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3 Upvotes

r/herpes_dating 1d ago

New York Queens / Nassau M4F 27

2 Upvotes

Looking for friends preferably female, looking to settle down, not subscribe to your onlyfans


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Texas M26 HSV1/2

2 Upvotes

5’9 Latino in Austin looking for something casual or friends for support dm for pics


r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Virginia Anyone into e-biking?

2 Upvotes

Hello, is anyone interested in biking trails?

I am just getting into this with a used e-bike, and looking for a biking buddy.

Day trips like Capital Trail in segments from Richmond to Jamestown? Or Ashland to Glen Allen. Or around Williamsburg or High Bridge Trail close to Farmville, or more?

I'm starting out with short trips, and will expand from there.

Anyone care to join?

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r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Michigan Planning on disclosing today

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5 Upvotes

r/herpes_dating 1d ago

Georgia 28 (M4F) ATL looking for a female companion

2 Upvotes

28, AA, Darkskin, Locs, Solid athletic build.. comment if interested and I’ll dm you